EP:184 Are you completely drained by noise, crowds, constant talking, and everyday chaos? In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I’m breaking down what it really means to be a sensory avoider—and why that does not mean you’re dramatic, anti-social, or broken.
I walk you through the difference between sensory seekers and sensory avoiders, using simple, real-life examples so you can finally put words to what your body has been trying to tell you. If you crave quiet, calm, predictability, and space, your nervous system may have a low sensory threshold—which means you hit overload much faster than others.
We’ll talk about:
How sensory avoidance shows up in adults: hating crowded places, needing quiet to think, feeling exhausted after social events, snapping at your kids or partner when you’re overstimulated
What sensory avoidance looks like in kids: covering ears, avoiding messy play, hating certain clothing textures, wanting to leave loud parties or busy events “too soon”
Why pushing yourself or your child with “just get used to it” or “stop being so sensitive” actually ignores what the nervous system needs to feel safe
Regulation strategies for sensory avoiders: routines, predictability, quiet spaces, dim lighting, comfortable clothing, alone time, and grounding tools like deep pressure and slow, gentle movement
I also share a personal example from my own family to show that you can be both active and movement-seeking and deeply sensitive to certain inputs (like smells). It’s not about fitting into one box—it’s about truly understanding your unique sensory makeup.
This episode is your permission slip to stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start asking, “What is my nervous system telling me?” When you understand whether you’re a sensory seeker, sensory avoider, or both, you can start building a life, relationships, parenting style, and environment that actually support your brain instead of fighting it.
And this is just part one. In upcoming episodes, I’ll dive into sensory sensitivity and low registration, so you can fully understand your nervous system and your child’s, and finally feel less broken and more empowered.
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Share this episode with a friend, partner, or parent who needs to hear they’re not broken—they’re just wired differently.
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