#22 Reclaiming Power from Coloniser, Religion and Society
We have been lead to believe that as an individual we can gain personal power but it is becoming clear that we as men are intimately linked to much greater forces from our past and society that directly impact our sense of personal power.
In this podacst i go into the reasons why even though men have done so much personal work they are still feeling disempowered, stuck and like they cannot move forward in life. I look at the 4 main reasons around my personal journe yof empowerment you may not be aware of:
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The influence of religion on mens empowerment
Non-seperation from mother
Colonial trauma
Financial/energetic authority
Ready to do this work?
If you are ready to face all of you including your ancestral and familial traumas to emerge whole able to build the life you want contact me and we can have a short conversation if i can help you here
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#21 Eldership, Mission & Navigating our Wounding w/h Robin Botley
This is beautiful conversation with my good friend and elder Robin Botley. He has been involved in Mens work for over 25 years. A member of both Mankind Project and one of the founding Members of A Band of Brothers. His wisdom is both rich a deeply touching as he shares the journey of his life.
In this podcast we cover:
- How Wounds are a pathway of learning about who we are
- The impact of not having elders in the world
- How having a Mission & Vision is essential for men
- Asking the deepest question - 'Who am I?'
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If you are a man and are ready to do this work recognise the need for a guide on this journey I run 3 & 6 month programmes leading men from Boyhood stepping into their full Manhood. Book a free call here to see how I can support you.Â
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#20 Become a more mature man by regulating your inner child
As men we cannot step into full maturity until we develop deep relationship with our inner child. He must feel safe and protected for us to be able to step into full maturity, otherwise we will experience reactivity, shutdown and real difficulty in romantic relationships.
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In this solo podcast I discuss:
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3 ways you can help regulate this inner child
How tending to the inner child becomes the foundation of building a lives that we want
How its not only important to love our inner child but also that he feels safe.
Want to step more into your maturity as a man?Â
1:1 Mentoring - If you are ready to bring this inner child home and integrated into you my 1:1 work builds deep safety and relationship with the inner child so that you can start building a life instead of struggling and shutdown. Book a free discovery call here.
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Fir Mná weekend Immersion. Men & Womens work in Wicklow in June Full details here
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#19 Revisioning and tending the relationship between Men & women w/h Michaela of Rooted Feminine Wellness
The battle of the sexes is such a big issue in culture. Women not feeling safe or protected in society and men feeling unsure of how to step up for fear of being judged or critiscised. This is not a new story but it is a story being talked about more and what we can do about it. In this podcast Michaela and I dive headlong into this subject.
We Cover:
- What are the origin stories of this divide between men & women?
- What are the hurts, fears and projections men and women have about eachother?
- What do men & women actually want in relationship?
- How we can become allies and start to do this healing together.
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Unity | A FREE workshop for men & women | Wed 30th April 7-9pm - Rebuilding trust and deep connection between men & women. Register here
Fir Mná Weekend Immersion | 26th-29th June | Wicklow - Full details and booking for this Immersion here
Michaela - If you are interested in connecting more with Michaela you can check out her work here
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#18 Spirit & Soul - Navigating both realms of life
Many men end up trapped the spirit realms, avoiding emotions and rationalizing our way through life because many spiritual teachings support this.Â
At some point we realize we are disconnected from life and the only way through is to descend into soul and the feminine realms of life, emotions and body.
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In this podcast I go into:
- How our unprocessed childhood traumas lead us to disconnect, or escape to spirit realms
- The impact of not being connected to the body and emotions
- The cultural imprint on men of suppressing feelings and interacting with the world from a rational perspective
- How to embrace both the sprit and soul realms for a balanced life.
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1:1 Mentoring - If you relate to any of the topics in this podcast and are wanting support to deepen into yourself. Set up a discovery call here to see if I can help you.
Fir Mná - you can check out Fir Mná on Instagram here
Many men have a crisis of identity what is it to be a man? How am I supposed to be? What is my role in relationship? And many other questions.
This podcast is made to address this subject as an Irish man, born of this land who has spent many years struggling with his identity of being an Irishman. We traverse many subjects and ultimately I believe we start to heal and weave what it is to be a healthy man on this land both culturally and individually.
Niall works as a Mens Work facilitator in Ireland addressing such work as Mens Shadow, Embodiment, Initiation and Sexuality.
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