Episode 102: Swallowed Truths & Other Lies We Called Love
Hey Selfies, This one's for the woman who stayed too long. The woman who confused disappearing with devotion. The woman who swallowed her truth and called it maturity. In today's episode, I'm not holding back. I'm calling out the lie we were sold about love, and what it means to reclaim every wild, holy, selfish part of you. We're talking: Self-abandonment vs real love The truth about staying 'loyal' when your soul is dying Why compassion isn't an excuse for self-betrayal And the moment everything shifts when you say: 'I am mine.' This episode might hurt a little. And then it will free you. Hit play. Then share it. Because we don't gatekeep liberation around here. Join The Phoenix Book a consultation
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Episode 101: Make Money in your soft era: feminine flow & wild wealth with Jennifer Whitaker
In this week's episode I'm joined by feminine business coach and founder of the Earth Flow Method, Jennifer Whitaker, for a grounded, soul-shifting conversation about coming home to your feminine energy. We explore why so many women stay stuck in their masculine - pushing, hustle, productivity, responsibility - and what becomes possible when we slow down, sync with nature, and allow the wild abundance that's been waiting for us. Jennifer shares how the rhythms of the Earth are more than metaphors, they're a direct line to your magnetism, your wisdom, and your wealth. She breaks down what seasonal living looks like, how to get out of hustle mode, and offers daily practices that reconnect you to your feminine flow. If you've ever felt burned out, overextended, or disconnected from yourself - this conversation will feel like a breath of forest air. Connect with Jennifer: https://jenwhitaker.kartra.com/page/SacredRituals Join The Phoenix
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Episode 100! This is the Moment When Everything Changes
One hundred episodes ago, I hit record. I didn't know where it would lead - only that something in me had to break free. Today, it's not a celebration. It's a summoning. This episode is the line in the sand. The mirror. The match. The moment everything changes - not just for me, but for you. Inside this transmission, I speak to the woman who's ready to stop shrinking, stop performing, and stop waiting for someone else to give her permission. Because you were never broken. You were just buried. And now...you're being called back. The Summons begins May 19. Seven sacred transmission. My voice in your ear. No fluff. No formulas. Just the truth your soul remembers. You don't need more information. You need initiation. The portal opens soon. But you already feel it, don't you? Answer The Summons More resources: Join The Selfish Woman Movement Follow Valerie Jones on Instagram. Join the fun on TikTok! Claim your space. Burn the rulebook. Become the woman your past self never saw coming.
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Episode 99: Exhausted and over it: Stop performing already!
If you feel drained, depleted, and like no matter how much rest you get, you're still exhausted....you're not alone! You're not tired because life is hard. You're tired because you're stuck performing. Performing as the nice girl. Performing as the easygoing woman. Performing to keep the peace and please everyone. This is women's burnout hiding in plain sight - and nobody's talking about it. In this episode, I reveal the real reason you're so exhausted (spoiler alert: it's not your to-do list), how 'being nice' is slowly draining your energy, and how to stop people pleasing so you can reclaim your power. You'll learn: Why performing makes women invisible and miserable How the good girl identity keeps you stuck in burnout What to do to stop being nice and start being real How to recover your energy and step into your selfish era You don't need more rest. You need to stop performing. If you're exhausted and over it, this episode will show you how to break free and start living for YOU. Sign up for Glow Notes! Check out my guest spot on The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast!
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Episode 98: Out of Office: Why rest is the new power move
In this bonus episode, I'm coming to you with sand in my suitcase and rebellion in my bones. Let's talk about the guilt we feel when we rest. The fear that if we stop, everything will fall apart. The lie that our worth is tied to our productivity. For years, I couldn't stop. Raising kids. Building a business. Surviving heartbreak. Rebuilding after divorce (twice). Hustling for my worth every damn day. And when I finally had space? I didn't know how to exist inside it. I'm sharing the truth behind what it took for me to feel safe doing less, and why my vacation isn't just a 'break'...it's a power move. Why rest feels dangerous for high-achieving women How scarcity and survival conditioning keep us overworking The nervous system regulation I had to to to tolerate white space on my calendar Why I'm sliding into vacation mode like the CEO I am And how this is the Selfish Woman Lifestyle: rest without guilt, joy without justification. This isn't just a vacation. It's what happens when a woman heals. So pour yourself a drink, get cozy, and join me for a conversation about reclaiming your time, your peace, and your power. Leave a review and share this with a woman who never stops. She needs to hear this.
This podcast isn't here to inspire you - it's here to summon you.
Hosted by Valerie Jones, this podcast is a transmission for women who are done playing nice, done waiting for permission, and done living small. If you've been burning quietly, this show hands you the match.
Each episode delivers the raw truth you didn't know you needed - part mirror, part wake-up call, part spiritual slap.
This isn't self-help. This is a reckoning. A return. A revolution.
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