E49: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 2) - Swinger Clubs, Doms Without Labels, and BDSM without Pain
Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn?Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...
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E48: Your Juiciest Kink Questions Answered (Part 1) – Pegging, Watersports, Introducing Kinks, and More...
Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice.Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They’ve got you covered. Expect candid discussions on pegging, face slapping, balancing desires in a D/s dynamic, and how to keep that dominant spark alive.With plenty of laughs, real talk, and insightful tips, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you deepen your BDSM relationships and own your kink with confidence.00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:35 Chocolate and aphrodisiacs 02:16 Funny anecdotes and misunderstandings 03:19 First listener question: dominance during oral 05:53 Pros and cons of DS relationships 08:59 Losing dominance drive 12:32 Bringing up kinks with a new partner 14:10 Dealing with extreme kinks 23:45 Feeling like a fraud as a dom 30:07 Developing dominant skills 37:37 Navigating dominance and submission dynamics 38:09 Compromise and communication in kink 39:07 The rubber band analogy 39:49 Recommended reading: with sprinkles on top 40:50 Balancing desires in DS relationships 42:01 Exploring impact play and resistance 44:01 Discussing face slapping and personal limits 54:54 Spontaneity in BDSM 59:02 Finding time for DS scenes 01:09:07 Preparing for peggingSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...
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E47: A BDSM Couple Try Two Kinky Communication Exercises (With Sprinkles on Top book)
Chief and Moineau discuss Stephanie Goerlich's book 'With Sprinkles on Top' and the importance of communication in bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners.We compare mental fantasies with real-world practicality (including threesome and more-some discussions!), as well as negotiating and compromising in relationships.We then try out two exercises from the book - a mad-lib style desire sharing exercise, and one to gauge our comfort levels with erotic language.If you're a kinky person looking for ways to improve your relationship and get more comfortable sharing your desires with a partner then this podcast is for you!Resources:Stephanie Goerlich's website: https://www.stefanigoerlich.comThe PDF of exercises: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/negotiationwkshts.htmlOur website: https://kinkyevents.co.ukTimestamps:00:00 Introduction00:58 Kinky Statistics02:28 Introducing the Book: With Sprinkles on Top04:39 Exploring Kink and Communication06:50 Personal Kink Experiences and Fantasies10:01 Discussing Threesomes and Boundaries24:06 Fantasy Worksheet Exercise33:42 Exploring Desires and Fantasies34:19 Power Dynamics and Control35:24 Communication and Connection37:05 Erotic Vocabulary ExerciseSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...
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E46: 30 Surprisingly Simple Exercises to Supercharge Communication and Transform Your Sex Life!
Chief presents 30 varied exercises designed to improve communication skills within BDSM and D/s relationships. These activities aim to deepen the connection, enhance understanding, and ultimately lead to a better sex life. Ranging from joint journaling and desire mapping to more elaborate setups like role-reversal games and fantasy sharing, each exercise builds upon the previous ones.Each exercise is discussed briefly, including instructions and several resources for each activity, emphasising the flexibility of the exercises to suit individual dynamics.The episode encourages couples to actively practice these exercises to foster trust, empathy, and a more satisfying relationship.00:00 Introduction to 30 Communication Exercises00:30 Why Communication Matters in D/s Relationships01:28 How to Approach These Exercises02:03 Week 1: Foundation of Communication02:08 Day 1: Joint Journaling02:28 Day 2: Desire Mapping03:22 Day 3: Create Safe Words03:44 Day 4: Daily Check-Ins04:02 Day 5: Feedback Session04:40 Day 6: Communication Games06:11 Day 7: Weekly Reflection06:30 Week 2: Exploration and Education06:50 Day 8: Research Assignment07:19 Day 9: Sensation Play Experiment08:06 Day 10: Role Reversal08:29 Day 11: Boundary Testing09:35 Day 12: Kink Workshop or Webinar10:38 Day 13: Fantasy Sharing11:12 Day 14: Weekly Reflection11:40 Week 3: Deepening Trust and Connection11:47 Day 15: Trust Exercises12:08 Day 16: Gratitude Lists12:24 Day 17: Surprise Day12:43 Day 18: Vulnerability Night13:10 Day 19: D/s Day Out13:46 Day 20: Aftercare Focus14:06 Day 21: Weekly Reflection14:41 Week 4: Integration and Future Planning14:48 Day 22: Dynamic Goal Setting15:18 Day 23: Contract Review/Creation15:58 Day 24: Creative Play16:31 Day 25: Self Care Day16:47 Day 26: Community Engagement17:15 Day 27: Legacy Letter17:45 Day 28: Celebration Session18:27 Day 29-30: Reflection and Relaxation18:53 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...
Chief and Moineau share a candid conversation about their recent intimate and sensual experience. They discuss reading explicit sexting exchanges, the buildup of sexual tension, and the psychological and physical aspects of their BDSM and DS relationship. The conversation covers themes of edging, teasing, and the importance of understanding and meeting each other's needs. They also highlight the roles of communication and consent in their dynamic, delving into a detailed recount of a night filled with massages, dirty talk, and slow, anticipatory teasing, culminating in deep emotional and physical connection.00:00 Introduction and Naughty Sexting01:51 Dreams and Desires04:56 Consent and Boundaries07:25 Anticipation and Preparation16:36 Unexpected Massage25:07 Teasing and Restraints30:39 Building Anticipation: The Art of Teasing31:19 Exploring Sensitivity: Techniques and Reactions33:30 Roleplay Dynamics: Daddy's Not Supposed to Touch34:09 Graphic Details: Fingering and Feedback35:58 The Fantasy and the Reality: Toys and Tools36:54 Psychological Elements in BDSM39:17 The Importance of Relaxation and Comfort43:23 Edging and Penetration: The Balancing Act46:21 The Climax: Achieving Multiple Orgasms51:55 Aftercare and Reflection52:27 Final Thoughts and ResourcesSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...
A podcast for the sexually curious and hedonistic adventurers, by the people behind KinkyEvents.co.uk. Feel empowered sexually, and learn about kink, BDSM and Dom/sub dynamics. Chief (a male Dom) and Moineau (a female sub) discuss everything from events they've been to, to advice on starting a D/s relationship, becoming comfortable with your sexuality, getting your partner to be more dominant, explaining the world of D/s for newbies, and some killer tips for the more experienced kinksters amongst you. The show contains adult themes, strong language, and discussions of sexual activity.
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