Quality Queen Control

Ever hang out with a "friend" and leave feeling completely exhausted, anxious, or small?

In this revealing episode of Quality Queen Control, Asha Christina breaks down what an emotionally draining friend looks like the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs they're an energy vampire sucking your joy, peace, and mental bandwidth.

From constant venting without reciprocity, one-sided conversations where your needs are ignored, endless drama/crisis mode, negativity that rubs off on you, guilt-tripping, walking on eggshells, passive-aggression, or making everything about them.

These patterns aren't "just tough times"; they're toxic drains on your spirit.Asha blends psychology red flags (emotional exhaustion, imbalance, lack of empathy) with faith-rooted truth: God calls you to loving relationships that build up, not tear down.

Learn to spot these signs early, set boundaries without guilt, heal from resentment, prioritize friendships that recharge you, and step into high-value connections that honor your worth and calling. Stop pouring into people who leave your cup empty.

"Babe, he hates you" harsh words, but sometimes the truth hurts when a man's jealousy masquerades as "love."

In this raw, empowering episode of Quality Queen Control, Asha Christina breaks down how to identify when a man is jealous of you the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs he's threatened by your success, beauty, confidence, ambition, or light.

From passive-aggressive comments, downplaying your wins, constant criticism, sabotage disguised as "advice," withholding celebration, controlling behavior, or even copying/undermining you jealousy isn't cute; it's toxic and often rooted in his insecurity, not your flaws. 

Asha blends psychology insights on envy/intimidation with faith-based wisdom: God didn't design you to shrink for insecure men or block your own blessings by staying with someone who resents your rise.

Learn to spot these red flags early, protect your peace, raise your standards, heal from toxic dynamics, and attract high-value men who celebrate not compete with your God-given greatness. No more dimming your shine for a man who secretly hates your glow.

Ever wonder why you always end up cramming at the last second, even when you know better?

In this eye-opening episode of Quality Queen Control, Asha Christina uncovers why we wait until the last minute, the psychology and neuroscience behind procrastination: emotion avoidance, dopamine crashes, perfectionism fears, overwhelm, and that sneaky "urgency rush" that tricks your brain into thinking pressure equals performance.

But it's deeper than habits it's often rooted in low self-trust, fear of starting imperfectly, or not fully believing in God's timing and provision for your purpose. Asha blends real science (like limbic system resistance and self-regulation fails) with biblical wisdom on diligence, stewardship, and overcoming fear to show you how to stop the cycle for good.

Get practical, queen-level strategies: break tasks into micro-steps, rewire your mindset with faith affirmations, build dopamine through small wins, set grace-filled boundaries, and align your actions with your God-given calling no more panic mode, just peaceful, consistent progress.

Stop letting procrastination steal your peace and blessings.

Are you dimming your light because it feels "safer"?

In this powerful episode of Quality Queen Control, Asha Christina confronts why playing small is blocking your blessings, how fear disguised as humility, limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, and shrinking back from your gifts quietly sabotage the abundance, purpose, and breakthroughs God has prepared for you.

Blending biblical truth (like hiding your talent in the ground or being a light on a hill), psychology on fear-based patterns, and real-life revelation, Asha reveals the signs you're playing small: settling in relationships, careers, or calling; avoiding risks; people-pleasing over purpose.

Learn to break free from false humility, release the fear of shining, reclaim your God-given power, raise your standards, and boldly step into the high-value, abundant life you're destined for no more blocking the flow!This is your divine invitation to stop playing small.

Your blessings aren't delayed sometimes they're just waiting for you to stop hiding. Shine unapologetically; the world (and heaven) needs your full light!

Think you're fully self-aware? Think again.

In this mind-blowing episode of Quality Queen Control, Asha Christina exposes the self-awareness illusion—that sneaky belief that we truly know ourselves, when most of us are blind to massive gaps in our self-perception, hidden biases, ego defenses, and outdated stories we've told ourselves for years.Blending psychology insights on introspection illusions, blind spots, and the constructed "self" with faith-based revelation, Asha reveals how these illusions keep you stuck in low self-worth, toxic patterns, people-pleasing, and settling for less than God's design for you.

Learn to spot the signs of false self-knowledge, dismantle the ego's tricks, uncover your authentic identity rooted in truth, and step into unshakeable confidence as the high-value woman you're called to be.