We are honored to have THE Jen Hamilton join us on the pod today! Jen Hamilton is a labor and delivery nurse, viral TikTok creator with over 6 million followers, and author of Birth Vibes: Stories and Strategies for an Empowered Birth (May 2026), a warm, clinically grounded guide to navigating childbirth with confidence and calm. She is the founder of Hot Mess Express, a nonprofit offering judgment-free house cleaning and organizing for women in need, and a passionate advocate for dismantling systemic racism and misogyny in obstetrical and gynecological care.
A 2026 President's Award recipient from the American Nurses Association and a frequent presence in outlets including CNN, The New York Times, and The Huffington Post, Jen has become one of the most recognizable voices in modern nursing through her signature blend of clinical expertise, frank humor, and deep empathy. She is funny, kind, generous, gracious, and quickly becoming a household name!
In today’s episode, Jen sits down with Lily and Paige to chat all about creating the best vibes for your birth. They do a deep dive into VBAC, and ask questions that came directly from you all. This is an episode you DO NOT want to miss.
Today’s topics include:
Using interventions as tools
Why a provider may be the factor if someone will have a VBAC or not
Dirty secret of OB
How Jen feels about doulas
How to ask for a new nurse
Debriefing your birth
Preparing for a different birth experience
Expectations around coping techniques
Giving yourself grace
Baton race of coping analogy
Funny and memorable stories in L&D
Unique VBAC circumstances
Failure to progress
How she would improve cesareans and humanize the experience
Keywords: Jen Hamilton, labor and delivery, L&D nurse, OBGYN, cesarean, vbac, birth after cesarean, cbac, doula, birth vibes, epidural, failure to progress, tolac, vbac consent, hospital vbac
Birth Vibes: Stories and Strategies for an Empowered Birth
Jen's Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Substack, Website
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The Ultimate VBAC Prep Course for Parents
Online VBAC Doula Training
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