S1E9: What It Means to Be Yourself: Gender & Identity with Dr. Vanessa Lacey
In this episode of Becoming You – The Podcast, John Fleming sits down with Dr. Vanessa Lacey, a psychotherapist, educator, parent, and one of Ireland’s leading voices in trans advocacy.Vanessa shares her deeply personal story - from growing up in 1960s Waterford, through years of survival and silence, to finding her truth and stepping into a life of authenticity, compassion, and service.This is a conversation about identity, family, healing, and the quiet courage it takes to live in alignment with who you are, even when the world doesn’t make it easy.Together, John and Vanessa explore the human side of gender, mental health, and the journey of becomingWhat You’ll Discover in This Episode:Vanessa’s story of growing up in 1970s Waterford,The emotional and physical toll of suppressing her gender identity - and the impact it had on her education and mental healthHow psychotherapy supported her begin to understand her truth and choose lifeVanessa’s journey of transitioning her gender to align with her natureHer work in gender identity advocacy, education, and family support — and why listening and language matterThe lifelong process of becoming and how that relates to our identityFollow Becoming You on Social Media:Instagram: @becoming_you_TikTok: @becoming_you_Share Your Story:John would love to hear from you! If this episode resonated with you, send an email to
[email protected] the website at www.becomingyou.ieConnect with Dr. Vanessa Lacey:Website: www.gendercare.ieLinkedIn: Dr. Vanessa Lacey: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-vanessa-lacey-8525b335/?originalSubdomain=ieWould you like to explore the idea of uncovering, embracing and being your true self?Download your free self led workbook: https://www.becomingyou.ie/#workbookDisclaimer: The content shared in this podcast represents the personal experiences, opinions, and insights of the host, guests, and contributors. It is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, whether medical, psychological, therapeutic, legal, or financial. If you are experiencing mental health challenges, emotional distress, or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek guidance from a qualified professional or relevant support services.