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    EP 562: How Overgiving Keeps You From Getting the Love You Want with Emily

    11/11/2026 | 28 mins.
    What if your habit of giving so much in relationships is actually preventing you from receiving the love and connection you desire?
    In this coaching session, Christine works with Emily, an empathetic woman and mother of two who recognizes a pattern of overgiving in relationships. Although she's become more aware of her people-pleasing tendencies, she struggles to change them without feeling like she's losing an important part of herself.
    As they explore Emily's childhood, Christine uncovers experiences of rejection by peers and emotional invalidation that taught her to seek belonging and approval through pleasing others. Being chosen became a way to feel worthy, safe, and accepted.
    But even after being chosen, Emily continued trying to earn love by giving more, anticipating others' needs, and putting her own feelings aside.
    Christine helps Emily recognize that overgiving and hyper-independence can stem from the same fear: rejection and being left alone. Rather than abandoning her natural empathy, Emily is encouraged to redirect some of that compassion toward herself.
    Together, they explore boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety, and why always being the person who's "fine" can actually prevent others from truly knowing and loving us.
    If you've ever felt responsible for everyone else's happiness, struggled to express your needs, or believed you had to earn love through giving, this episode offers a powerful reminder: You don't have to stop being generous to stop abandoning yourself.

    Consider / Ask Yourself
    Do you give because you genuinely want to, or because you're afraid someone won't choose you if you don't?

    Are you constantly anticipating other people's needs while overlooking your own?

    Do you struggle to express your feelings, ask for support, or set boundaries?

    Have experiences of rejection taught you to earn belonging by being helpful or low-maintenance?

    When you're hurting, do you acknowledge your emotions or immediately try to convince yourself you're fine?

    Are you allowing others to truly know you, or are you hiding behind the role of always being okay?


    Key Insights and A-Ha's
    Being empathetic and generous isn't the problem. The motivation behind giving and where that energy is directed matter.

    Childhood rejection can create a deep desire to be chosen, accepted, and included.

    When our feelings are dismissed growing up, we may learn to distrust our own emotional experiences.

    Overgiving and hyper-independence can be two different responses to the same fear of rejection.

    Continually earning someone's approval can prevent us from experiencing balanced, reciprocal relationships.

    Intellectualizing difficult emotions can repeat the emotional invalidation we experienced in childhood.

    Healthy boundaries don't make us selfish; they allow us to honor ourselves.

    Being the person who never needs anything can prevent others from offering genuine love and support.

    Self-awareness allows us to recognize protective patterns without confusing them with our personality.


    How to Deepen the Work
    When you notice yourself overgiving, ask: "Am I doing this from love, or because I'm afraid of what will happen if I don't?"

    Practice slowing down in new relationships and observing whether the effort and care are reciprocal.

    Redirect your attention inward when you notice yourself constantly monitoring someone else's needs.

    Acknowledge difficult emotions instead of immediately analyzing or dismissing them.

    Practice asking for support and expressing your needs with people you trust.

    Notice moments when you're trying to be low-maintenance or always okay, and consider what you're afraid might happen if you were honest.

    Celebrate the progress you've already made in setting boundaries and caring for yourself.


    A Powerful Reframe: Overgiving Can Be a Way of Hiding
    One of the biggest breakthroughs in this conversation comes when Christine explains that overgiving can actually keep us from experiencing the intimacy we're trying to create.
    When we're always checking on others, anticipating their needs, and presenting ourselves as someone who doesn't need support, we may unintentionally prevent people from truly seeing us.
    Emily recognizes that she's already begun changing this pattern in her female friendships by sharing more vulnerably and allowing others to support her.
    Now she's learning to bring that same openness into romantic relationships.
    You don't have to stop being an empath or a giver. You simply need to include yourself in the care and attention you so naturally offer everyone else.
    When we allow people to see our needs, feelings, and vulnerabilities, we give them the opportunity to genuinely love and support us.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode
    Be the Queen
    Christine discusses Be the Queen, the relationship program for women who want to call in or call forward healthy, loving, lasting partnerships.
    Emily is participating in the program, where women explore protective relationship patterns, inner child healing, self-worth, boundaries, and creating more balanced relationships.
    Christine shares that the current cohort is two weeks underway and enrollment is still open.
    Learn more and apply for Be the Queen
    Byron Katie — The Work
    Christine briefly references the work of Byron Katie, particularly the practice of questioning whether the beliefs we hold about ourselves are actually true.
    This approach is mentioned as a way to become curious about feelings of rejection without dismissing the emotions underneath them.

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    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

    Christine Hassler Podcasts including Coaches Corner

    Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

    Facebook — Christine Hassler

    Instagram — @ChristineHassler

    Instagram — @SacredUnionCouples

    Apply to be coached on the show

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    EP 562: How Overgiving Keeps You From Getting the Love You Want with Emily

    11/11/2026 | 28 mins.
    What if your habit of giving so much in relationships is actually preventing you from receiving the love and connection you desire?
    In this coaching session, Christine works with Emily, an empathetic woman and mother of two who recognizes a pattern of overgiving in relationships. Although she's become more aware of her people-pleasing tendencies, she struggles to change them without feeling like she's losing an important part of herself.
    As they explore Emily's childhood, Christine uncovers experiences of rejection by peers and emotional invalidation that taught her to seek belonging and approval through pleasing others. Being chosen became a way to feel worthy, safe, and accepted.
    But even after being chosen, Emily continued trying to earn love by giving more, anticipating others' needs, and putting her own feelings aside.
    Christine helps Emily recognize that overgiving and hyper-independence can stem from the same fear: rejection and being left alone. Rather than abandoning her natural empathy, Emily is encouraged to redirect some of that compassion toward herself.
    Together, they explore boundaries, self-worth, emotional safety, and why always being the person who's "fine" can actually prevent others from truly knowing and loving us.
    If you've ever felt responsible for everyone else's happiness, struggled to express your needs, or believed you had to earn love through giving, this episode offers a powerful reminder: You don't have to stop being generous to stop abandoning yourself.

    Consider / Ask Yourself
    Do you give because you genuinely want to, or because you're afraid someone won't choose you if you don't?

    Are you constantly anticipating other people's needs while overlooking your own?

    Do you struggle to express your feelings, ask for support, or set boundaries?

    Have experiences of rejection taught you to earn belonging by being helpful or low-maintenance?

    When you're hurting, do you acknowledge your emotions or immediately try to convince yourself you're fine?

    Are you allowing others to truly know you, or are you hiding behind the role of always being okay?


    Key Insights and A-Ha's
    Being empathetic and generous isn't the problem. The motivation behind giving and where that energy is directed matter.

    Childhood rejection can create a deep desire to be chosen, accepted, and included.

    When our feelings are dismissed growing up, we may learn to distrust our own emotional experiences.

    Overgiving and hyper-independence can be two different responses to the same fear of rejection.

    Continually earning someone's approval can prevent us from experiencing balanced, reciprocal relationships.

    Intellectualizing difficult emotions can repeat the emotional invalidation we experienced in childhood.

    Healthy boundaries don't make us selfish; they allow us to honor ourselves.

    Being the person who never needs anything can prevent others from offering genuine love and support.

    Self-awareness allows us to recognize protective patterns without confusing them with our personality.


    How to Deepen the Work
    When you notice yourself overgiving, ask: "Am I doing this from love, or because I'm afraid of what will happen if I don't?"

    Practice slowing down in new relationships and observing whether the effort and care are reciprocal.

    Redirect your attention inward when you notice yourself constantly monitoring someone else's needs.

    Acknowledge difficult emotions instead of immediately analyzing or dismissing them.

    Practice asking for support and expressing your needs with people you trust.

    Notice moments when you're trying to be low-maintenance or always okay, and consider what you're afraid might happen if you were honest.

    Celebrate the progress you've already made in setting boundaries and caring for yourself.


    A Powerful Reframe: Overgiving Can Be a Way of Hiding
    One of the biggest breakthroughs in this conversation comes when Christine explains that overgiving can actually keep us from experiencing the intimacy we're trying to create.
    When we're always checking on others, anticipating their needs, and presenting ourselves as someone who doesn't need support, we may unintentionally prevent people from truly seeing us.
    Emily recognizes that she's already begun changing this pattern in her female friendships by sharing more vulnerably and allowing others to support her.
    Now she's learning to bring that same openness into romantic relationships.
    You don't have to stop being an empath or a giver. You simply need to include yourself in the care and attention you so naturally offer everyone else.
    When we allow people to see our needs, feelings, and vulnerabilities, we give them the opportunity to genuinely love and support us.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode
    Be the Queen
    Christine discusses Be the Queen, the relationship program for women who want to call in or call forward healthy, loving, lasting partnerships.
    Emily is participating in the program, where women explore protective relationship patterns, inner child healing, self-worth, boundaries, and creating more balanced relationships.
    Christine shares that the current cohort is two weeks underway and enrollment is still open.
    Learn more and apply for Be the Queen
    Byron Katie — The Work
    Christine briefly references the work of Byron Katie, particularly the practice of questioning whether the beliefs we hold about ourselves are actually true.
    This approach is mentioned as a way to become curious about feelings of rejection without dismissing the emotions underneath them.

    Social Media + Resources
    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

    Christine Hassler Podcasts including Coaches Corner

    Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

    Facebook — Christine Hassler

    Instagram — @ChristineHassler

    Instagram — @SacredUnionCouples

    Apply to be coached on the show

    Courses, retreats, and more resources
  • Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

    EP 561: The Fear of Choosing the Wrong Partner with Victoria

    28/10/2026 | 27 mins.
    What if your biggest obstacle to finding the right partner isn't a lack of options—but a lack of trust in your own decisions?
    In this coaching session, Christine works with Victoria, a 34-year-old woman who deeply desires marriage and motherhood but feels increasing pressure to find the right partner before time runs out.
    Victoria has dated men who were interested in her, only to realize months later that the connection wasn't what she wanted. She often commits mentally too quickly, analyzes potential partners, and seeks reassurance from friends and family about whether she's making the right choice.
    As Christine explores Victoria's childhood, a deeper pattern emerges: making mistakes never felt safe. Victoria learned to rely on other people's approval to determine whether her choices were right, gradually disconnecting from her own intuition and discernment.
    Christine helps Victoria recognize the difference between being intentional about finding love and putting so much pressure on herself that dating becomes an exercise in avoiding mistakes.
    Rather than trying harder to find the perfect partner, Victoria is encouraged to slow down, stop outsourcing her decisions, and rebuild trust in her own judgment—one small choice at a time.
    If you've ever questioned your relationship decisions, worried about choosing the wrong person, or felt pressure to reach certain life milestones, this episode offers a powerful reminder: You don't build self-trust by always getting things right. You build it by trusting yourself to navigate whatever happens.

    Consider / Ask Yourself
    Are you approaching dating with intention or with pressure and urgency?

    Do you worry so much about choosing the wrong partner that you struggle to recognize genuine connection?

    Did making mistakes in childhood lead to shame, criticism, or disapproval?

    Do you rely on friends, family, or outside opinions to validate your relationship decisions?

    Are you more focused on finding what's wrong with someone than noticing how you genuinely feel around them?

    What would change if you trusted yourself to make decisions without needing reassurance?


    Key Insights and A-Ha's
    Wanting marriage, partnership, or children is a beautiful intention, but pressure can interfere with the process of finding love.

    Intentionality and urgency are not the same thing.

    Childhood experiences of criticism or shame can create a lifelong fear of making mistakes.

    When we learn to rely on external validation, we can lose touch with our own discernment.

    Overanalyzing potential partners may be a protective strategy against choosing incorrectly.

    Strong sexual chemistry doesn't necessarily mean someone is an emotionally aligned partner.

    Slowing down allows relationships to unfold before we mentally commit to a future with someone.

    Self-trust develops through making decisions, learning from mistakes, and trusting ourselves to handle the outcome.

    The goal isn't to eliminate mistakes. It's to stop believing that making one means something is wrong with us.


    How to Deepen the Work
    Notice where you're putting unnecessary pressure on yourself to reach a particular milestone.

    When dating someone new, slow down and allow the connection to develop before deciding they're your person.

    Practice making small everyday decisions without consulting friends, family, or outside sources.

    Before asking someone else's opinion, check in with your own feelings and intuition.

    Give yourself permission to make mistakes without interpreting them as failures.

    Notice when you're overthinking a decision because you're afraid of getting it wrong.

    Reflect on past relationships as opportunities to develop discernment rather than evidence that you've made poor choices.


    A Powerful Reframe: From External Validation to Self-Trust
    One of the biggest breakthroughs in this conversation comes when Victoria recognizes how often she looks outside herself for reassurance.
    Whether she's dating someone new, evaluating a relationship, or making everyday decisions, she frequently seeks confirmation that she's making the right choice.
    But Christine reminds her that self-trust cannot develop when we're consistently outsourcing our decisions.
    The invitation is to begin small.
    Choose what to wear, what to order, or how to respond to someone without asking multiple people for their opinions.
    Allow yourself to make a decision, experience the outcome, and learn from it.
    The goal isn't to become someone who never makes mistakes. It's to become someone who trusts herself enough to know she'll be okay even when she does.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode
    Be the Queen
    Christine discusses the 2026–2027 Be the Queen program, which she teaches with her husband for women who want to call in or call forward a healthy, conscious, soul-match relationship.
    The program focuses on self-trust, discernment, releasing protective relationship patterns, and developing a more empowered approach to dating and partnership.
    Christine shares that enrollment is still open, with live calls continuing through February. Payment plans and a money-back guarantee are also mentioned.
    Learn more and apply for Be the Queen
    For questions about the program, Christine mentions contacting Jill at Jill@ChristineHassler.com.
    Love Magnet
    Christine references Love Magnet, where she teaches about attraction, relationship patterns, and how chemistry can sometimes indicate an issue-based relationship rather than genuine compatibility.
    Learn more about Love Magnet

    Social Media + Resources
    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

    Christine Hassler Podcasts including Coaches Corner

    Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

    Facebook — Christine Hassler

    Instagram — @ChristineHassler

    Instagram — @SacredUnionCouples

    Apply to be coached on the show

    Courses, retreats, and more resources
  • Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

    EP 560: Calling in a Masculine Man with Nicoletta

    21/10/2026 | 29 mins.
    What if the reason you're struggling to receive the masculine partnership you desire isn't because you haven't found the right man—but because part of you still believes you have to do everything yourself to be safe?
    In this deeply insightful coaching session, Christine works with Nicoletta, a divorced mother who has spent years navigating relationships where she never felt fully supported. Some partners were financially stable but emotionally unavailable, while others offered different qualities without providing the complete sense of partnership she desired.
    Now, after taking time away from dating and doing significant personal growth work, Nicoletta knows she wants something different: a relationship with healthy masculine and feminine polarity, where she can feel cherished, emotionally supported, and safe enough to receive rather than constantly lead.
    But underneath that desire is a deeply ingrained protective pattern.
    Growing up, Nicoletta learned to prove her worth through pleasing others, giving more, and becoming who she thought her family wanted her to be. As an adult, she continued those patterns in her marriage and relationships, often putting other people's needs ahead of her own.
    Christine helps Nicoletta recognize that her longing for a masculine partner may also reflect a deeper longing to finally feel supported in life—to step out of hypervigilance, over-functioning, and the exhausting belief that everything depends on her.
    As they explore childhood experiences of emotional neglect, heartbreak, and sexual trauma, another important truth emerges: surrender and vulnerability can feel frightening when being vulnerable has previously led to pain.
    Rather than encouraging Nicoletta to simply let her guard down, Christine offers a different starting point: reclaiming her discernment and learning to trust her own embodied wisdom.
    Together, they explore feminine energy, emotional safety, protective patterns, self-worth, vulnerability, and the difference between being attracted to masculine leadership and choosing a partner who can remain grounded, accountable, and emotionally safe when life becomes difficult.
    If you've ever longed for someone to take the lead but struggled to let go of control, or wondered why receiving support feels uncomfortable even when you deeply desire it, this conversation offers a compassionate path forward.
    Press play to discover how shifting from protection to discernment can help you create more room for the kind of healthy, conscious love you truly want.

    Consider / Ask Yourself
    Do you desire a partner who can lead and support you, yet find it difficult to surrender control?

    Did you learn early in life that you had to prove your worth or become someone else to receive love?

    Are you longing for masculine partnership—or also longing to step out of chronic over-functioning and hypervigilance?

    Does vulnerability feel unsafe because of experiences of heartbreak, abandonment, or betrayal?

    Are your relationship standards rooted in embodied wisdom, or are they sometimes a way to protect yourself from being hurt?

    Do you trust yourself to recognize a partner who is genuinely emotionally safe?


    Key Insights and A-Ha's
    Wanting a masculine partner may reflect a deeper desire to feel supported, safe, and free from constantly carrying everything alone.

    Childhood experiences can teach us that love must be earned through proving, pleasing, or performing.

    Protective strategies that once helped us survive can continue influencing how we approach relationships as adults.

    Knowing intellectually that we're worthy of love is different from fully embodying that belief.

    Surrender can feel threatening when our nervous system associates letting go with losing safety or stability.

    We may become more invested in avoiding what we fear than in actively moving toward what we desire.

    Vulnerability doesn't have to be the first step toward intimacy. Developing discernment and self-trust can come first.

    Having high standards is valuable, but requiring absolute certainty or perfection can sometimes become another form of protection.

    Healthy masculine energy involves more than leadership, attraction, or making plans. Emotional responsibility, accountability, and safety matter deeply.

    Healing isn't about fixing something broken within ourselves. It's about remembering who we are and learning to trust ourselves again.


    How to Deepen the Work
    Notice where you may be over-functioning in your daily life and what you fear would happen if you allowed yourself to do less.

    Explore the beliefs you developed in childhood about what you needed to do or become to receive love.

    When the idea of surrender feels frightening, ask yourself: "What does a part of me believe I would lose if I let go?"

    Instead of forcing yourself to be vulnerable, begin by strengthening your trust in your ability to recognize safe, emotionally available people.

    Practice receiving support in ways that feel manageable rather than attempting to change all your protective patterns at once.

    Examine whether your relationship standards are helping you recognize alignment or requiring an impossible level of certainty.

    Notice the ways you already experience support, provision, and care in your daily life.

    Shift your attention from constantly avoiding what you don't want toward taking aligned steps in the direction of what you do want.


    A Powerful Reframe: From Protection to Discernment
    One of the most important moments in this conversation comes when Christine asks Nicoletta to reconsider how she approaches vulnerability.
    Nicoletta wants to open her heart, surrender, and receive love. But her history includes experiences where vulnerability was met with pain.
    Rather than asking her to simply lower her defenses, Christine encourages her to develop something more sustainable: embodied wisdom.
    The goal isn't to stop protecting yourself by becoming vulnerable with everyone.
    It's to trust yourself enough to recognize who is safe to become vulnerable with.
    That means learning to identify emotional availability, accountability, consistency, and the ability to remain grounded during difficult moments.
    As Christine explains, the right masculine partner isn't simply someone who leads or makes plans. He's someone who can remain emotionally safe, even during stress, disagreement, or conflict.
    You don't have to choose between protecting yourself and opening your heart. You can learn to protect yourself through wisdom rather than walls.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode
    Be the Queen
    Christine and her husband are opening enrollment for the next live cohort of Be the Queen, their relationship program for women who want to call in—or call forward—a healthy, conscious, soul-match partnership.
    The program explores feminine energy, protective patterns, emotional safety, self-worth, receiving support, and cultivating the discernment needed for healthy relationships.
    Christine shares that the live cohort begins October 27 and continues through mid-February. An application is required to help determine whether the program is a good fit.
    Learn more and apply for Be the Queen
    For questions about the program, Christine also mentions contacting Jill at Jill@ChristineHassler.com.
    Love Magnet
    Christine references Love Magnet, the workshop she teaches with her husband, where they explore calling in healthy love, masculine and feminine polarity, and the protective patterns that can interfere with relationships.
    Learn more about Love Magnet

    Social Media + Resources
    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

    Christine Hassler Podcasts including Coaches Corner

    Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

    Facebook — Christine Hassler

    Instagram — @ChristineHassler

    Instagram — @SacredUnionCouples

    Apply to be coached on the show

    Courses, retreats, and more resources
  • Life Coaching with Christine Hassler

    EP 559: Changing Your Relationship Patterns with Darletha

    14/10/2026 | 32 mins.
    What if the relationship patterns you've been trying so hard to change have actually been protecting you all along?
    In this special re-air episode, Christine revisits a powerful coaching conversation with Darletha, a woman who has spent years recognizing and working through patterns that keep her from experiencing the healthy, committed relationship she desires.
    Darletha knows she wants love, but when someone begins getting too close, she often finds herself pulling away. She notices red flags, questions compatibility, and eventually ends relationships before they can deepen. Despite years of therapy, reading, and personal growth, she's frustrated that awareness alone hasn't been enough to change the pattern.
    But Christine offers a surprising perspective: What if Darletha hasn't been sabotaging every relationship? What if some of those relationships genuinely weren't right for her?
    As they explore Darletha's childhood experiences of abandonment, rejection, and witnessing emotionally abusive relationships, Christine helps her understand why control, hypervigilance, and emotional distance became protective strategies.
    Together, they uncover the difference between fear-based avoidance and healthy discernment, the importance of reconnecting with the body, and how learning to feel safe expressing vulnerability can transform the way we experience intimacy.
    Rather than focusing exclusively on what's wrong or what needs to be fixed, Christine encourages Darletha to recognize how much progress she's already made. Her ability to identify unhealthy relationships, invest in herself, and begin expressing her emotions demonstrates strength, courage, and growing self-worth.
    If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting unavailable partners, why you pull away when intimacy develops, or whether your relationship standards are protecting you or holding you back, this conversation offers a compassionate new perspective.
    Press play to discover how understanding your protective patterns—without judging them—can help you create more safety, connection, and openness to healthy love.

    Consider / Ask Yourself
    Do you find yourself pulling away when someone begins getting emotionally close?

    Are you judging yourself for relationship patterns that may have originally developed to protect you?

    Have you confused genuine incompatibility with self-sabotage?

    Do you spend more time analyzing another person's behavior than noticing how you feel around them?

    Does being in control make you feel safer in relationships?

    Can you acknowledge how far you've come instead of focusing only on what you still want to change?


    Key Insights and A-Ha's
    Awareness of a relationship pattern is an important first step, but awareness alone doesn't necessarily heal the underlying wound.

    Childhood abandonment and rejection can create protective responses around intimacy, vulnerability, and trust.

    Not every relationship that ends is an example of self-sabotage. Sometimes discernment is helping us recognize genuine incompatibility.

    When we understand our wounds, we can become overly critical of ourselves and attribute every relationship challenge to our own patterns.

    Hypervigilance and the need for control are often attempts to protect ourselves from emotional pain.

    Constantly monitoring another person's behavior can disconnect us from our own emotions and bodily awareness.

    Healthy intimacy begins with learning to recognize, accept, and express our own feelings.

    Vulnerability is not weakness. It can be an important part of creating emotional safety and connection.

    We can recognize the protective purpose of old patterns while still learning new ways of relating.

    Healing happens through love, understanding, and compassion—not judgment.


    How to Deepen the Work
    When reflecting on a past relationship, distinguish between genuine incompatibility and moments when fear may have influenced your decisions.

    Instead of immediately analyzing someone's words or actions, ask yourself: "How do I actually feel around this person?"

    Notice whether your body feels relaxed, excited, anxious, guarded, or uncomfortable as you spend time with someone.

    Explore where your need for control originated and what you believe control is protecting you from.

    Practice expressing your feelings with emotionally safe people, even when vulnerability feels unfamiliar.

    When fears of rejection or abandonment arise, remind yourself that you have developed the inner resources to support yourself through difficult experiences.

    Recognize your progress. Consider the unhealthy relationships you've chosen not to remain in and the ways you've already honored your values.

    Replace self-criticism with curiosity and compassion for the younger parts of yourself that learned to stay protected.


    A Powerful Reframe: Discernment vs. Self-Sabotage
    One of the most important moments in this conversation comes when Christine challenges Darletha's belief that she has been pushing away every opportunity for love.
    Darletha describes ending a relationship with a man who had three children and wasn't clearly aligned with her desire to have another child.
    Initially, she views this as another example of her fear of intimacy.
    But Christine points out that their differences around family planning were significant.
    Recognizing that someone isn't aligned with your values isn't necessarily self-sabotage. It may be healthy discernment.
    The invitation is to acknowledge both truths: you may have protective patterns around intimacy, and you may also have made wise decisions about relationships that weren't right for you.
    You don't have to make yourself wrong for every relationship that didn't work out.

    Resources Mentioned in This Episode
    Love Magnet — Free Workshop Replays
    Christine shares that she and her husband have recently taught their free three-day Love Magnet workshop, focused on calling in healthy, lasting love.
    The workshop explores protective relationship patterns, the different kinds of relationships, and what it means to call in a soul-aligned partnership.
    Replays are available for those who missed the live workshop.
    Access the Love Magnet workshop replays
    Be the Queen
    Christine also discusses Be the Queen, the three-month relationship program she teaches with her husband.
    The program focuses on breaking protective patterns, strengthening self-worth, developing emotional safety, and becoming more available for healthy partnership.
    In this episode, Christine mentions that the program begins October 27, with early-bird pricing available for applications submitted by October 17 or within 24 hours of watching the workshop replay.
    Learn more about Be the Queen
    Note: These dates and promotional details are from the re-air's introduction. Check the program website for current enrollment information.

    Social Media + Resources
    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment

    Christine Hassler Podcasts including Coaches Corner

    Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler

    Facebook — Christine Hassler

    Instagram — @ChristineHassler

    Instagram — @SacredUnionCouples

    Apply to be coached on the show

    Courses, retreats, and more resources
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About Life Coaching with Christine Hassler
Christine Hassler provides you with practical tools and spiritual principles to help you overcome whatever obstacles might be holding you back. Each episode, Christine coaches callers live on the air offering them inspiration and guidance to heal their past, change their present and create what they really want. Topics include: relationships, career, health, transitions, finances, life purpose, spirituality and whatever else callers have questions about. Christine coaches "regular people" on problems – and opportunities - we all face. It's a show that reminds you that you are not alone, while also teaching things you can implement in your own life.
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