Tribe Sober - inspiring an alcohol free life!

On this weeks solo episode I talk about our 3-month Breaking Free program which we run just three times a year. 

Registration for the current program is open   - more info on tribesober.com

We limit each Breaking Free group to 20 so you’ll always get personal attention

In this episode:-

I talk about the warning signs of alcohol dependence as well as the benefits of an alcohol free lifestyle

The Breaking Free program has four components…

Four pieces of a puzzle that come together to create a transformation…

The first piece of the puzzle is Community Support so we connect you with the other people on the Breaking Free program

 We put you in a chatgroup with where you’ll also find some TS team members to answer any questions you may have

You'll also be invited to several Zoom meetings every week

The second piece is our Masterclass – a group session which we hold via Zoom.  Another opportunity to get to know the other people on the program as everyone will share their story at the beginning of the session.  By the end of the Masterclass you’ll understand:-

The importance of a mindset change and the damage alcohol does to our health

We’ll be sharing our tried and tested sobriety toolkit and you’ll end the session feeling motivated and excited about the changes ahead.

While the Masterclass will give you an overview of the Tribe Sober approach to thriving in sobriety the online course will enable you to dive deeper at your own pace.  You’ll get all the theory and training you need to overturn your limiting beliefs around alcohol which is the key….

Just as we’ve been programmed into thinking that alcohol is an essential part of our daily lives our online program will de-program you and enable you to understand that you will be happier and healthier without it!

The third piece is our online course which includes videos, podcasts, articles and book recommendations so you’ll be able to throw the book at your sobriety – you’ll be able to treat it as a 3-month project that will take a deep dive into psychology, biology and neuroscience - a project that will change the trajectory of your future.

The fourth part of the puzzle is the personal support. 

You’ll have a 1.2.1 Zoom call with Monica who will explain how everything work and help you with any tech issues

Mid-way through the 3 month program you'll have a session with Coach Lynette to review learnings so far

A final session with our Coach Darren who will discuss how you are applying the theory of the Breaking Free program to your daily life

So that’s the four pieces of our Breaking Free puzzle, four pieces that will come together to create an alcohol free lifestyle that you love..

Apart from creating a program that will get results we’ve created a program that is flexible and will fit in with your busy lives…. 

All of the 1.2.1’s can be scheduled to suit your convenience, the online course can be worked through at your own pace so the only timeslot you need to fit in is the Masterclass. (we can send you a recording if  you can't make it)

While we’re on the subject of time that’s one of the unexpected benefits of sobriety….. when we no longer spend time drinking and recovering from the drinking we find ourselves with extra time on our hands….

As well as the energy to do something constructive with that time!

Registration for the current Breaking Free program is open - more info on tribesober.com

More Info


Tribe Sober membership – you can join up HERE.

To access our website, click HERE.

If you would like a free copy of our “Annual Tracker” or our e-book 66 Days to Sobriety, please email [email protected].

If you would like to come to our Saturday afternoon Zoom Cafe as a guest and meet our community, just email [email protected].

 

Episode Sponsor

This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today
Read more about our program and subscribe HERE

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Today’s guest is Liz, a 51-year-old writer living in the UK, who joins us to share her story about gray area drinking, late-diagnosed ADHD, and finding freedom through an alcohol-free life.

In this episode:

Liz explained how alcohol gradually became woven into every aspect of her life 
She reflected on years spent trying to moderate, feeling deprived on non-drinking days 

We explored how late-diagnosed ADHD and perimenopause created the “perfect storm,”

Liz explained how discovering the neurological connection between ADHD and alcohol helped her replace shame with understanding and self-compassion.

why moderation often creates more mental turmoil than freedom

Liz also spoke warmly about the role of the Tribe Sober community, the Breaking Free course and friendships formed in sobriety.

We’ve just opened up our tenth Breaking Free program for enrolment so you can find more info on our website or just email me [email protected]

You can join our 7 day Reset program by clicking on this link 

One of the most powerful parts of the conversation is Liz’s realization that sobriety does not remove joy - it allows genuine joy to re-emerge.

She describes feeling freer, calmer, more authentic and more hopeful about the future than she has in years.

You can contact Liz via her blog - here is the link 

More Info


This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today
Read more about our program and subscribe HERE

Help us to Spread the Word!

We made this podcast so that we can reach more people who need our help.  Please subscribe and share.

If you enjoyed the podcast, then please leave us a 5-star review on Apple podcasts.

Take a screenshot of your review, and DM it to Tribe Sober’s Instagram page – see PS below for instructions. We’ll send you something special to say thank you!

We release a podcast episode every Saturday morning.

You can follow Tribe Sober on Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and Instagram.

PS: How to Leave a Rating/Review in Apple Podcasts (on an iOS Device)

Open the Podcasts app. EASY.

Choose “Search” from the bottom row of icons and enter the name of the show (e.g. Recover Like a Mother) into the search field.

Select the show under Shows (not under Episodes).

Scroll down past the first few episodes until you see Ratings & Reviews.

Click Write a Review underneath the displayed reviews from other listeners. You’ll then have the option to rate the show on a 5-star scale and write a review (you can rate without writing too but it’s always good to read your experience).

Creating From the Future Instead of the Past
Why the Brain Chooses Alcohol and How Recovery Rewires Us
In this week’s episode, Lynette explores why lasting sobriety is not simply about willpower — it’s about understanding how the brain works.

Our brains are prediction-making machines. They are constantly reaching for what feels familiar, even when those familiar patterns are hurting us. Alcohol, overthinking, scrolling, numbing, people pleasing, avoidance — these can all become practiced neural pathways that the brain automatically returns to in moments of stress, uncertainty, or emotional discomfort.

In this deeply reflective episode, Lynette explores:

Why the brain confuses familiar with safe

How automatic thought patterns like “I deserve it” become conditioned pathways

The role of uncertainty in addiction and emotional coping

Why awareness is the first step in rewiring

The “vending machine brain” metaphor and how we begin stocking the mind differently

How tiny repeated choices reshape identity and emotional resilience

Why recovery is repetition, not perfection

The power of community, support, and nervous system regulation in healing

How Tribe Sober, Path to Purpose, and Positive Intelligence help create lasting transformation

Lynette also shares the story of “Lisa,” a woman beginning her sober journey and learning to recognize voices like Association Alice, Moderation Mary, and the Wine Witch — and how catching these patterns begins changing the brain itself.

This episode is an invitation to stop living from autopilot and begin creating consciously from the future instead of the past.

In this episode:

“The brain predicts from the past. Recovery asks us to create from the future.”

Why the thoughts you practice become the thoughts your brain prefers

The neuroscience behind habit loops and emotional survival patterns

How small daily shifts create profound identity change over time

Why healing struggles in isolation but grows in community

Reflection for the week:
Audit one small pattern honestly:

The first hour of your morning

The voice you use after a mistake

The last app you check before bed

The stories you rehearse most often

Then change one thing by 10%.

Not dramatically.
Just intentionally.

Enough for your brain to notice:
“We are doing something differently now.”

Resources & Support
https://www.tribesober.com/join-our-tribe/

To connect with Lynette:
[email protected]

Music Credit
Intro and outro music:
“Remember” by Sutherland.

Nigel Jones is a hypnotherapist, life coach and author of Walking Back to Happiness.

He is over five years alcohol-free — and in this conversation he shares a powerful insight that sits right at the heart of lasting change:

👉 Identity

We talk about why so many people struggle to quit drinking…
why willpower alone doesn’t work…
and how shifting from “I’m a drinker trying to stop” to “I’m a non-drinker” can change everything.

Nigel explained how repeated attempts to quit failed — until he made one crucial shift: changing his identity.

Instead of seeing himself as “a drinker trying to stop,” he stepped fully into the identity of a non-drinker — and everything changed.

Together, we explored:

Why identity is the foundation of lasting sobriety

How limiting beliefs keep us stuck in the drinking cycle

The “tabletop technique” for dismantling false beliefs about alcohol

Why alcohol promises what sobriety actually delivers

How visualising your future self can accelerate change

The role of environment, community, and “your tribe” in recovery

The surprising physical benefits of quitting — including Nigel’s calculation that he’s saved 26 million heartbeats

Nigel also shared some practical tools from hypnotherapy and coaching that can help you rewire your thinking and build a fulfilling alcohol-free life.

You can contact Nigel via his website….9kmby9am

You can join our 7 day Reset program by clicking on this link 

More Info


This episode is sponsored by the Tribe Sober Membership Program.  If you want to change your relationship with alcohol then sign up today
Read more about our program and subscribe HERE

Help us to Spread the Word!

We made this podcast so that we can reach more people who need our help.  Please subscribe and share.

If you enjoyed the podcast, then please leave us a 5-star review on Apple podcasts.

Take a screenshot of your review, and DM it to Tribe Sober’s Instagram page – see PS below for instructions. We’ll send you something special to say thank you!

We release a podcast episode every Saturday morning.

You can follow Tribe Sober on Facebook, Twitter, TikTok and Instagram.

PS: How to Leave a Rating/Review in Apple Podcasts (on an iOS Device)

Open the Podcasts app. EASY.

Choose “Search” from the bottom row of icons and enter the name of the show (e.g. Recover Like a Mother) into the search field.

Select the show under Shows (not under Episodes).

Scroll down past the first few episodes until you see Ratings & Reviews.

Click Write a Review underneath the displayed reviews from other listeners. You’ll then have the option to rate the show on a 5-star scale and write a review (you can rate without writing too but it’s always good to read your experience).

From Stopping Drinking to Truly Living: Your Path to Purpose

 

We often talk about stopping drinking… and yes, that is the first powerful step.

But what happens next?

Because for so many of us, alcohol was never the real problem. It was the coping mechanism. The plaster over something deeper — our unhappiness, our uncertainty, our disconnection, our sense that life wasn’t quite working.

In this episode, Lynette shares her personal journey beyond early sobriety — through the flatness of anhedonia, through the discomfort of not knowing, and into the deeper work that truly changed her life.

This is the space where many people struggle…

The space where the old coping mechanisms call us back.

The space where we either return to old patterns — or begin to evolve.

Lynette explores:

Why stopping drinking is just the beginning

The role of uncertainty in keeping us stuck

How outdated beliefs keep us trapped in cycles of “revolving”

The shift from victimhood to personal power

Why real transformation is a daily practice, not a one-time event

At the heart of this episode is a powerful question inspired by Dr Edith Eger

Are you evolving… or revolving?

🌿 A Gentle Invitation
If you are Sober and feeling that pull for something more…

More meaning

More connection

More purpose

More you

Then this may be your moment to go deeper.

Lynette’s Path to Purpose membership is designed for this stage —

the stage beyond stopping drinking, where we begin to free ourselves from old patterns, outdated beliefs, and the mental prisons that keep us stuck.

This is about:

Rewiring your thinking

Releasing emotional and physical tension

Reconnecting to your authentic self

Creating a life that feels aligned, meaningful, and alive

👉 Explore Path to Purpose:

https://www.tribesober.com/path-to-purpose/

 

📩 Or reach out directly to Lynette:

[email protected]

🎶 Music Credit
Intro and outro music: “Remember” by Sutherland

If you enjoyed this episode, please share it with someone who might need to hear it today.

Because stopping drinking is not the end of the story…

It’s the beginning of your life.