195. Hope for Life After Loss: Walking Through Grief & Healing with Jesus (ft. Clarissa Moll)
Loss and grief are roads none of us want to walk, yet almost all of us will. And too often, we don’t talk about it until we’re right in the middle of the ache.In today’s honest and hope-filled conversation, I sit down with Clarissa Moll, author of Beyond the Darkness, to talk about what it looks like to grieve with Jesus — and to find beauty, purpose, and even joy again. Clarissa shares her personal story of loss and how God has met her in the shadows, reminding us that “grief may walk with us for the rest of our lives, but Jesus will too.”We talk about:-The lies the world tells us about grief (and the truth Christians need instead)-What it means to move forward with hope, not guilt-How to love and support someone who’s grieving (including kids)-The steady presence of Jesus in our darkest seasonsIf you’re in a valley of loss, or walking alongside someone who is, this episode will meet you with gentle truth and real hope. You are not alone in the darkness. Jesus is right there with you.“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” — Psalm 34:18To connect with Clarissa, head over to https://www.clarissamoll.com or @mollclarissa on IG!Get Clarissa’s book here: https://amzn.to/4mrvOeR Listen to Clarissa’s podcast Surprised by Grief: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/surprised-by-grief/id1553489597 SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
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194. A Biblical Approach to Nervous System Regulation & God's Design for Healing from the Inside Out (ft. Hope Vansuch)
Today we’re talking about emotional healing and the nervous system and I can’t wait for you to hear this one. I sat down with Hope Vansuch, a Christ-centered nervous system coach, to talk about how God designed our bodies to heal, not just spiritually but physiologically too.If you’ve ever wondered why you keep reacting the same way in moments of stress, or why certain patterns feel impossible to break, this conversation will be a deep breath of hope. Hope shares how our nervous system holds emotional memory, how the Holy Spirit partners with our body in healing, and why regulation isn’t just self-help — it’s spiritual alignment.We’ll talk about breaking generational cycles, recognizing unhealed emotional wounds, and simple daily rhythms that bring peace back to your body, with Jesus at the center of it all.If you’ve ever felt stuck in stress, shame, or striving, this episode is your invitation to slow down, tune in, and let God meet you right where you are.To connect with Hope, head over to @hope_vansuch on IG!Evergreen Coaching Application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeoMqw5HWEa-jNZf3h6tazgYRLwcS6NfAzQZY315akPvUhbVg/viewform?usp=header SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
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193. Winning Souls Instead of Arguments: How to Choose Kindness in Conflict & Love Like Jesus When You Disagree
We’ve all been there: halfway through a heated text thread or comment section, trying to prove a point... and suddenly realizing we’re more focused on being right than being like Jesus. 🤦♀️I can’t stop thinking about what my pastor said a few weeks ago: we’re not called to win arguments, we’re called to win souls.When life “bumps” us, whatever’s inside our cup spills out. If bitterness or pride comes pouring out, that’s feedback. Luke 6:45 reminds us, “Out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” What’s overflowing from yours?Kindness (NOT criticism) is what leads people to repentance (Romans 2:4). The goal isn’t to convince people, it’s to reflect Christ to them. So today, instead of aiming to be right, let’s aim to be right with God.Because when we stay rooted in Him, gentleness, patience, and love become our automatic response — even in disagreement.I’m cheering you on, friend. Let’s spill grace this week.SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
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192. Church Hurt Doesn’t Have to Be the End of Your Story: Finding Real Faith Again After Religious Trauma (ft. Mia Elliott)
If you’ve ever walked away from a church experience carrying more wounds than hope, you’re not alone.In today’s episode, I sit down with my friend Mia Elliott who shares her powerful story of growing up in a rigid, rule-based faith and how God gently led her into something deeper — a real, rich relationship with Jesus.Mia opens up about religious trauma, the ache of church hurt, and what it looked like to rediscover the heart of God after disappointment. Her story reminds us that healing doesn’t mean walking away from faith, sometimes it means finally meeting Jesus outside the performance and pressure.If you’ve been hurt by people in the name of religion or you’re wondering if faith can ever feel safe again, this conversation will breathe hope right where you are.To connect with Mia, head over to @themiaelliott and @wasthattoomuchpodcast on IG!Listen to Mia’s podcast here: https://linktr.ee/themiaelliott?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaeoBLz2_1-LSRxKkEd5h_HD8Y2iGDzPdGnSWK1n80o33jhrZ6h3zPkQ6_j0sQ_aem_TVjBAlq3GM8RU2noTCy30g SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
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191. Big Sis Advice for Gen Z Christian Girls & How Older Women Can Encourage Teens in Their Faith Journey (ft. Rose Patton)
If you could sit across from your younger self with a latte in hand, what would you say? That’s the heart of today’s conversation with 15-year-old Rose Patton.We thought it’d be fun to share some big sis advice — the kind of wisdom I wish I had tucked into our back pockets during those messy, beautiful teen years.In this episode, Rose shares her testimony and heart for discipling young women, and together we unpack:What we’d say to our younger selves (and the next generation of Christian girls).How Gen Z girls can stand confident in who God says they are despite the pressure of social media, comparison, and culture.Encouragement for older Christian women who want to come alongside their younger sisters in Christ.Whether you’re in high school figuring out faith in real time, or you’re a woman looking to encourage the next generation, this episode is packed with truth and a whole lot of sisterly love.To connect with Rose, head over to @blessed_bonds1 on IG!Rose’s podcast, Blessed Bonds: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/blessed-bonds/id1788375577 Rose’s devotional, Better Believe It: https://amzn.to/4lsuUh3 SUPPORT BY WORDS: https://buymeacoffee.com/bywordsSHOP MY BOOKS:Waking Up: Living Open — https://amzn.to/3LusgrzLove Is Devotional — https://amzn.to/3S6OZhs FREE Path to Purpose Guide: https://hannahhughes.myflodesk.com/pathwaytopurpose My favorite Bible studies + devotionals - HANNAHHUGHES10 for 10% off: https://thedailygraceco.com?dt_id=300773 Connect: www.thehannahhughes.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehannahhughes/ https://www.instagram.com/bywordspodcast Shop my Amazon faves: https://www.amazon.com/shop/thehannahhughes
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