Send us a text The phrase āLet themā is everywhere right now ā shared as empowerment, detachment, and emotional maturity. But what happens when letting them becomes a way of silencing yourself? In this episode of Beyond Thisā¦, I explore the popular Let Them Theory, often associated with Mel Robbins, and gently unpack where it can be helpful ā and where it can quietly lead to self-abandonment, emotional bypassing, and nervous-system override. This is not an attack on the idea of letting go of control. Itās an invitation to slow the conversation down. In this episode, we explore: The original intention behind Let Them How detachment can turn into emotional avoidance Why silencing your needs isnāt emotional maturity The difference between empowerment and indifference How to honour boundaries without disconnecting from yourself Why your nervous system matters in relational dynamics The missing half of the conversation: Let Me The episode closes with a short grounding exercise to help you return to your body, your truth, and your sense of self-trust. This conversation is for anyone who has tried to be āunbotheredā while feeling anxious, unseen, or small ā and wondered if there might be another way. Take what resonates. Leave the rest. And listen at your own pace. As always Matilda ends each episode with an energy update and coming predictions.
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When Belief Becomes a Cage
13/1/2026 | 41 mins.
Send us a text When Belief Becomes a Cage : How Spiritual and Political Identities Trap You.
In this episode, Matilda explores what happens when beliefs stop being something we hold - and become something that holds us.
Across politics, spirituality, wellness culture and online communities, many people are no longer relating to ideas as flexible tools.Ā They are building identities around them.Ā Once belief becomes identity, truth becomes a threat. This episode looks at the psychology behind cultsĀ such as Mega and the mechanics that are at work.
Rather than asking "Is this true"? the mind begins to ask "does this protect who I am"
Matilda breaks it down for you.
Along with an in-depth meditation for those wanting to focus and new predictions this is a must listen to episode. Matilda's Website Patreon Embody Mentorship Embody Group Mentorship TikTok You Tube Intimate Mediumship Group
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Discernment in Spiritual Spaces
07/1/2026 | 31 mins.
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What happens when spirituality stops being a support and starts becoming an identity?
In this episode of Beyond This..... we explore the subtle line between healthy spiritual growth and spaces that quietly undermine autonomy, critical thinking, and self-trust.
This is a grounded conversation about discernment ā not fear. We talk about how spiritual language can be used to override instinct, how guidance can slide into dependency, and why real spirituality should expand your life, not shrink it.
This episode is for anyone who has ever felt confused, disempowered, or quietly uncomfortable in a spiritual space but couldnāt quite explain why.
No dogma. No hierarchy. Just perspective, responsibility, and grounded self-trust.
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A Softer Way into the New Year
30/12/2025 | 25 mins.
Send us a text The New Year often arrives with pressure. Pressure to reset To reinvent To become someone new But what if the New Year isn't asking that of you at all? In this episode, I explore a gentler, more honest way of meeting the year ahead - one that honours what you've carried, what you've survived, and what is still integrating. We talk about: Why the "fresh start" narrative can feel unsettling or activating How the nervous system actually experiences the New Year Why energy and healing don't move in neat calendar years Reframing intentions without pressure, force, or self abandonment's Meeting the year as you are - not as who you think you should be. this episode is for anyone who feels tender, tired, reflective, or quietly hopeful - and wants to move forward without overriding themselves.
At the end of the episode I guide you through a gentle release meditation designed to help you: Let go of the emotional weight of the year the has passed Set down what no longer needs to be carried forward Create spaciousness without forcing clarity or goals Enter the year feeling lighter, steadier and more supported.
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People will only meet you as deeply as they've met themselves
23/12/2025 | 28 mins.
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This episode is an invitation to stop personalising misunderstanding, stop shrinking to be seen, and stop explaining your depth to people who havenāt yet explored their own inner world.
Matilda speaks to why self-awareness determines perception, how projection distorts connection, and why deeply reflective people often feel unseen ā not because they are too much, but because they are aware.
This is a grounding, compassionate conversation about emotional capacity, discernment, and learning to stay whole without hardening your heart.
In this episode, we explore: Why feeling misunderstood is often about capacity, not effort How self-avoidance limits how deeply someone can see you The difference between discernment and disconnection Why shrinking yourself never leads to real understanding How to stop chasing validation and start honouring resonance
This episode is for anyone who has ever felt unseen, misinterpreted, or emotionally ahead of the room ā and is ready to stop making that mean something is wrong with them.
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The Podcast that talks about Life, Sprit and Everything In Between.Beyond This..... is a chart-topping spiritual podcast for seekers, sensitives and the spiritually curious who are ready to understand life on a deeper level. Hosted by Psychic Medium Matilda, the show explores the real, raw and transformational sides of spiritual growth - far beyond cliches and surface level advice.With episodes that blend grounded teaching, compassionate guidance, and powerful lived experience, Beyond This..... helps listeners navigate intuition, healing, self-concept, signs from spirit, boundaries, manifestation, grief, and the everyday magic we often overlook.Whether you're awakening to your gifts or strengthening your connection to your guides, this is the space where spirituality becomes practical, welcoming and deeply human.Hosted by Matilda - an international recognised psychic medium, spiritual educator who has more than 20 years of lived experience connecting with spirit. Matilda ahas guided thousands of people through healing, intuition, self-growth, and profound personal transformation.known for her grounded approach to spirituality, Matilda balances compassion with clarity, weaving together real-life wisdom, intuitive insight, and practical teaching that supports listeners at every stage of their spiritual journey. Her work has attracted a global audience, with followers across TikTok, YouTube and her thriving online community she continues to be booked months in advance for her sessions, workshops and mentorship. Matilda's mission is simple - to make spirituality accessible, ethical, and empowering.Through Beyond This..... she helps people understand their guides, navigate signs from spirit, expand their self0concept and reconnect with the deeper meaning running beneath everyday life.Whether you're new to spirituality or well on your path, Matilda offers a space where curiosity is welcomed, transformation is possible and you're reminded that you're never walking your journey alone.Matilda TikTokInstagramYouTubeWebsitePatreon