The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Resurrection is not just something we celebrate at Easter. It is something we can experience in our marriages.

We know what it feels like to be stuck. We know what it feels like for things to seem lifeless, distant, or even beyond repair. But what we have learned is that what feels impossible to us is not impossible for God. If He can roll away a stone, He can move what feels stuck in your marriage. What looks dead may not be finished. It may just be waiting on Him to breathe life back into it.

In this episode, we share five truths that have shaped our own story. We talk about inviting God into the broken places, believing that He can restore what feels too far gone, and trusting that He can turn even the hardest seasons into something meaningful and beautiful.

Most importantly, we want you to hear this. Your story is not over. An empty tomb means your marriage still has a future. No matter where you are today, there is hope.

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Sometimes we look at our marriage and feel overwhelmed by everything that needs to change.

The conversations.
The habits.
The distance.
The hurt.

And if we’re honest… it can feel like too much.

But what if you didn’t have to fix everything today?

In this episode, we share a simple shift that God has been pressing on our hearts lately: focus on the next 24 hours.

Not forever.
Not five years from now.
Just today.

Because when you wake up and choose—just for today—to love your spouse well, to be patient, to be kind, to show up differently… something begins to change. The weight lifts. The pressure eases. And suddenly, growth feels possible again.

We talk about how this “24-hour mindset” can bring clarity, reduce overwhelm, and help you become more intentional in your marriage—right where you are.

And at the end, we share a powerful God story that reminded us of something we never want you to forget:

God is in the details of your marriage.

Even the ones you think He’s missed.
Even the ones that feel small.
Even the ones that feel delayed.

This was a moment we couldn’t have planned—and it left us in awe of how personal and present God really is.

If you’re feeling stuck, tired, or unsure where to start… this episode is for you.

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In working with couples, one of the things we hear over and over again is that communication is their biggest struggle. But when we slow that down and really look at it, it’s often not just about what’s being said—it’s about what’s not being said.

In this episode, we’re talking about the conversations we tend to avoid. The ones that feel risky, uncomfortable, or easier to just keep to ourselves. Whether it’s physical intimacy, finances, or that quiet, unsettling feeling that you’re starting to drift apart, these unspoken areas can slowly create distance in a marriage.

We’ve been there ourselves, and we know how tempting it is to stay silent just to keep the peace. But what we’ve learned is that silence doesn’t protect connection—it erodes it. The longer things go unspoken, the more room there is for resentment to grow and for disconnection to take root.

We also talk about the mental gymnastics so many of us do—rehearsing conversations in our heads, assuming the worst, and carrying things our spouse doesn’t even know exist. It’s exhausting, and it keeps us stuck.

Our hope in this conversation is to give you a different way forward. We’re sharing practical ways to approach hard topics with grace, curiosity, and honesty so that those conversations can actually bring you closer instead of pushing you apart.

You don’t have to stay stuck in the silence. There is a better way to be known, to be heard, and to reconnect with your spouse.'

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This week on the Redeemed Marriage podcast, we are coming to you from our retreat home in Atlanta after spending several powerful days with couples who traveled here from across the country. Weeks like this always remind us of something that so many marriages forget in the middle of the struggle: you are not the only couple fighting this battle.

When a marriage gets hard, it is easy to feel isolated. It is easy to believe that everyone else has it figured out while your relationship feels broken, tense, or distant. But sitting around the living room with couples this week reminded us again that so many people are carrying the same fears, the same frustrations, and the same quiet questions about whether their marriage can really change.

If your marriage feels heavy right now, we want this conversation to remind you of something important. You are not alone. Your spouse is not your enemy. And no situation is beyond God’s ability to redeem. We see it every week sitting across from couples who once believed their story was over.

There is always hope for redemption, and we are honored to be fighting for marriages alongside you.

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This week we’re sitting down to talk about something that can feel absolutely suffocating — shame and guilt.

During a recent Q&A, someone asked how you move forward when it feels like you have a scarlet “A” for adultery spray-painted across your chest. And that question hit home.

Even fifteen years after Heather’s confession, the enemy still tries to whisper lies. There are moments when the weight of the past feels heavy, and the temptation to slip back into shame is real. But we’ve learned something over the years — shame is not from the Lord.

In this episode, we talk honestly about what it looks like to rebuild a marriage after infidelity and how we’ve chosen to replace that “A” with an “F” for forgiven and an “R” for redeemed.

Rusty also shares vulnerably about his own battle — the lingering narrative of not being “good enough” as the betrayed spouse. Because healing isn’t just about the one who confessed. Both people wrestle. Both people have to fight for truth.

We talk about how we’ve rebuilt our home on a biblical foundation, why we refuse to put our marriage on cruise control, and the practical ways we take our thoughts captive (2 Corinthians 10) when shame tries to creep back in.

If you’ve ever felt defined by your worst decision…
If you’ve ever believed you’re permanently marked by your past…
If you’re wondering whether true freedom is actually possible…

We want you to know this: you are not your worst day. In Christ, you are forgiven. You are redeemed. And healing is still available.

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