Pat Divilly: What Happens When You Don’t Do the Inner Work
Pat first built a successful career as an online fitness coach in Ireland, then realised there was more to fulfillment than the surface wins. He’s since gone deep into shadow work, breath science, and guiding people through the inner world to uncover their true self. We talk about:Why he moved to Bali How the shadow shows up in ambitious high performers The ego traps driven men face What happens when you don’t do the inner work (and how it leaks into business, health & relationships) If you’re someone who’s chasing success but wants it to feel aligned—this conversation will hit home. Follow Pat: @patdivilly
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George Lewer: I made $1.3M in Crypto in One Day (While Working a 9-5)
In this deep-dive conversation, George Lewer shares how he turned a $50K crypto trade into $1.3M overnight—while working a 9-to-5 job. But this isn’t a crypto flex. It’s a brutally honest look at success, sabotage, and the inner work high-performing men can’t avoid. We cover: The seductive chaos of fast crypto money What trading reveals about your nervous system, ego, and shadow Biohacking for clarity, calm, and longevity Fatherhood, identity shifts, and raising kids in a broken system Why digging one deep well beats chasing 10 shiny objects Quantum physics, holographic reality, and the mirror of your results Trading dopamine for discipline—and wealth for fulfilment This is a conversation for men who’ve hit the external wins… and are still asking, “Now what?” Follow George: @georgemlewer
IG: @dr_ryangleesonTikTok: @dr.ryangleeson
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Jordan Candlish: The Real Cost of Growing to 500K Followers - Why He’s Changing Everything
He built a platform that reached half a million people. The brand was growing. The audience was listening. But behind the scenes — something felt off. In this honest and raw conversation, Jordan Candlish opens up about the hidden toll of building a personal brand in the performance coaching space. We unpack: What success really looks like when no one’s watching The burnout, identity crisis, and emotional suppression behind the metrics How shame and father wounds sneak into business and content The fine line between authentic leadership and performance Why he’s stepping away from the algorithm—and what’s coming next This one isn’t just about social media. It’s about the men behind the brands. And what it takes to come back home to yourself. Follow Jordan: @jordancandlish01 Timestamps: 0:00 Intro 0:50 Why successful men still feel empty 3:42 Entrepreneurs struggling in relationships 6:43 Raising a son 10:22 Jiu Jitsu 14:49 Operating from pain vs purpose 17:34 Jordan’s biggest shift 19:43 Personal branding 25:33 The struggle of building a personal brand 33:49 Tall poppy syndrome
IG: @dr_ryangleesonTikTok: @dr.ryangleeson
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Daniel Dawson: What it Takes to Become a World Champion in Muay Thai, Kickboxing and Boxing!
8x world champion Daniel Dawson shares the story behind his incredible success in Muay Thai, Kickboxing, and Boxing. Daniel dives deep into his journey, revealing both the highs and lows along the way. Daniel talks about: • Growing up with physical and emotional abuse and how it shaped his drive to succeed• Earning the nickname “The Rock” for his resilience in the ring and life• The battle with self-sabotage and chasing external validation• The role of martial arts in healing deep-rooted trauma and finding purpose• The impact of fatherhood on his personal healing journey• How relationships exposed his deepest insecurities and pushed him to confront his past• Redefining success and learning that personal growth goes beyond winning championships If you’re looking for an honest conversation about overcoming personal demons, this episode is a must-listen. Timestamps: 0:00 Intro1:17 Origins of “The Rock”11:37 Not letting go of fighting13:17 External validation14:24 Retiring16:36 Self-work19:39 Healing Journey23:29 How Daniel got into martial arts27:55 Everyone has a story32:16 Changes Daniel has made35:26 Relaxation38:48 Self-sabotage1:01:23 If Daniel didn’t become a father1:20:04 What’s important to Daniel1:21:10 Picking 3 combat sports1:22:58 Daniel’s international experience1:29:18 Cultural differences between combat sports1:38:02 Advice for young fighters Follow Daniel: @danieltherockdawson
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Ryan Wilson: Finding Purpose and Overcoming PTSD – Lessons from an SAS Soldier
Ryan Wilson is a former SAS soldier, co-founder of Working Paws Australia and business consulting company, Exas Group, and general manager of Whipper Snapper Distilery. We discuss the mental and physical challenges veterans face and the incredible role therapy dogs play in supporting those with PTSD and other mental health issues. Ryan shares his journey from serving in the SAS to transitioning into civilian life.We cover:• How therapy dogs have become a lifeline for veterans struggling with mental health.• The key lessons Ryan learned from the SAS, including mental toughness, resilience, and leadership.• The difficulties of transitioning from military life to the civilian world and why finding a new purpose is critical.• Ryan’s journey at Whippersnapper Distillery and how it helped him regain a sense of belonging.• A deep dive into masculinity, emotional intelligence, and the struggles men face in building real connections today.• The rise in veteran suicides and why it’s crucial to provide ongoing support to those leaving the military.• Ryan’s story is a testament to resilience and finding meaning after military service, making this episode a must-listen for anyone interested in mental health, veteran support, or the incredible bond between humans and dogs. Timestamps:0:00 Intro0:55 Why we love dogs2:51 Dogs for therapy3:44 SAS Dogs8:17 Working Paws Australia10:22 What the SAS taught Ryan12:44 The best part about the SAS14:33 Filling the void18:37 Transitioning to business21:30 The worst part about the SAS24:01 What it takes to be in the SAS28:23 Stimulation29:05 Who struggles most leaving the SAS32:36 Processing trauma35:24 Veteran mental health38:02 The state of men today42:51 Are we going to war?45:00 War in 202446:14 Mandatory military service Follow Ryan: @ryanwilson_1984
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Balance is BS — Be FORMIDABLE.
A podcast on what it means and what it takes to become a well-rounded human being.
For years, I found success in my work and fitness. I’d built one of Perth’s leading Chiropractic clinics and reached my brown belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. But those years came with extremes: work hard, play hard was my mentality.
At a certain point, the vices and addictions caught up to me. This led me on a new journey of self-discovery and self-improvement.
Now – I’m sharing that with you – along with the stories of experts and leaders in the world of health and fitness, business, psychology and more.
Thank you for listening.
Ireland