The Niall Graham Podcast

Ianto Doyle is a men’s work facilitator, coach, and one of the founders of Journeyman UK—the UK branch of an international rites-of-passage movement for teenage boys. With roots in the Mankind Project, Ianto has spent decades creating spaces where boys and men can drop the mask, meet their truth, and be welcomed into mature masculinity through challenge, blessing, and authentic connection. He’s also the founder of Life Intelligence, a coaching philosophy that asks one question at the heart of every decision: is this life-enhancing or life-destroying? Ianto’s work weaves personal healing with right relationship to community, culture, and the living world—grounded, practical, and deeply values-led. We are also joined by my good friend Robin Botley an Elder with over 30 years experience in mens work. This is a great conversation with decades of experience between these 2 wonderful men. I hope you enjoy. In the podcast we cover: Lineage & belonging — the mystery of ancestry, identity, and where “home” really is. Father wound & repair — authoritarian fathers, unresolved grief, and healing without “having it out.” Rites of passage & mentoring boys — Journeyman UK, initiation, and why boys need socially-activated manhood. Men, women & culture wars — the medicine of wise women, misandry/misogyny, and rebuilding community as the answer. Ianto Doyle - If you are interested in Ianto and the work he does you can check out this website here 1:1 Mentoring - if you feel I can help you on your journey of becoming a man setup a conversation here Book a call

Over the past six months many men have come to me saying the same thing: “My relationship is falling apart… and I don’t know what to do.” In this episode, I dive into why relationships are breaking down for men, why our best efforts often aren’t enough, and how cultural and inherited wounds shape the way Irish men show up in love. I break down the emotional skills women actually need from us, the hidden shame we carry, and why relationship is both the hardest and most transformative arena of a man’s life. This episode is a roadmap for men who want to stop collapsing, stop performing, and start becoming emotionally grounded, capable partners. I cover: - The impact of the absent or emotionally shutdown father - 7 essential qualities women need from men today - How childhood wounds and nervous system patterns show up in adult intimacy - Why relationship can’t be our therapy—and what men must do instead If you enjoyed this podcast please share it with someone struggling in relationship. Info & bookings for (re)Claiming Desire & Reframing Rejection Day retreat Want to deepen your relationship? To discuss how I can help you book a discovery call here    

Michael Ryan is a Yoga and Breathwork teacher with over 20 years experience. In recent years his work has focussed on guiding men towards a deeper sense of purpose.  He creates safe, powerful spaces for men to explore emotional awareness, strength and authenticity. He leads with grounded presence, helping men reconnect to what truly matters. In this podcast we cover: - The weight and heaviness of what we hold as men in Ireland - Creating safety within as a key to navigating trauma - Healing the father wound by choosing to heal and change - the Important role of Rites of passage for young men.   More info on Michael: Nature of Man website: www.natureorman.ie Michaels personal website: www.michaelryan.yoga Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelryan_thewayhome/   More info on Niall: Discover how I can help you: book a call Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_niall_graham_/  

My guest on the show this week is Catherine Hale is a nervous system coach and founder of Culture of Care Training, helping changemakers, coaches, and leaders unlock their potential through trauma-informed facilitation. With over a decade of experience, she guides people into deeper authenticity and resilience, weaving personal healing with collective cultural repair. In this episode we dive deep into: The transformative power of nervous system regulation for emotional healing. The pervasive impact of shame on self-perception and relationships. The importance of doing personal work outside of relationships to access emotions. The role of collective healing in dismantling oppressive social systems. More info on Catherine: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catherinehaleuk/ Website: https://catherinehale.co.uk/ Field Facilitator Training Online: https://www.the-field.com/online   Niall: Framework of Wholeness: https://youtu.be/RMcHWViy_FU  

Shame is one of the most powerful emotions we carry. It keeps us small, disconnected, and afraid to show up as who we truly are. In this episode, I reveal the 4 levels of shame: Cultural – The legacy of being Irish and colonized. Religious & Childhood – Wounds from the church and school. Masculine – The fear of stepping up as a man. Inherited – The ancestral weight passed down through generations.   Shame is an aspect of a greater framework that I teach. If you would like to know more click the link below  A Contemporary Framework for Wholeness