The Daily Motivation

Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"Most of us in the West today will have two or three marriages or adult relationships in our lifetime. Some of us will do it with the same person... we know that we are not the only one and yet the whole romantic ideal is about the soulmate and the one and only." - Esther PerelRenowned relationship expert Esther Perel delves deep into society's evolving views on monogamy, challenging traditional notions that no longer align with modern reality. She explores how the concept has shifted from "one person for life" to "one person at a time," addressing the complex emotions that arise when partners navigate their respective sexual histories. Through her lens of cultural analysis, Perel illuminates how our individualistic society struggles with the idea of being "replaceable" in intimate relationships.The conversation takes a profound turn as Perel examines why some partners struggle hearing about their lover's sexual past, revealing how it threatens our deep-seated desire to feel unique and irreplaceable. She points out the fascinating paradox in modern relationships: while we know intellectually that we may not be someone's first or last love, we still cling to the romantic ideal of being "the one." Her insights challenge listeners to examine their own beliefs about love, desire, and the complex nature of modern relationships.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!

Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"When you become a dad for the first time, oxytocin rewires your brain so that you're more into bonding and less into the testosterone competitive stuff." - Dr. Tara SwartNeuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart reveals how our psychological wounds shape our attraction patterns and relationship choices. Through her research, she explores how evolutionary biology has influenced modern relationship dynamics between men and women. While women's brains are historically wired for seeking stable partnerships due to survival needs dating back to our cave-dwelling ancestors, she reveals fascinating new research showing how fatherhood physically rewires men's brains through oxytocin, shifting them from competition to bonding.The conversation delves into the fascinating intersection of neuroscience and love, challenging traditional gender stereotypes in relationships. Dr. Swart explains that while evolutionary history has influenced relationship patterns, the core experience of genuine love transcends gender. Her insights illuminate how our brains adapt to modern relationship structures, moving beyond primitive survival instincts to form deeper emotional bonds, suggesting that our capacity for love and connection continues to evolve with our understanding of neuroscience.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!

Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Clinical Psychologist and Best-selling Author shares how to add real value to your relationships and how that can help them thrive. Check out the full episode: http://www.lewishowes.com/1344 Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!

Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"By the time Grown-ish started, I went from working 10 hours to 17 hours a day... I had to learn how to take care of myself and what that looked like." - Yara ShahidiStarting as a child actress before landing a breakthrough role on Black-ish, Yara Shahidi's journey exemplifies the delicate balance of pursuing excellence while maintaining well-being. Her transition from working limited hours as a minor to grueling 17-hour days on Grown-ish's first season posed unprecedented challenges. With the guidance of her family and production team, she learned to prioritize her humanity over industry demands, leading to crucial conversations about work-life balance and self-care on set.Beyond acting, Yara's commitment to living a full life led her to explore political engagement and voting advocacy while juggling her demanding schedule. Her experience navigating Harvard's academic rigor alongside a leading role in a top TV show demonstrates her resilience and adaptability. Through strategic scheduling and unwavering family support, she maintained her identity beyond the entertainment industry, proving that success doesn't require sacrificing personal growth or well-being.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!