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Julia tells her story of deconstructing the Jehovah's Witnesses and the expected life of suburbia.
Julia was torn between two grandmothers: an evangelical and a Jehovah's Witness. She became a Jehovah's Witness and was all in. She got married and had kids and supported her husband who was an elder. That is when the boredom set it. She wanted more, she wanted to travel and be a need-greater. Before they were to leave to Ecuador, her husband tragically died of cancer refusing blood transfusions along the way.
Julia's life became messy as she started a long process of deconstruction. This included low-lights like having her children tell on her to the elders. And highlights going out on her own to travel and meet people's needs with out dogma.
Today Julia is free. She kayaks, bikes and travels internationally. She says "I wake up every day thinking, 'I love this world, and I love this life.'"
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https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/06/29/julia-deconstructing-jws-and-suburbia/
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The Consciousness Delusion
In this solo episode I discuss Artificial Intelligence. Should we agree with Richard Dawkins that Claude is conscious? Probably not, for several reasons. I talk about how LLMs work, why I don't think they are conscious and how a humanist should respond.
Topics:
(Semi) Technical description of how Large Language Models work
LLMs are trained on the sum total of human hopes and fears
Why all the intelligence in AI systems is from human sources
Why I do not believe LLMs can be conscious in principle
The Hype problem
The Humanistic response to AI
Links
Show notes
https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/06/07/humanism-and-ai/
Here are several source material links from my research for this episode:
When Dawkins met Claude Could this AI be conscious?
https://unherd.com/2026/05/is-ai-the-next-phase-of-evolution/?edition=us
ELIZA and the missing secretary
https://theconversation.com/my-search-for-the-mysterious-missing-secretary-who-shaped-chatbot-history-225602
Alan Turing and the Turing test
https://academic.oup.com/mind/article/LIX/236/433/986238?login=false
Metaphors for how the brain works
https://mechanism.ucsd.edu/bill/teaching/w14/phil151/metaphorsandconceptionsofbrain.pdf
Alison Gopnik on Sean Carroll’s pdocast
https://www.preposterousuniverse.com/podcast/2025/03/17/308-alison-gopnik-on-children-ai-and-modes-of-thinking/
Neil deGrasse Tyson on the Late Show with Steven Colbert
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Qon72VKH30
AI as normal technology
https://knightcolumbia.org/content/ai-as-normal-technology
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https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/

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Liam is a friend and a colleague of many years. He is a member of the Religious Society of Friends often called Quakers. Liam and I have shared deep conversations before and after my deconversion. I respect the way Liam holds and lives out his beliefs.
You might be surprised. The British Liberal Quakerism Liam lives out on a daily basis is very close to my version of Humanism, Secular Grace. He is a great example of a religious humanist who cares about people over dogma.
Links
Quakers in Britain: https://www.quaker.org.uk/
Quaker Faith: https://www.quaker.org.uk/faith/read-about-quaker-faith
Quakers in USA: https://www.fgcquaker.org/
American Friends Service Committee (Charity): https://afsc.org/
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Show Notes
https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/05/24/liam-a-friend-and-a-friend/
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Deconversion
https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/
Secular Grace
https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/
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I recently read Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading by Nadia Asparouhova and it blew my mind. Just reading the intro I knew I needed to do an episode on the subject. Almost everything about deconstruction and deconversion is antimememetic. It is a significant idea that resists spreading. Listen to the episode to find out how.
All of the following are antimemetic:
Doubt
Deconstruction
Deconversion
Atheism
Humanism
Secular Grace
Links
https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/05/03/doubt-is-antimemetic/
SNL Skit: Mom Confession
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wQhY5CMMl4
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Amazon #CommissionsEarned:
Antimemetics: Why Some Ideas Resist Spreading
There is No Antimemetics Division
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Mark Anthony Diaz is the author of Reedkeeper's Journey and one of my best friends. Mark and I grew up together. We had the same sarcastic friend group in high school. We did ministry together. Crucially, Mark stuck with me after my deconversion.

Mark is a person of deep conviction, and while he's a talented EMT, author, and podcaster, it's his personal journey that truly resonates. Growing up with severe asthma made for a challenging childhood, but Mark's story is one of overcoming.

Mark is very much a believer and I respect Mark's faith. Mark lives up to the honesty contest ethos of the podcast. I wanted to have him share his life's story with us because I believe every human being's story is powerful.

Search for his serial podcast "Readkeeper's Journey" wherever you get your podcasts.

Links

Read Keeper's Journey: The only way back is forward

https://www.reedkeeper.com/

Apple:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reedkeepers-journey/id1529380366

Spotify:

https://open.spotify.com/show/5echbOBs2MXtlHolNMe0rz?si=e06f0385c8d94cad
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For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes
https://gracefulatheist.com/2026/04/19/friends-and-family-mark-anthony-diaz/
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Secular Grace
https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/
Deconversion
https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/
Deconstruction
https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/

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