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Heather Khym, Michelle Benzinger, Sister Miriam James Heidland

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S16 E14 - A Father’s Legacy - Pope Francis
In this episode, we reflect on the legacy of Pope Francis. We talk about how, during his Pontificate, Pope Francis emphasized joy and, through his example, helped us remember to embody this joy in our daily lives to bring others into the Church. We also acknowledge how God has used Pope Francis to speak to us through his writings and discuss which of these writings most profoundly impacted us, how we can pray for our next Pope, and share what we think will be his lasting legacy. Heather’s One Thing - Her Parents Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Firm Foundation by Cody Carnes (and the Maverick City Music Remix ;)) Michelle’s One Thing - Wrightsville Beach in Wilmington , NC Other Resources Mentioned: Papal Homily on the Revolution of Tenderness Pope Francis’ Surprise TED Talk Patris Corde - Apostolic Letter Dilexit Nos - Encyclical Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) - Apostolic Exhortation List of Cardinals attending the Conclave Abiding Together Episodes on Pope Francis’ Writings: The Joy of the Gospel Study Rejoice and Be Glad Study The Sacred Heart (three part series) C’est la Confiance (two part series) Revolution of Tenderness Journal Questions: How have I been blessed by Pope Francis’ pontificate? In what ways do I experience the Gospel as Lent without Easter? How can I embrace the lessons Pope Francis has taught me throughout his papacy in my life? How can I pray for the Church during the conclave? Discussion Questions: How did you receive the news of Pope Francis’ passing? How can we live out Pope Francis’ vision of the Church as a field hospital in our own lives? Which of Pope Francis’ writings left an impactful impression on you? What’s one word you would use to describe Pope Francis’ legacy? Quote to Ponder: "Joy adapts and changes, but it always endures, even as a flicker of life born of our personal certainty that, when everything is said and done, we are infinitely loved." (Pope Francis) Scripture for Lectio: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.” (Romans 15:13) Sponsor - Glory: Women’s Conference: This week’s episode is sponsored by the Glory: Women’s Conference hosted by Steubenville Conferences and our very own Heather Khym! We want to invite you to join Heather, Michelle, and our dear friends Debbie Herbeck, Sarah Kaczmarek, Monica Richards, and Sarah Kroger who will be leading us in worship, this June 6-8 in Steubenville, Ohio as we gather with women across generations and seek God’s presence. We are just about one month out from the Glory: Women’s Conference and tickets are still available! This is the first one and we want you to be part of it, especially since it’s over Pentecost weekend and we know the Holy Spirit will be showing up in big ways. The conference schedule will include talks, worship, prayer experiences, and the opportunity to interact with fellow Abiding Together listeners and new friends from all over who will be flying in. Heather and Michelle would absolutely love to meet you. Whether you come with your Abiding Together small group, with a close friend, or on your own, we can’t wait to gather in fellowship with you. Visit steubenvilleconferences.com/events/glory for more information or to register! Timestamps: 00:00 - Glory: Women’s Conference 01:10 - Intro 02:01 - Welcome 04:14 - How We Found Out 07:02 - His Funeral and the Upcoming Conclave 08:30 - A Grace-filled Time 09:54 - Evangelii Gaudium (Joy of the Gospel) 13:36 - The Church as a Field Hospital 15:52 - Revolution of Tenderness 18:26 - The Lord Deeply Cares for Us 19:48 - Dilexit Nos (The Sacred Heart) 20:27 - The Holy Spirit and the Holy Family 21:12 - His Lasting Legacy 26:08 - How Can We Pray? 29:52 - One Things
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S16 E13 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Epilogue and Preparing for the Triduum
In this episode, we conclude our Lenten book study by focusing on the epilogue and sharing ideas on how to prepare for the Triduum. During Holy Week, our Lord invites us to join Him on His Paschal journey. We reflect on how He takes on our suffering, sin, and brokenness and brings them to the Father so that death may be destroyed forever. We also talk about the importance of remembering how God has transformed our lives, the call to “be not afraid”, and how our Lord is restoring our deepest identities. You are in our prayers dear friends, and we will see you again in the Easter season! Heather’s One Thing - Glory: Women’s Gathering (June 6th-8th 2025) Heather’s Other One Thing - The Pause App from Wild at Heart Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Peaceful Guitar Playlist from Spotify Michelle’s One Thing - Everything about Easter (the Liturgy, flowers, decorations…everything!) Announcement: We will be taking a two week break for Easter and will see you again on May 5th! Journal Questions: Where do I need the Lord to grow my capacity? Where do I still need resurrection? What sorrowful places in my life need a reminder of the Lord’s victory? Where in my life do I despise or push away or idolize my humanity? Discussion Questions: How can you embrace a kingdom mindset this Holy Week? What has been your Jubilee story? How do you see your humanity as an obstacle rather than a gift to the world? How does the Lord want to personally and individually restore your humanity? Quote to Ponder: “There are ways of being crucified that do not involve rough wood and heavy nails, but a love beyond our capacity to love, which means a love that has been given to us by God.” (Catherine Doherty) Scripture for Lectio: “The next day the great crowd that had come to the festival heard that Jesus was coming to Jerusalem. So they took branches of palm trees and went out to meet him, shouting, “Hosanna! Blessed is the one who comes in the name of the Lord, The King of Israel!” Jesus found a young donkey and sat on it, as it is written: “do not be afraid daughter of Zion; look your king is coming, sitting on a donkey’s colt.”” (John 12:12-15) Sponsor - Mary Powathil: Mary Powathil, a Houston-based iconographer and fine artist, creates sacred artwork that invites us into a deeper relationship with God. Mary’s work has been featured worldwide, at the National Eucharistic Congress, and even the upcoming Sugar Land Arts Festival. Her icons serve as windows into heaven and can be commissioned or printed. Mary also designs custom prayer books to help families grow in holiness through daily prayer. Her art truly can be used as tools for living a faith-filled life. Visit www.marypowathil.com or follow her on Instagram @mkpcreates. Use code ABIDE10 for 10% off your first order! Commissions Original Artwork for Sale Prints for Sale A Look at the Icon Design Process Timestamps: 00:00 - Mary Powathil 01:25 - Intro 02:18 - Welcome 03:44 - Our Personal Resurrection Stories 05:24 - Do Not Be Afraid 08:10 - Speaking Truth 09:39 - Honor and Honesty 11:09 - Restoration of Our Deepest Identities 13:14 - The Importance of Remembering 15:13 - Humanity 17:11 - An Individual and Unique Love 17:49 - Pray for Priests and Holy Week Services 21:03 - The Tears that Fell 22:49 - One Things
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S16 E12 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapter Nine and Conclusion
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapter 9 and the conclusion. We reflect on the goodness of God and why we need not be afraid even when we do not understand what He is doing or how He is working in our lives. We also talk about how the Holy Spirit is like a salve to the wounds in our life, the importance of taking the authority we’ve been given by God, and why hungering and thirsting for God allows us to grow in intimacy with Him. Heather’s One Thing - Healing Prayers and Renunciations by Dr. Bob Schuchts Sister Miriam’s One Thing - Mango Salsa Recipe Michelle’s One Thing - The Way of Love by Marie Miller Journal Questions: How can I make Jubilee a lifestyle? How does my heart respond to the unexpected works and movements of the Holy Spirit? Where in my life do I need to welcome the Holy Spirit? Where does the Lord want to liberate me? Discussion Questions: How can you embrace the spirit of Jubilee and not the letter of Jubilee? How will you embrace the sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences this year? Where in your heart do you feel like you need to be cautious and protective with the Lord? What are the things in your life filling you with a false satiation? What are the graces you’ve received this Lent? Quote to Ponder: “For that reason, the Jubilee 2025 is a highly appropriate time for individuals and communities to enter more deeply into the life of the Holy Spirit.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 111) “What are some practical steps to bring jubilee into our hearts? How do we embrace the Spirit of jubilee and not the letter of jubilee? How do we make good use of 2025 and the years following? How do we make jubilee a lifestyle? How do we sustain liberty? There are three simple answers: sacraments, pilgrimages, and indulgences.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 113) Scripture for Lectio: "Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom.” (2 Corinthians 3:17) Sponsor - West Coast Catholic: If you want to create a beautiful Catholic home or you’re looking for that perfect Catholic gift, but struggle to find pieces that match your modern aesthetic then you have just found the perfect brand for your life and home. West Coast Catholic is a Catholic lifestyle brand that creates beautiful faith filled lifestyle products and prayer tools that bring an essence of Heaven to your everyday life. From rosaries to home goods, jewelry, apparel, devotionals and more, all of their products are made to draw you closer to God and are uniquely designed with a modern aesthetic so you don’t have to compromise your personal style when incorporating faith into your life. Whether you’re shopping for Easter or Mothers Day coming up or other events like weddings, sacraments and birthdays, — West Coast Catholic has the most beautiful and meaningful gifts designed to inspire and equip you to live a faith-filled life. So head over to westcoastcatholic.co to explore the shop, and use code ABIDE10 for 10% off your order! And be sure to follow along on Instagram at @westcoastcatholic and their founder Mari @mari.c.wagner for more faith-filled inspiration. Timestamps: 00:00 - West Coast Catholic 01:30 - Intro 02:06 - Welcome 05:20 - Scripture Verse and Guiding Quote 06:20 - The Holy Spirit 08:40 - A Salve to Our Wounds 10:28 - He is Good 12:28 - In the School of the Holy Spirit 14:23 - Sacraments, Pilgrimages, and Indulgences 18:31 - Taking Authority 20:30 - Are We Hungry Enough? 22:44 - Stirring Up Hunger 24:44 - The Price of Liberation 27:40 - Graces Received During Lent 29:09 - One Things
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S16 E11 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Seven and Eight
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 7 & 8. We reflect on the many ways Jesus wants to make us whole, by exercising the evil out of our lives, forgiving our sins, and leading us to freedom. We also compare that to what the enemy is trying to do, make us feel alone, scatter the pieces of our heart, and bring us out of communion with each other and with God. Jesus wants to love us into healing and is waiting for our invitation. It is up to us to open the door and allow Jesus to enter ever deeper into our hearts. Heather’s One Thing - Authentic Masculinity and Intimacy with Jesus - A Pints with Aquinas Episode w/ John Eldredge (YouTube) (Spotify) Heather’s Other One Thing - Songs in the Desert Spotify Playlist Sister Miriam’s One Thing - March Madness Michelle’s One Thing - She Loved: Resting in the Beauty of Motherhood by Suzanne Bilodeau Other Resources Mentioned: Daily Examen The Song “When I Forget” by Amanda Cook Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: Have I experienced the revelation of Christ’s identity as the Messiah in a personal way? What little parts of my heart has the Lord been restoring this Lent? How has God been personally restoring my relationship with Him, exorcising me from evil, and bringing me into relationship with my neighbor? Spend time in prayer and meditate on the image of a door with locks on it. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you: What is the name of this lock? Discussion Questions: How has my heart been pierced by this intricate story of salvation? What are you feasting on in relation to your fasting this Lent? “We all need exorcism.” How do you see this truth in your own heart and life? Where can you invite the Holy Spirit into my heart for restoration? Quote to Ponder: “Even though he is God in the flesh and could organize his ministry in any way, notice that Jesus chose: (1) relationship with God, (2) exorcism of evil, and (3) relationship with neighbor. Deliverance flows from God, not man.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bergsma, Page 72-73) Scripture for Lectio: “Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.” (Matt 18:18) Sponsor - Heritage Retreat Center: Discover Heritage — A Sacred Destination for Renewal Looking for a place to unplug, reconnect, and deepen your faith? Heritage is a revitalized Catholic settlement, just two hours east of Atlanta, where faith, history, and natural beauty converge. Set on 200 peaceful acres, Heritage offers: - Cozy cottages for restful overnight stays - A historic church rich in tradition - Religious art to inspire reflection - Prayer gardens for quiet contemplation - Meeting spaces for groups seeking connection - Delicious, all-inclusive meals to nourish both body and soul Whether you’re coming for the day or staying overnight, Heritage provides a serene escape with plenty of outdoor space for exploring nature and embracing stillness. One guest described her visit as: “Serene, beautiful, and oh so peaceful. This place truly fills your cup! I’ve visited twice now and can’t wait to go back.” Come experience the peace for yourself! ➡️ Learn more at HeritageGA.org or follow us on Instagram at @heritage.ga. Have questions? DM us anytime! ❤️ Timestamps: 00:00 - Heritage Retreat Center 01:23 - Intro 02:15 - Welcome 03:26 - Deliverance Comes from the Lord 04:59 - A World at War 07:19 - Back to Nazareth 08:48 - Bringing the Many Parts Together 10:15 - He is Who He Says He is 11:32 - A Continuous Liberation and Invitation 14:09 - The Arrows the Hit Our Soul 16:39 - We All Need Exorcism 19:28 - Feasting on the Holy Spirit 21:29 - The Power of Confession 25:36 - One Things
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S16 E10 - Jesus and the Jubilee: Chapters Five and Six
In this episode, we continue our Lenten book study and focus on chapters 5 & 6. We talk about the original roots of jubilee in the Old Testament, if the Israelites actually observed the jubilee, and how the Dead Sea Scrolls are relevant to jubilee. We also reflect on the importance of prophetic voices, the need to prepare for Sabbath, and why having an open heart allows the Lord to exceed our expectations. Heather’s One Thing - Jesus and the Dead Sea Scrolls Video Series with Dr. John Bergsma and Fr. Dave Pivonka Sister Miriam’s One Thing - How Change Occurs Series Part 1 and Part 2 from Restore the Glory Podcast Michelle’s One Thing - The House of David (Trailer) Announcement: It’s not too late to order your copy of “Jesus and the Jubilee” at the St. Paul Center with promo code “ABIDE15” for 15% off. There are also bulk discounts available. Journal Questions: What areas are the smallest and weakest in my life that God wants to magnify in the Jubilee? What are the laws and rituals of the Catholic Faith that I ignore or overlook? How did the Lord design you to rest? Where are the parts of my life where I say “this is as good as it’s gonna get?” When in my life has God exceeded my expectations? Discussion Questions: How are you putting the Jubilee into practice? How can I prepare my heart and my life for deeper rest? When are you tempted to offer something up that the Lord didn’t ask you to offer up? Who are the prophetic voices of hope and repentance in your life? Quote to Ponder: “Jeremiah decreed that the land would rest seventy years – one for each missed Sabbath year – before the Lord would fulfill his promises, provided Israel repented and had an obedient heart.” (Jesus and the Jubilee, John Bersgma, Page 57) Scripture for Lectio: “The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me. Because the Lord has anointed me to bring good tidings to the afflicted.He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and the opening of the prison to those who are bound. To proclaim the year of God’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn.” (Isaiah 61:1-2) Sponsor - The Inspired Living: The Inspired Living is your one-stop shop for Easter basket items & Sacrament gifts this Spring! As an online shop sourcing Catholic home decor, books, and gifts, we believe that our spiritual lives begin at home, and should be a reflection of that which is eternally beautiful, God Himself. At The Inspired Living we have intentionally curated and sourced into one place the best Catholic products - whether that be decor for your home, gifts for sacraments, or books and sacramentals that will enhance your domestic church. We offer a unique array of handcrafted goods and exquisite gifts made by artisans not only in the United States, but around the world. Head to our website to find: Beautiful fine jewelry One-of-a-kind sacrament gifts Sacred art & crucifixes Faith-enriching toys And so much more Use the code ABIDE20 for an exclusive 20% off discount at checkout! Timestamps: 00:00 - The Inspired Living 01:00 - Intro 01:52 - Welcome 02:32 - Scripture Verse 03:08 - Our Roots in the Old Testament 05:20 - Did the Jews Practice the Jubilee Year? 06:42 - Times and Places of Grace 08:16 - You Prepare for Sabbath 10:03 - Come Back to Your First Love 12:42 - Settling for Bondage 13:32 - Prophetic Voices 16:14 - The Dead Sea Scrolls 18:45 - Letting Go of Our Expectations 22:17 - One Things
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