Not so Christian Brothers

• The Myth of Balance: Why Peace Is Overrated

  Everyone’s chasing balance — but what if the secret is learning to live in chaos?This week’s Aftershow gets philosophical (and messy) as Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan unpack the cult of calm. From meditation fails to emotional meltdowns, they rip into the myth that life’s supposed to feel peaceful.Colm admits he’s allergic to silence, Justin defends stillness (badly), and Rebecca proves she’s the only one who actually understands mindfulness — or at least can pronounce it.It’s loud, honest, and unexpectedly therapeutic — in that “you’re not alone in being a disaster” kind of way.🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday.🗓 This episode: Sunday, 9 November 2025.Everybody’s telling you to calm down — but what if that’s the problem?In this episode, the Not So Christian Brothers dismantle the modern obsession with peace, balance, and “wellness.”Colm’s wound up, Justin’s zen (for five seconds), and Rebecca’s calling them both out.It’s the Aftershow that proves chaos isn’t failure — it’s the natural state of being human.⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & “the cult of calm”02:00 – Colm vs stillness: “Silence is suspicious”04:30 – Rebecca on burnout & balance myths07:00 – Justin’s meditation confessions09:00 – Why chaos might be more honest than calm11:00 – Mindfulness, missteps & manic Mondays13:00 – Final thoughts & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Everybody’s Faking It (Even You)

  Let’s be honest — we’re all full of sh*t.This week, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — rip apart the illusion of perfection we’ve built online and off.From filtered lives and fake humility to Irish denial, ego, and middle-aged crisis rebrands, they say the quiet part out loud.Colm calls out “bullsh*t wellness,” Justin admits he’s been just as guilty, and Rebecca lays down the truth about people who post “authentic” just to get attention.It’s funny, uncomfortable, and scarily relatable — a full-on takedown of modern self-delusion.🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now and join the unholy honesty.You think you’re being real? You’re not — and neither are we.This episode of Not So Christian Brothers goes straight for the jugular:why everyone’s pretending, who’s fooling who, and how social media made us all addicted to lying.It’s fast, filthy, and full of uncomfortable truth.If you’ve ever posted a “no filter” selfie or humble-bragged about mindfulness — you might want to sit this one out.⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & Colm’s rant on fake people03:00 – The cult of “authentic” influencers06:00 – Justin admits he’s played the same game09:00 – Rebecca’s reality check: “Nobody’s that happy”12:00 – The Irish art of denial15:00 – Midlife rebrands & spiritual bullshit18:00 – Truth bombs & uncomfortable laughter21:00 – Sunday tease & a final jab at fake gratitude🗓 Release Date: Thursday, 6 November 2025🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 9 November 2025📢 New shows every Thursday & Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Brothers, Guilt & The Snowman: When Family Messes You Up

  This one hits hard.In this week’s Aftershow, the Not So Christian Brothers — Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan — drop the jokes (mostly) and dive into the emotional minefield of family, childhood, and guilt.Justin remembers being left behind in a house that didn’t feel safe, watching Colm build a snowman through the window.Colm swears he doesn’t remember doing it — and Rebecca isn’t letting him off the hook.What starts as a nostalgic story becomes a brutally honest conversation about survival, neglect, loneliness, and why Irish families never really talk about love — just guilt.It’s raw, revealing, and somehow still hilarious.🎙 New shows every Thursday & Sunday.🗓 This episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025.Ever carried guilt from your childhood? Or blamed your brother for turning you into who you are?Colm and Justin open old wounds (and old snowmen), with Rebecca playing referee.It’s part therapy, part sibling rivalry, and 100% Not So Christian.⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Welcome & the “Snowman Story”02:00 – Childhood memories vs selective amnesia04:00 – Guilt, leaving home & who got left behind06:00 – Rebecca calls out Irish emotional repression08:00 – Sibling rivalry & the fight to be seen10:00 – Family dysfunction, loneliness & love12:00 – The red-pen parents & emotional grammar lessons13:00 – Wrap-up, chaos & next week’s tease Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Crying for Clicks: Are We All Addicted to Misery?

  Are we healing — or just performing pain for attention?This week on Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Rebecca Horan get brutally real about the age of emotional exhibitionism.From crying selfies and mental health influencers to therapy addiction and Irish repression, no one’s safe.Colm thinks we’ve replaced resilience with victimhood, Justin argues for real healing, and Rebecca calls out the hypocrisy on both sides.It’s funny, uncomfortable, and more honest than most therapy sessions.Everyone’s sad. Everyone’s online.And everyone’s telling you about it.Colm’s had enough of performative misery. Justin’s defending therapy. Rebecca’s trying to make sense of it all.It’s Irish honesty at its finest — sharp, savage, and weirdly comforting.If you’ve ever rolled your eyes at a crying influencer (or been one), this episode’s for you.🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday — subscribe now so you never miss the chaos, comedy, or confession.⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – 02:30: Oversharing, misery & the therapy epidemic02:30 – 06:00: Colm vs Justin — resilience or repression?06:00 – 09:30: Rebecca on empathy burnout & online sadness09:30 – 12:00: Irish mental health, male silence & dark humour12:00 – 15:30: Crying selfies & trauma as content15:30 – 18:00: When therapy becomes a brand18:00 – 21:00: Real talk — loneliness, loss & living offline21:00 – End: Sunday tease + a final jab at influencers🎙 Next Episode: Sunday, 2 November 2025📢 New episodes every Thursday and Sunday — on Spotify, Acast, Apple, and YouTube. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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• Beckhams, Billionaires & Bullshit: Power, Sex & Corruption

  Sunday’s supposed to be holy — but not here.In this week’s Aftershow, Colm, Justin, and Rebecca dive straight into scandal, corruption, and why humans can’t handle power.It starts with Beckham’s affair, jumps to Epstein’s empire, and somehow ends up at Paul McCartney, Margaret Thatcher, and mommy fetishes.💬 What they actually get into:Is Rebecca Loos brave or just bored?Why money, sex, and power always corrupt — and who’s worst at itJustin admits being “a power-hungry asshole” in his twentiesRebecca schools the lads on women’s real motivationsColm insists he’s “the least corrupt man alive” (no one believes him)And yes… it ends with another lesbian jokeThis is Not So Christian Brothers — unholy, uncensored, and impossible to stop listening to.🎙 New episodes every Thursday & Sunday.🗓 This episode: Sunday 19 October 2025.Power, sex, greed — and David Beckham’s Sunday roast.Colm’s defending men again, Justin’s confessing to corruption, and Rebecca’s running circles around them both.It’s filthy, funny, and far too honest for a Sunday.⏱️ Chapter Timings00:00 – Sunday blasphemy & Mass talk02:00 – Beckham, Rebecca Loos & revenge stories04:00 – Epstein, Ghislaine & the corruption triangle: money, power, sex06:00 – Men’s “three pillars” vs women’s “three truths”07:30 – Justin admits his power addiction09:00 – Paul McCartney, ego, and artistic narcissism11:00 – Can women be corrupted — or are they worse when they are?12:00 – Margaret Thatcher, affairs & fantasies13:00 – Lesbian callback, chaos, and sign-off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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