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"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck

Christy Osborne & Meade Shirley
"But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck
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  • Immeasurably More Than All We Ask or Imagine | Leadership Retreat Roundtable
    For the first time ever, we recorded with the team in person—from our Leadership Retreat in Colorado Springs! Join us (plus Sam, Amber, Jill, Tracy, Kelsey, and Lauren) for a cozy, honest roundtable. We talk about the moment each of us got brave, how community breaks shame, and the surprising ways love, joy, and peace grow when alcohol isn’t running the show. Whether you’re just getting curious or already walking your own alcohol exodus, this one’s rich with real-life stories, practical shifts, and Scripture-rooted encouragement. 📘 What you’ll learn in this episode: From “stuck” to starting: Why the first step is the hardest, and how surrender (not control) actually moves you forward. Breaking shame in community: How saying it out loud with safe people dismantles isolation and accelerates healing (Romans 12:2 vibes). Everyday proof of change: Driving the rental car, offering to be DD, cooking dinner with joy, early mornings with God, what freedom looks like IRL. Finding real LJP (Love, Joy, Peace): The quiet practices that replace the evening pour—prayer, needlepoint/creative work, a walk, a mocktail, joyful movement, Scripture. The stories that kept us stuck: “I need it to relax,” “I’ll lose friends,” “What if I can’t change?”—and what God revealed on the other side. Marriage & friendships: Why connection deepens (not shrinks) when alcohol isn’t mediating the relationship. A better-than-expected life: Ephesians 3:16–20 in action—how God keeps doing immeasurably more than we asked or imagined. 🕊️ Scripture woven through: Romans 12:2 — Don’t conform; be transformed. Ephesians 3:16–20 — Immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine. 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We’re on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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  • In Person, On Purpose: God’s Faithfulness, Our BJDW Community, and What’s Coming Next
    We did it! This episode was recorded in person at our first Leadership Retreat in Colorado Springs, CO. We share the heart behind the weekend, how this ministry began, and what God is building through community. You’ll also get a sneak peek at the next two episodes featuring stories from our leadership team, on life after alcohol and the “friendship shuffle.” Whether you’ve been with us since Episode 1 or you’re brand new, we hope this behind-the-scenes conversation makes you feel right at home with us. In this episode: Retreat highlights: worship around the fire (bear visit included 🐻), shared meals, prayer over every community member by name, and recording together for the first time. The origin story: how a cold email became a friendship, a podcast, and, surprise to us, a ministry. Why community matters: the difference between white-knuckling alone and growing together around Jesus (not wine). Work God has done: what freedom looks like years later, and why it keeps getting better. What’s coming next: two team episodes on (1) the biggest life changes after alcohol and (2) navigating friendships as you grow. An invitation: pray with us as we plan our first in-person gatherings for the whole community. 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We’re on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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  • From Shame to Freedom: Navigating Work, Travel, and Culture Without Alcohol | Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast Week 6
    Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast In Week 6—the final week—of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we’re covering Days 35–40. These last chapters are all about navigating real-life situations, confronting shame, and stepping fully into lasting freedom. From the workplace happy hour to vacation cocktails, from cultural pressures like “mommy wine time” to the quiet work of letting go of fixation—this week brings together everything you’ve learned and invites you to reflect on how far you’ve come. Whether you’ve been with us since Day 1 or you’re just dropping in, this episode will leave you inspired, equipped, and ready to walk forward in confidence and joy—rooted in your identity in Christ. 📘 This week covers: 💼 Day 35: Alcohol and the OfficeHow to navigate workplace drinking culture with grace and confidence. ⛓️ Day 36: Breaking the Chains of ShameThe truth about shame, why it’s not from God, and how to walk in freedom. 🍼 Day 37: Sobering Up to Mommy Wine CultureUnpacking the cultural messages around “wine mom” life—and how to create new narratives. ✈️ Day 38: Travel and Vacations Without AlcoholHow to enjoy every moment of your trip without needing a drink to make it “special.” 🔓 Day 39: Fixated or Free?Moving from obsessing about not drinking to living in true, joyful freedom. 🌅 Day 40: Reflections on the JourneyLooking back on the fast, celebrating transformation, and setting your eyes on what’s next. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong.👉 Sign up here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We’re on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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  • Confidence, Clean Wine, and Sitting in the Suck | Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast Week 5
    Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast HERE! In Week 5 of our 6-part Monday series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we're diving into Days 28–34—and this episode is full of aha moments, empowering truths, and vulnerable conversations to support your sober journey. Whether you’re navigating emotional ups and downs, feeling disconnected from your values, or questioning what fun looks like without alcohol—this episode will meet you there. 📘 This week covers: 💁‍♀️ Day 28: Renewing Your ConfidenceWhy alcohol isn’t the confidence booster we think it is—and how to build real confidence that sticks. ⚠️ Day 29: The Hidden Dangers of AlcoholWe unpack the truth about alcohol’s effects on the body, brain, gut, and heart—plus how knowledge leads to freedom. 🚫 Day 30: The Myth of Clean WineSpoiler alert: there’s no such thing. Clean wine is clever marketing, not truth. 🎉 Day 31: Redefining FunWhen chaos isn’t fun anymore—how to rediscover joy, spontaneity, and peace on your own terms. 💬 Day 32: Filling the Gap & Embracing EmotionLearning to sit in discomfort, feel feelings, and meet God right in the middle of it. 💡 Day 33: Reclaiming Your ValuesWhat matters most to you? And how has alcohol pulled you away from it? This is your call to realign. 🤝 Day 34: Rediscovering True ConnectionHow sobriety deepens your relationships—with God, your people, and your purpose. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastRegistration is open now for the next live-coached 40 Day Alcohol Fast starting September 8! Walk through the fast in real time with coaching, community, and the support you need to finish strong.👉 Sign up here: https://butjesusdrankwine.myflodesk.com/septemberfast 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: 10 Reasons Living Alcohol-Free Has Made Us More Confident Realigning with Your Core Values with Pastor David 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We’re on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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  • Identity, Generational Change & the Science of Joy | Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast Week 4
    📣 Sign up for the September 40 Day Fast Here! In Week 4 of our 6-part series walking through Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast, we’re diving into Days 22–27—a powerful stretch of the fast that explores identity, grief, breaking generational cycles, and some surprising truths about alcohol, anxiety, and even biblical wine. Whether you’re navigating this fast in real time or simply curious about how a 40-day alcohol break can deepen your faith, this episode offers honest stories, practical tools, and fresh encouragement for the journey. 📘 This week covers: 💔 Day 22: Grieving Your Old SelfLetting go of false identities and the “party girl” past can bring grief—but also space for God to reveal who you really are. 🕊️ Day 23: The Truth About TasteIf you think you’ll never stop loving the taste of wine, think again. We unpack the neuroscience behind cravings and how taste buds (and hearts) truly change. 🌱 Day 24: The Joy of Leading by ExampleAre you the first in your family or friend group to take a break from drinking? You’re not alone, and your obedience could ripple out further than you think. 🍷 Day 25: Jesus and WineDid Jesus really drink wine? And what does that mean for us today? We go behind the scenes on how this chapter (and podcast!) came to be. 🌈 Day 26: The Science of JoyAlcohol hijacks our dopamine—and with it, our joy. We explore how your brain rewires and joy returns in sobriety. ⚠️ Day 27: Alcohol and AnxietyIs alcohol easing your anxiety—or fueling it? We share stories, science, and hope for anyone stuck in the stress-drink-repeat cycle. 💌 Resources & Links: 📣 Join the September 40 Day FastWe start September 8! Walk through the fast with coaching, community, and daily encouragement. Sign up here 🎙️Past episodes mentioned: How Alcohol Hijacks Our Mental Health with William Porter 📖 Order your copy of Love Life Sober: A 40 Day Alcohol Fast to Rediscover Your Joy, Improve Your Health, and Renew Your Mind 🤝 Join our community: https://butjesusdrankwine.com/community 📲 Connect on Instagram: @butjesusdrankwine 🎥 We’re on YouTube too—come hang out! The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
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About "But Jesus Drank Wine" & Other Stories That Kept Us Stuck

Join Meade and Christy, two retired-over-drinkers turned freedom-from-alcohol coaches, as they explore all of the stories that kept them stuck in the nightly over-drinking cycle, including but certainly not limited to "But Jesus drank wine?" If you're looking for two Christian women who get real about how wine held them back and explore tricky questions about drinking (and beyond!) with grace, compassion, and zero judgment, this is the podcast for you. Want more? Join The BJDW Community! We hold space for sober and sober curious women who love Jesus or are eager to reconnect with him.
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