Closeted History: LGBTQ+ Stories of the Past

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In this episode, I am joined by one of my favorite creators of all time, Flint Del Sol. He is with us today to share his experiences as an educator, trans man, and neurodivergent human, and how it all inspired his brand new book, Teach Like An Ally: An Educator's Guide to Nurturing LGBTQ+ Students.

📕 Table of Contents 📕
00:00 - Intro
01:14 - Flint’s Book Inspiration
02:50 "Designated Queer Teacher" Role in Schools
04:36 - Discussion on Book's Audience and Impact
07:41 - Changing Legal Landscape Impact on Education
10:00 - Reflections on Teaching Path and Education System Challenges
14:30 - Teaching Philosophy and Allyship
16:40 - Intersectionality in Education
23:00 - Gender Disparities and Historical Perspectives in Education
37:00 - Self-care and Avoiding Burnout
41:40 - Life Post-Teaching and Identity Beyond Work
48:42 - Personal Journey as a Trans Man and Leaving the Classroom
01:12:30 What's Next and Upcoming Projects

Connect With Our Guest 🌈
Flint Del Sol, a Trans speaker, educator, and writer who is passionate about creating equitable spaces in education for LGBTQ+ folks. Flint is releasing his new book “Teach Like An Ally: An Educator’s Guide to Nurturing LGBTQ+ Students” in July 2025 as a helpful tool for educators all over the U.S.

He and his husband have a coaching and consulting business where they offer neurodivergent affirming coaching, speaking engagements, and more.
To learn more visit: https://www.delsolimpact.com

Social:
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/ / About Us 🌈
Hi, welcome to Closeted History! Your number #1 spot to learn the Queer and Trans history you never knew! To learn more, check out our website ➡️ ⁠www.closetedhistory.com⁠

My name is Destiny (she/they) and I am the creator behind the podcast. Educator, creative, and fellow member of the LG(B)T(Q)+ community. Nice to meet you!

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In this episode, Shana and Kris from Bad Queers Podcast join me to discuss the incredible LGBTQ+ film, Pariah (2011). Starring Adepero Oduye, Kim Wayans, Aasha Davis. It has won many awards and accolades including the 2012 GLAAD Media Award and a Cinematography Award at the Sundance Festival in 2011. This is the best LGBTQ+ movie I've ever seen and will be rewatching again!

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Connect With Our Guests 🌈
Bad Queers Podcast is a space where we discuss breaking stereotypes and share stories that are often overlooked. We’re dedicated to those who feel like they came out of the closet only to be placed in a box they don't belong to. Here, our conversations are like stepping into an intimate gathering among your closest queer friends—sometimes messy, sometimes serious, but always real.

Social:
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/badqueerspod/
Merch: https://www.badqueers.com/shop

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#pariah #moviereviews #movieanalysis

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Check out some of our favorite reads, curated book lists, and support local bookstores with your online book purchases: ⁠https://bookshop.org/shop/ClosetedHistory⁠

/ / About Us 🌈
Hi, welcome to Closeted History! Your number #1 spot to learn the Queer and Trans history you never knew! To learn more, check out our website ➡️ ⁠www.closetedhistory.com⁠ (http://www.closetedhistory.com)

My name is Destiny (she/they) and I am the creator behind the podcast. Educator, creative, and fellow member of the LG(B)T(Q)+ community. Nice to meet you!

Disclaimer: Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something, we’ll receive a small commission. This is at no extra cost to you and supports our work💖

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In our season 3 opening episode, I interview Rebecca Minor, a licensed therapist, educator, and advocate passionate about creating affirming spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals. Rebecca is one of the founders of Bi(in)visibility, a platform that centers the experiences of bisexual individuals—an often overlooked group within the LGBTQ+ community, despite making up the majority. In fact, studies show that bisexual adults represent 57.3% of LGBTQ+ adults in the U.S., yet their voices are frequently erased or misunderstood. Through Bi(in)visibility, Rebecca is working to change that.
📕 Table of Contents 📕
00:00 Introduction
00:01 Rebecca's journey to Bi Invisibility and challenges within the bisexual community
00:04 Misconceptions and fluidity in bisexual attraction
00:08 Compulsory heterosexuality and identity language
00:12 Personal experiences, inclusivity, and community challenges
00:19 Community evolution and exploring queer identity in relationships
00:25 Gender identity, resources for bi men, and community feedback
00:29 Therapists’ role, advice, and affirming queer identity
00:36 Importance of learning LGBTQ+ history
00:37 Promoting the bi invisibility community and closing

Connect With Our Guest 🌈
Rebecca Minor, LICSW, is a queer clinician, consultant, and educator specializing in the intersection of trauma, gender, and sexuality. As a Gender Specialist, Rebecca partners with trans and gender nonconforming youth through their journey of becoming and serves as a guide to their parents in affirming it. Rebecca is the founder of Prism Therapy Collective, where their approach is always trauma-informed and neurodiversity-affirming.

In addition to her clinical work, Rebecca leads a community called bi+ (in)visibility for bi+ people navigating their queer identity in the context of a straight-presenting relationship. She is also part-time faculty at Boston University School of Social Work and has provided cultural responsiveness training and consultation to organizations, schools, and businesses for the past decade. Rebecca is the author of the forthcoming book Raising Trans Youth; What To Expect When You Weren’t Expecting This (Row House, 2025).

Social:
Instagram: @gender.specialist (https://www.instagram.com/gender.specialist) & @bi_invisibility (https://www.instagram.com/bi_invisibility/)
Patreon: bi+ (in)visibility Membership (https://www.patreon.com/bi_invisibility)
Facebook: Rebecca Minor LICSW (https://www.facebook.com/RebeccaMinorLICSW)
LinkedIn: Rebecca Minor, LICSW (https://www.linkedin.com/in/genderspecialist/)

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#bisexual #bisexuality #podcast #interview

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Check out some of our favorite reads, curated book lists, and support local bookstores with your online book purchases: ⁠https://bookshop.org/shop/ClosetedHistory⁠

/ / About Us 🌈
Hi, welcome to Closeted History! Your number #1 spot to learn the Queer and Trans history you never knew! To learn more, check out our website ➡️ ⁠www.closetedhistory.com⁠

My name is Destiny (she/they) and I am the creator behind the podcast. Educator, creative, and fellow member of the LG(B)T(Q)+ community. Nice to meet you!

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Links & Resources Mentioned ⬇️
Queer Horror Anthology "It Came From The Closet": https://bookshop.org/a/81838/9781952177798
American Psycho: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZDzCvaVAHws&t=2781s
Antz: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sL8l0xe7oAg&t=5s
Twister/Twisters Double Feature: https://leftoftheprojector.com/episode/twister-1996-and-twisters-2024-with-closeted-history-and-schizophrenic-reads

📕 TABLE OF CONTENTS 📕
00:00 Introduction

02:22: Discussion on Jennifer's Body IMDb film description

05:04: Analysis of soundtrack relevance to film

06:41: Marketing and reception of Jennifer's Body

10:51: Misogyny in marketing and production

15:46: Analysis of character dynamics

19:00: Issues with Movie Writing

20:02: Influence of Misogyny in Hollywood

21:31: Real-Life Influence Behind the Movie

24:24: Sacrifices for Fame and Success

26:31: Patriarchy and Gender Roles in the Movie

31:00: Critique of Capitalism and Exploitation of Tragedy

35:42: Problematic portrayals in older movies

37:21: Chris Pratt's cameo and thoughts on Adam Brody

38:11: Adam Brody's influence on indie culture

40:42: Reflections on MySpace and early internet culture

44:53: Where are the Adults?

45:02: Conversation about queer coding in the film
52:56: Misinterpretation of Characters' Suffering

54:29: Emotional connection between Jennifer and Needy

59:01: Personal reviews and ratings of the movie

01:00: Upcoming interview and final thoughts on Jennifer's Body

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#JennifersBody #moviereview #QueerHorror

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Check out some of our favorite reads, curated book lists, and support local bookstores with your online book purchases: https://bookshop.org/shop/ClosetedHistory

/ / About Us 🌈
Hi, welcome to Closeted History! Your number #1 spot to learn the Queer and Trans history you never knew! To learn more, check out our website ➡️ www.closetedhistory.com

My name is Destiny (she/they) and I am the creator behind the podcast. Educator, creative, and fellow member of the LG(B)T(Q)+ community. Nice to meet you!

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In this episode, we interview the editor of It Came From The Closet, a collection of essays blending LGBTQ+ experiences with horror. We discuss the inspiration behind focusing on queer stories in the genre, how essays were selected, and the recurring themes throughout the collection. The editor shares insights on amplifying diverse LGBTQ+ voices in horror, why the genre resonates with queer communities, and the impact he hopes the collection will have on discussions around representation.

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📕 Table of Contents 📕
00:00 Introduction
00:56 Discussion on the book's design and its background
03:40 The thematic elements of the book
07:02 Queerness in horror and reclaiming narratives
10:08 Why queer people are drawn to horror
18:39 Process of selecting essays for the book
29:05 Standout essays in the collection
33:01 Emerging themes in LGBTQ horror essays
37:09 Impact of the anthology on LGBTQ representation in horror
41:21 Purpose and Impact of the Anthology
49:00 Advice for Writers and Editors on LGBTQ+ Themes in Horror
52:06 Most Surprising and Rewarding Parts of the Project
57:49 Closing Remarks

Connect With Our Guest 🌈
Joe Vallese is coeditor of the anthology What’s Your Exit? A Literary Detour Through New Jersey. His creative and pop culture writing appears in Bomb, VICE, Backstage, PopMatters, Southeast Review, North American Review, Narrative Northeast, VIA: Voices in Italian-Americana, among others. He has been a Pushcart Prize nominee and a notable in Best American Essays for his essay “Blood, Brothers.”

He is currently clinical associate professor in the Expository Writing Program and Faculty Fellow in Residence at New York University, and previously served as site director and faculty for the Bard Prison Initiative. Joe holds an MFA New York University, and MAT and BA degrees from Bard College.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/it_came_from_the_closet/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/homohorror

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#ItCameFromTheCloset #QueerBooks #QueerHorror

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About Us 🌈
Hi, welcome to Closeted History! Your number #1 spot to learn the Queer and Trans history you never knew! To learn more, check out our website ➡️ ⁠www.closetedhistory.com⁠

My name is Destiny (she/they) and I am the creator behind the podcast. Educator, creative, and fellow member of the LG(B)T(Q)+ community. Nice to meet you!

Disclaimer: Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something, we’ll receive a small commission. This is at no extra cost to you and supports our work💖