The Rare Life

Madeline Cheney
The Rare Life
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  • The Rare Life

    Traveling with Disabled Kids Tips and Tricks (Summer Mini #3)

    25/06/2026 | 1h 24 mins.
    For most of us, traveling with medically complex and disabled children can feel daunting, scary, or maybe even impossible. But while not necessarily easy or simple, if travel is a priority for your family, it is possible with the right planning and preparation.
    In today’s episode, we share the best tips and tricks from The Rare Life community. We cover everything from general planning to airplane specific tips (there are a ton!) to finding the best accommodations and more. We even have a few tips for camping with medically complex kiddos!
    Plus, we also dive into the big feelings that can come up for us around traveling with our kids and why it’s okay if that’s not a priority for your family right now. If you really want to take your disabled children on a trip, there are many ways to do it, but we also recognize that travel still isn’t feasible or accessible for many.
    Thank you to everyone who submitted tips, tricks, hacks, and ideas to this episode! And don’t forget to check our website and YouTube channel (linked below) for articles linking our favorite travel items, carriers, and tips, plus images of all the setups and devices parents in our community use.
    Links:
    Visit our Youtube channel to see thevideo version of this episode with photos of all the items mentioned and captions so you can read along!
    Listen to Ep 118: Organization Hacks for helpful devices when packing andtraveling.
    Listen to Ep 66 with Falesha Johnson on how she travels with her daughter Cali, who was machine dependent at the time.
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    The Forgotten Fathers | To The Dads Who Hold It All Together w/ Lizzie (Summer Mini #2)

    18/06/2026 | 18 mins.
    The dads deserve a village too.
    In this Father’s Day mini episode, Madeline talks with Lizzy of Wonders of Wally about her poem, The Forgotten Father, and the quiet, crushing ways dads are often expected to carry everything without being seen.
    A huge thank you to our sponsor for this summer season, Real Food Blends!
    Real Food Blends are the only 100% real food meals that are ready-to-feed for people with feeding tubes. Offering 8 different meals and 1 snack for adults & kids, it's the closest thing to homemade blenderized tube feeding. Learn more at realfoodblends.com!
    Links:
    Listen to Ep 146: The Dad Perspective.
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    Follow Lizzy on Instagram @wonders_of_wally!
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    Summertime Feels, Disability Ed. (Summer Mini #1)

    11/06/2026 | 21 mins.
    It’s summer! But when you have a disabled or medically complex kids, this season can bring with it many, many mixed feelings.
    Today, we’re digging into all of that: how we feel about summer, what makes summer uniquely hard for our families, and the parts of summer we still love anyway.
    A huge thank you to our sponsor for this summer season, Real Food Blends!
    Real Food Blends are the only 100% real food meals thatare ready-to-feed for people with feeding tubes. Offering 8 different meals and 1 snack for adults & kids, it's the closest thing to homemade blenderized tube feeding. Learn more at realfoodblends.com!
    Links:
    Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups!
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    Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode.
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    228: Season 13 Finale | Biggest Impacts, Hardest Listens, + A Special Guest

    28/05/2026 | 33 mins.
    Season 13 is coming to a close, and this season covered a lot of heavy, but necessary ground.
    In this finale episode, Madeline and Alyssa are joined by Caitlyn, a listener and mom to Miles, to look back on the episodes that were the hardest, most impactful, and most validating to hear. We’re also sharing listener reflections, talking through the clips from all 14 episodes, and discussing why this season felt especially deep for our community.
    And finally, we’re sharing a few personal and behind-the-scenes updates, including Madeline preparing to become a foster parent, Alyssa editing with a broken foot, and a peek at the summer mini episodes coming next.
    Thank you for listening, sharing your stories, and being part of The Rare Life community. We’re so grateful you’re here.
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    Join the Facebook group Parents of Children with Rare Conditions.
    Access the transcript on the website here.
    And if you love this podcast, please leave us a rating or review in your favorite podcast app!
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    227: Abuse and Neglect Safeguards | Who We Can Trust + How to Protect Our Disabled Children

    21/05/2026 | 34 mins.
    Most of us can’t be with our children 24/7. At some point, we often must hand off care of our children school staff, nurses, therapists, hospitals, family members, etc to help care for our disabled and medically complex kids. And honestly? That can feel terrifying.
    In this episode, we're exploring one of the hardest topics parents in this community navigate: preventing abuse and neglect for children who may not be able to fully communicate what happened to them.
    We talk about the fears parents carry, missed medical care and hospital concerns, building trust with other caregivers, red flags families watch for, and the real-life strategies parents use to try to keep their children safe.
    If you’ve ever wondered how to balance protection with independence, trust your gut when something feels off, or navigate the reality that you can’t always be there, we hope this episode gives you a little guidance to get started.
    Links:
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About The Rare Life
This is the real, raw, and all the feels of loving a child with disabilities. Episodes feature parent-guests, professionals, and solo episodes with host Madeline Cheney. Their authentic conversations don’t shy away from the strong and mixed emotions that often accompany medically-complex parenting. Parents listen in to feel seen, validated, and receive much-needed solidarity. Professionals working with disabled people listen in to better understand what is often going on under the surface for a family living with disabilities.
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