The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

Disappointment is one of the most powerful—and most misunderstood—emotions when it comes to confidence.
Most people don't fail because they aren't capable.
They fail because they don't know how to process disappointment… so they make it mean something about who they are.
In this episode, I'm sharing a real-life lesson from Snowboarding Nationals—where I found myself coaching my kids through the emotional highs and lows of competition, and teaching them a skill most adults never learn:
How to feel disappointed… and still believe in yourself.
You'll learn:
Why disappointment quickly turns into self-doubt (and how to stop that spiral)
The emotional skill that separates people who keep going from those who quit
How to hold two conflicting emotions at once (disappointment + belief)
A simple, practical process to reframe your thoughts in the moment
What to do immediately after things don't go your way
This episode will change how you experience setbacks—and give you a new way to move forward with confidence, even when things don't go as planned.
Because confidence isn't about never feeling discouraged…
It's about knowing what to do when you are.
 
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
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Most people believe success comes from trying harder.
Pushing harder.
Working harder.
Forcing themselves to "be better."
But that mindset often creates the exact things that hold us back: pressure, perfectionism, hesitation, and fear of failure.
In this episode, I'm introducing a powerful shift that will change the way you approach growth, confidence, and progress in your life:
Stop trying.
Start testing.
When you treat life like a series of experiments instead of pass/fail tests, everything changes. Failure becomes feedback. Action becomes data. And confidence grows faster because you stop making every outcome mean something about your worth.
In this episode, you'll learn:
• Why the "try harder" mindset actually sabotages confidence
• How adopting an experiment mindset reduces fear and overthinking
• The 5 areas of your life you should start testing immediately
• How to turn setbacks into useful data instead of self-criticism
• A simple 3-question framework to help you run experiments in your daily life
If you've ever felt stuck, hesitant, or like you're putting too much pressure on yourself to get things right… this episode will help you move forward with curiosity, courage, and momentum.
Because confident people don't succeed more than everyone else.
They just run more experiments.
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Other Episodes on Impostor Syndrome
#223:  Impostor Syndrome is the Biggest Liar in Your Life
#422: How to Win Against Impostor Syndrome

What if the goal isn't to eliminate impostor syndrome…
but to become so confident that it doesn't control you anymore?
 
Most people don't tell you this:
The people doing the biggest things in the world…
the people stepping into leadership…
the people trying new things…
they all feel like impostors sometimes.
The difference isn't that confident people don't feel it.
The difference is that they don't obey it.
Today we're going to talk about:
• Why impostor syndrome never actually goes away
• Why that's good news
• And how to build the kind of confidence where you keep moving forward anyway.
Resources Mentioned:
www.trishblackwell.com/90day
www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
 
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.
Other Episodes on Impostor Syndrome
#223:  Impostor Syndrome is the Biggest Liar in Your Life
#422: How to Win Against Impostor Syndrome

What if you trained your brain the same way you trained your body?
Most people can point to when they started working out, playing sports, or taking their physical health seriously. But very few people ever intentionally start training their minds.
In this episode, Trish breaks down how to actually rewire your thoughts using the science of neuroplasticity and practical daily mental training.
You'll learn:
What neuroplasticity really means
Why your brain defaults to negativity
The daily habits that reshape your thinking
How to build confidence through mental reps
Confidence isn't a personality trait — it's a trained mental skill.
Resources Mentioned:
www.trishblackwell.com/90day
www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
 
⬇️ ADDITIONAL RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.

What makes someone instantly likable?
It's not charisma, popularity, or being the most interesting person in the room.
In this episode, I break down the psychology behind why some people naturally draw others toward them — and the simple behaviors that make people genuinely enjoy being around you.
You'll learn:
The biggest mistake people make when trying to be likable
The 7 habits of socially magnetic people
Why confidence plays a huge role in connection
Simple conversation shifts that make people instantly warmer toward you
If you want to feel more confident socially and build stronger connections, this episode will show you how.
Resources Mentioned:
www.trishblackwell.com/90day
www.trishblackwell.com/socialconfidence
 
 
⬇️ RESOURCES MENTIONED ⬇️
90-Day Identity Reset:➡️  www.trishblackwell.com/90day
Improve Your Social Confidence ➡️ with this bundle (on sale now!) 
🔥 New Resource 🔥27+ Mind Games for Confidence
➡️ Click here to get a FREE COPY of the 5XBY5 METHOD:
🙋🏼‍♀️ REFRAMING MASTERY CHALLENGE:
www.trishblackwell.com/reframe
📂THE 3|3|3 METHOD, FREE DOWNLOAD! www.trishblackwell.com/333method
🏛️ GET MENTORED & COACHED BY TRISH in the COLLEGE OF CONFIDENCE  (Risk-Free, Cancel-at-Anytime, Money-Back Guarantee!)
www.collegeofconfidence.com
🔥 GET 24 MINI COURSES for $24!!! [START HERE IF YOU'RE NEW]:
www.trishblackwell.com/24for24

🎉STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK 
www.trishblackwell.com/stopcaring
❤️ABUNDANT AND ACCELERATED, 3-month 1:1 program with Trish, find out more at www.trishblackwell.com/abundant
📓GET THE "JOURNAL MASTERY BUNDLE"; click here.