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In this deeply honest episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant continue the conversation around healing after infidelity by turning the focus to a perspective that is often misunderstood and rarely discussed. Heather vulnerably shares what the spouse who caused the hurt needs in order for true restoration to take place—not as a way to excuse betrayal, but as a pathway toward lasting healing for both partners.

Drawing from their own story, Heather introduces the idea of the “One Day” moments—those emotionally charged days when pain is fresh and decisions feel urgent. She gently challenges couples to resist making life-altering choices in the immediate aftermath of trauma and instead allow space for clarity, wisdom, and God’s work over time. Together, Rusty and Heather address the outside voices that often label forgiveness as weakness, reminding listeners that choosing to stay, fight, and rebuild requires immense courage and strength.

The conversation explores the tension between rebuilding trust and creating safety, reframing boundaries and transparency not as control, but as necessary protection for both spouses. Heather speaks candidly about the danger of perpetual punishment and how staying stuck in the offense can quietly sabotage the very healing both partners are longing for. By shifting the focus from the act of betrayal to the impact of the pain, they show how a marriage can move from being defined by an affair to being shaped by redemption.

Nearly thirty years into marriage and approaching fifteen years of life after infidelity, Rusty and Heather stand as living proof that God is able to redeem even the most broken chapters. This episode offers hope to couples in the middle of the wreckage and points toward a future where grace, humility, and perseverance can make the second half of marriage even more meaningful than the first.

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In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage, Rusty and Heather step into one of the most critical—and often misunderstood—moments in the healing journey: the days immediately following confession. Speaking honestly from their own story, they address what the betrayed spouse is often carrying in shock and silence, and what the unfaithful spouse must understand if real healing is going to begin.

Rather than offering quick fixes or surface-level apologies, this conversation walks through ten essential commitments that move a marriage toward safety and restoration. The focus is not just on stopping harmful behavior or choosing to stay married, but on what it actually takes to become a different person—someone capable of rebuilding trust over time. Rusty shares what he needed but didn’t yet know how to articulate in the aftermath of betrayal, while Heather reflects on the posture required to walk patiently with a wounded spouse who is learning how to respond in a reality they never asked for.

This episode speaks directly to couples living in the aftermath of broken trust, clarifying why “sorry” is only the beginning, why transparency and boundaries are non-negotiable, and why change—not just effort—is required for reconciliation. It is an honest, hope-filled conversation for anyone asking what comes next after confession, and whether a marriage can truly be rebuilt on new and safer ground.

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This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant share what happens when prayer is no longer a routine—but the only place left to turn.

In this episode, they reflect on seasons when answers were unclear, circumstances felt overwhelming, and prayer became an act of surrender rather than certainty. From facing a cancer diagnosis to witnessing God’s provision in unexpected ways, Rusty and Heather point to moments where prayer was all they had left.

The conversation also introduces their February Prayer Challenge, a growing commitment in which Rusty and Heather set aside the month of February to pray daily for couples around the world. What began as a quiet act of obedience has grown into a powerful season of intercession for marriages in need of hope.

Rusty and Heather emphasize that while God is fully capable of miraculous intervention, the truest work of prayer often happens beneath the surface—reshaping trust, softening hearts, and aligning lives with God’s purposes and timing. This episode is an open invitation to anyone, regardless of where their marriage currently stands, to experience the hope that comes from being covered in prayer when there are no easy answers left.

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In this episode of the The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, we talk about a season many couples don’t expect—and few are prepared for—the frustration stage of healing after betrayal.

After confession, when the shock has worn off and the hard work has begun, couples often find themselves stuck. The repentant spouse may be doing “all the right things,” while the betrayed spouse still doesn’t feel safe. Change is happening—but safety hasn’t caught up yet.

We unpack an important distinction: behavior change matters, but safety is what heals. Early growth can actually feel unsettling, even threatening, when trust has been broken. That tension leaves both spouses exhausted—the repentant spouse wondering how long they’ll have to keep paying for the past, and the betrayed spouse fearing the pain may never fully go away.

Instead of living in score-keeping or defensiveness, we talk about what it looks like to move toward humble consistency, patience, and reassurance—and why healing cannot be forced or rushed.

Ultimately, real restoration doesn’t come from fixing each other. It comes when both spouses stop looking to their marriage for completion and allow God to be their source.

If your marriage feels stuck in the messy middle—where survival is happening but joy feels far away—this episode is for you. Healing is possible. Safety can be rebuilt. And God still writes miracles in places that feel beyond repair.

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As the new year begins, Rusty and Heather invite listeners into a conversation about goals, growth, and the role personal responsibility plays in a thriving marriage. In this first episode of the year, they do something they’ve never done publicly before—share their individual goals for 2026 with each other in real time.

Rather than focusing on fixing a spouse or creating rigid, legalistic resolutions, this conversation reframes what intentionality really looks like. Rusty and Heather reflect on how their approach to annual goals has evolved over the years, moving away from pressure and performance and toward clarity, grace, and purposeful direction. They unpack why personal growth is not selfish in marriage, but essential.

Using Luke 2:52 as a guiding framework, they explain how Jesus’ growth in wisdom, stature, and favor with God and others continues to shape how they think about goal-setting today. Along the way, they share the books they plan to read in the coming year, offer insight into what’s ahead for The Redeemed Marriage, and encourage listeners to pursue growth with intention.

This episode is an invitation to start the year differently—to stop trying to change your spouse, take ownership of your own growth, and discover how personal transformation can lead to deeper connection, freedom, and renewal in marriage in the year ahead.

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