Love and Money Podcast

• Navigating Family Court: The Pro Se Approach with Tracey Bee

  You don’t need a law degree to take control of your divorce. Tracey Bee, former family law attorney turned pro se strategist, is on a mission to help people represent themselves in family court with confidence and clarity. Her work empowers self-represented litigants to take charge of their legal process without spending tens of thousands of dollars on an attorney. In this episode, Tracey and Tracy dive into the realities of going pro se, including when it’s the right move, what skills are needed, and how to avoid common missteps in the courtroom. If you’ve ever felt like hiring an attorney is out of reach, this conversation is packed with tools and encouragement to help you take action. What you'll take away from this episode: When it makes sense to go pro se and when it doesn’t  Why understanding court procedure is more important than knowing the law  Creative ways to work with legal professionals using unbundled services  How to prepare for court without being overwhelmed  The role of strategy, research, and self-advocacy in a successful pro se case  Tracey offers one-on-one strategy sessions, unbundled services, and downloadable resources to help you make smart decisions in family court. Be sure to check out her quiz and e-guide, "The Ultimate Conflict Predictor: How Much Will My Divorce Conflict Cost Me?"  to estimate the cost and complexity of your divorce: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1A8BcgUG7RU3fe_7BjvRq72UxkgKIT5z5/view You can also visit Tracey's website here: https://thedivorcesolutionist.com

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• Financial Analysis is the Narcissist's Kryptonite with Victoria Kirilloff

  When you’re divorcing a narcissist, facts are your best weapon, and Victoria Kirilloff is here to show you how to use them. A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of Divorce Analytics, Victoria helps women transform chaos into clarity with data-driven financial strategies that neutralize emotional manipulation.  In this episode, Victoria shares her own harrowing divorce story—one that began with financial abuse and ended with a fact-based, ironclad settlement. She introduces her signature tool, the Global Settlement Proposal, and explains why it’s a game-changer for anyone navigating a high-conflict divorce. Why financial facts beat narcissistic fiction How the Global Settlement Proposal can disarm a narcissist’s tactics The connection between gaslighting and financial manipulation Why your lawyer is not the one to figure out your finances—and who is How to hold a narcissist accountable by creating consequences backed by evidence  Victoria’s mission is to empower women through financial transparency. Learn more about her work here: https://divorceanalytics.com/ Sign up for Victoria's upcoming webinar, How to Successfully Divorce a Narcissist: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0ud-CsqjItGdN9quJxcfa94vYbCz0hiwul

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• Avoiding Financial Pitfalls in Divorce with Brooke Summerhill

  When it comes to divorce, not knowing what you don’t know can cost you a lot. Brooke Summerhill is a financial consultant who works with ultra-high-net-worth families during divorce, bringing together financial strategy and emotional insight. Her consultative approach focuses on helping women avoid costly mistakes, gain clarity, and feel empowered during the divorce process. In this episode, Brooke and Tracy dive into the most common financial pitfalls women face in divorce... and how to sidestep them with confidence. Whether you're negotiating the house, retirement, or child-related expenses, this is the conversation every woman needs before signing a settlement. Key takeaways from this episode: Why “keeping the house” could be a financial trap if you don’t run the numbers The importance of reframing language: It’s OUR retirement, OUR business What to consider before accepting promises about college or long-term support How working with a financial professional can lead to a better, more creative settlement Why your personal values should guide your financial decisions during divorce Brooke helps women build financial clarity and confidence through one-on-one consulting. To connect with her and learn more about her work at The Summerhill Firm, head here: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/

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• Rewrite Your Divorce Story with Courage and Confidence with Andrea Owen

  Divorce can shake your confidence, but what if you could rewrite your story—and come out stronger than ever? This week, Tracy Coenen sits down with Andrea Owen, an author, keynote speaker, and life coach who helps high-achieving women take control of their lives. Having been through two divorces herself, Andrea knows firsthand what it’s like to question your self-worth and wonder what’s next. She’s here to help you shift your mindset, silence self-doubt, and step boldly into your next chapter. This is a conversation about shedding shame, rewriting your story, and deciding that your next chapter is going to be your best one yet. You’ll hear about Andrea’s personal journey, the power of mindset reframes, and the one question she wants every woman to ask herself: What’s my conditioning vs. what’s my truth? What you’ll learn in this episode: Why divorce doesn’t mean failure, and how to reframe it as a powerful transformation How to rebuild your self-confidence even when you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom The emotional toll of separation and why it's totally normal to feel like a mess The dangers of toxic positivity and why ignoring your pain won’t help you heal How to stop comparing your journey to others and start owning your path The role of boundaries, self-advocacy, and asking for what you really want. Andrea shares how to stop giving your power away, start using empowering language, and surround yourself with people who actually support your growth—not reinforce your shame. How to rebuild confidence and claim your power post-divorce: Your marriage ending is not a personal failure, it’s part of your evolution. Confidence isn’t something you’re born with. It’s built through experience. Feel the feelings, then take action—rage, grief, and growth can all exist together Stop letting fear and self-doubt dictate your decisions. You are allowed to take up space, set boundaries, and ask for what you want. Andrea’s newly updated book 52 Ways to Live a Kick-Ass Life is filled with bite-sized personal development nuggets to keep on your nightstand and revisit any time you need a boost: https://amzn.to/4j7eEBr Tune in now to learn how to ditch the shame and start writing a new story—one where you are confident, courageous, and 100% in charge. #DivorceConfidence #RewriteYourStory #EmpoweredWomen

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• No Kids, No Problem? The Truth About Childfree Divorce with Dr. Jay Zigmont

  You don’t need kids to experience a complex, emotional, and expensive divorce—just ask anyone who’s been through one. In this eye-opening episode, Tracy talks with Dr. Jay Zigmont, Certified Financial Planner and founder of Childfree Wealth, about what it really means to navigate marriage, money, and divorce without children in the picture. Jay and Tracy dive into the unique challenges (and surprising advantages) that childfree individuals face during and after divorce. From planning for long-term care to rewriting financial expectations and building community, this episode is a must-listen if you’re divorced, divorcing, or simply living life on your own terms—no diaper bags required. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why divorce without kids is not always easier—and what makes it different The major financial planning mistakes childfree people make (especially during divorce) How to build your safety net and support system when there’s no “next of kin” What to do with your powers of attorney, beneficiaries, and estate plans post-divorce How childfree divorcees can avoid common traps and create a confident financial future Tracy and Jay also explore the idea of choosing whether or not to marry—and how legal, financial, and emotional considerations all come into play, especially without the “stay together for the kids” factor. Whether you’re childfree by choice or circumstance, this episode offers powerful, practical advice for owning your future, protecting yourself financially, and designing a life that fits you—not some outdated playbook. Get Dr. Jay's new book The Childfree Guide to Life and Money: https://amzn.to/3XALmD9 Your life. Your money. Your rules. Tune in now and get empowered to build your future—without apology. #ChildfreeDivorce #FinancialPlanning #DivorceSupport #NoKidsNoProblem

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