
The Real Reason Boundaries Backfire
31/10/2025 | 11 mins.
You set a boundary to bring calm...but somehow it turns into another storm.Your ānoā becomes an argument.Your calm turns into shutdown.And youāre left wondering, why does this keep happening?In this episode, Debbie reveals whatās really going on beneath those moments and why even well-intentioned limits can trigger resistance instead of respect, especially for neurodivergent children, teens, and young adults. Youāll discover the hidden signal your nervous system sends before you even speak, and how shifting your inner state changes everything about how your boundaries land.š Want to go deeper?Watch the full replay of our November workshop:āBoundaries That Build Trust & Respect: How to Stay Connected While Holding Your Ground.āš Available now inside the NDM Circle Community at NDM.Circle.so

5 Signs Anxiety Is Undermining Your Loved Oneās Independence
24/10/2025 | 13 mins.
Youāve tried motivating.Youāve tried reminding.Youāve even tried backing off.But no matter what you do, your child, teen, or young adult still seems stuckāavoiding new experiences, hesitating to take initiative, or shutting down when expectations rise.In this episode, Debbie shares five subtle ways anxiety hides behind behaviors that look like procrastination, resistance, or laziness and how misreading them can keep families locked in conflict instead of connection. Youāll discover whatās really going on beneath the surface and why building self-trust (not pushing harder) is the key to independence that lasts.Want to go deeper?Watch the full replay of our October workshop: āHelping Your Neurodivergent Overcome Anxiety & Build Self-Trustāš Available now inside the NDM Circle Community at NDM.Circle.so

Parenting the Long Game with Jason
06/9/2025 | 15 mins.
When your neurodivergent child, teen, or young adult is strugglingāmeltdowns, shutdowns, missed deadlines, constant remindersāitās tempting to look for the fastest fix.But parenting for quick results often comes at the expense of long-term growth.In this episode, Jason shares why a developmental approachāfocusing on emotional growth, ownership, and sustainable neural pathwaysāis far more powerful than a behavioral one. Youāll hear why playing the long game means meeting your child where they are developmentally, not where the world says they āshouldā be, and how that shift can transform mental health, college readiness, and life skills.If youāve ever wondered where to invest your time and energy for the biggest impact, this conversation will help you step out of fear-based reactions and into a mentoring mindset that fosters confidence, resilience, and lasting success.š± Want mentoring tools and support to help your child, teen, or young adult thrive for the long haul? Join our NDM Circle Community for live workshops, coaching, and a network of parents walking the same path.š Learn more and join us at NDM.Circle.so

Unlocking Joy: Moving Beyond Relief in Neurodivergent Lives with Jason
01/9/2025 | 21 mins.
Relief feels good.The meltdown is over. The pressure is gone. The stress has eased.For many neurodivergent children, teens, and young adults, relief can start to feel like the ultimate goalābecause itās safe, predictable, and immediate. But it's crucial to understand: relief isnāt the same as joy. And chasing it can keep them from the deeper connections and experiences that bring real fulfillment.In this episode, Jason unpacks the difference between fleeting relief and lasting joy. He challenges the myth that neurodivergent individuals donāt crave emotional connection and shares how intentional boundaries, meaningful attachments, and personal growth can open the door to a richer, more satisfying life.š± Want tools to help your neurodivergent loved one move beyond comfort-seeking and into a life thatās worth living?Join our NDM Circle Community for live workshops, practical mentoring strategies, and a space where youāre never alone in the journey.š Learn more and join us at NDM.Circle.so

From Autopilot to Intentional Living: Rewiring the Neurodivergent Brain with Jason
15/8/2025 | 15 mins.
When youāre living life on autopilot, itās easy to end up in the same loops, reacting the same way, making the same choices, and feeling stuck in the same results.For neurodivergent children, teens, and young adults, those loops can be even harder to break.And not because theyāre lazy or resistant⦠but because the brain literally gets āgroovedā into patterns like a scratched record that skips in the same place over and over.In this episode, Jason shares how those grooves form, why theyāre so hard to change, and what it takes to create new ones. Youāll learn how intentional reflection can rewire the brain, helping you (and your loved one) move beyond automatic, survival-mode reactions into a higher-brain way of living, one that opens the door to growth, resilience, and deeper connection.š± Want tools and support to help your neurodivergent child, teen, or young adult break free from stuck patterns?Join our NDM Circle Community for live workshops, practical mentoring strategies, and a supportive space where youāre not doing this alone.š Learn more and join us at NDM.Circle.so



Autism & Neurodiversity