disSOLViNG Fear

Welcome to the podcast! Show #108.

In this episode (Season 3, Episode 39), Alissa shares some takeaways that you can easily apply to your own life, starting today.

Her advice includes:
​Focus on the important things day after day.
​Distractions can lead you off your path.
​Make decisions from the heart, as this simplifies your journey.
​Write down your goals, as this makes you 42% more likely to act on them.
​Small steps take you big places. Dream big but start small, with small consistent action on a regular basis.

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Show #107! Welcome to the podcast.

In this episode (Season 3, Episode 38), Alissa's messages of valuing yourself, your preferences, and your one precious life really hit home.

You’ve been told your whole life you matter — but do you really feel it and act like it?

Tune in, and start to feel it and act like you matter. Identity what matters to you, and work with what you have right now, to make your life more ideal, meaningful, and fun!

Alissa spent 37 years in school, work, marriage, and parenthood — only to realize she had forgotten the MOST important thing: YOU get to decide what matters in life. You matter.

It’s NOT about what you think you "should" do. It’s about your choices, plans, and desires. When you finally understood that, everything changes.

Alissa quit the safe job, got divorced, and went all-in on her dreams. She built a life that feels authentic, alive, and aligned.

Your story can change, too. Ask yourself: What do I want to build? What is one thing I can do today, to build a more ideal life? Write down your ideas. Plan on them. Own them. Act on them, like your plans are truly yours to carry out.

Now you’re not just surviving—you’re thriving.

You matter. Your dreams matter. And this moment? It’s your re-start. It's the beginning of a "serious era:" a time to take yourself seriously and go after what you want in life.

Why? So that you can enjoy what is important to you, and have fun, and enjoy life to the fullest!

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In this episode (Season 3, Episode 37, Show #106), Alissa shares tips for seeing the truth in any situation and trusting your judgement, discernment, and intuition. This inspirational message is for YOU if you want to be in charge of your life, and you're ready to go let of people who don't appreciate you, so that you can take smart, logical action, and nurture yourself in new and fun ways. Whew! All that in under 17 minutes!

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In this episode (Season 3, Episode 36), Alissa shares a story about having FOBO (fear of better options) and FOMO (fear of missing out) on behalf of her pet pug!

What if there isn't a better option that you should be afraid of missing out on? What if you were perfectly content with some aspects of life?

What if your marriage is pretty dang perfect, and your house is just fine. What if you're healthy, happy, and in love with your life, and your biggest challenge is enjoying yourself.

Sometimes it's hard to settle into a feeling of contentment. You might feel compelled to start a new project, set a new goal, or optimize your life with the latest fad, when really it's all good.

When life is trucking along peacefully without a hitch, don't convince yourself that you (or your pets) are missing out on better options, and somehow need a more optimal life than the one you're living. Fear is a liar. Anxiety is a liar that nags at you, with FOBO, FOMO, and a need to troubleshoot things that are causing you zero trouble! Some things, relationships, people, pets, and financial arrangements are just fine as they are.

When your anxiety starts creating FOBO and FOMO in your mind, the only thing you have to fear is fear itself.

Anxiety can creep into our lives as FOBO or FOMO, but those fears do NOT run the show, YOU do. Don't let anxiety push you to look for better options when it comes to your fitness routine, your finances, your love life, your family, or even your pets! You're not missing out. Relax and enjoy what you have.

Anxiety might tell you that you need to "fix" something or improve it, when really it's all good. If you've been giving your power away to FOBO and FOMO, tune in! Share this episode with any loved ones in your life.

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In this episode (Season 3, Episode 35) Alissa Shirk speaks to the winner inside of you and helps you coach yourself toward even better and more fulfilling relationships and friendships.

This episode is also on YouTube @MissAlissaShirk.

Tune in for some genuine clarity and advice when it comes to managing your relationships and heading into a bright future.

Card pulls and coaching cards are a creative and sophisticated way to explore fresh perspectives and create your most ideal life. Tune in, focus on your deepest desires, and discover profound personal freedom.

This episode is an empowering reminder that you have the power to shape your reality and enjoy a meaningful, peaceful life.

Follow the call of your heart and soul, especially when it comes to your current relationships and your future dreams.

Take care of yourself and thank you for being here, at disSOLViNG Fear, where fear doesn’t run the show, YOU do!

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Fear doesn't run the show, YOU DO!

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