I'm Busy Being Awesome - Sustainable Productivity for ADHD

Have you ever looked at a pattern you thought you'd "fixed" — maybe you fell back into all-or-nothing thinking, or perfectionism returned, or you found yourself avoiding the very thing you spent weeks building a habit around — and your ADHD brain quietly offers this thought:
"Here we go again. After all this. I'm right back where I started."
This episode has your name on it. Real ADHD growth rarely moves in a straight line, and understanding why changes everything.
In Episode 352, You Will Discover:
Why ADHD brains feel like they keep returning to the same patterns (and why you're not actually back at square one)
The Spiral Staircase Model of growth and what it really means for your ADHD journey
Three reflection questions to help you recognize and learn from the progress you've made
Work With Me:
Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching)
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Discover Your ADHD Overwhelm Type - Free Quiz!
Enroll in Overwhelm to Action - step by step course for ADHD Brains
More ADHD Resources:
Discover my favorite ADHD resources
Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain
Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System
Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap
Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp
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Chapter Outline
00:00 Here We Go Again
02:03 Growth Is Not Linear
04:20 Spiral Staircase Model
07:11 Catching Old Patterns
08:56 Client All Or Nothing
11:51 Noticing Quiet Progress
13:48 Reflection Questions
17:02 How To Take Action
19:09 Reframing The Moment
20:08 Wrap Up And Next Steps

Do you find yourself trying to rest, but your ADHD brain is mentally sprinting through your entire to-do list? There's a belief running quietly underneath every productivity system you've ever tried, and it's the real reason your ADHD brain can't relax. It's time to learn how to rest with ADHD.
In episode 351, you'll discover:
Where the "rest must be earned" belief actually comes from, and why it made complete sense at the time
The four hidden costs of this belief and its connection to ADHD burnout
Five concrete moves to loosen its grip so you can finally be present in the life you've built
Work With Me:
Learn more about private coaching here
Discover Your ADHD Overwhelm Type - Free Quiz!
Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching)
Enroll in Overwhelm to Action - step by step course for ADHD Brains
Resources From This Episode:
Episode 310: The Work is Never Done + How To Accept Unfinished Work
Episode 334: ADHD Relaxation: Why Traditional Rest Doesn't Work & What Does
More ADHD Resources:
Discover my favorite ADHD resources
Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain
Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System
Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap
Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp
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Chapter Outline
00:00 Why Rest Feels Impossible
01:40 The No Rest Rule
03:41 Roadmap to Rest Episodes
05:11 Name the Belief
08:19 Where It Comes From
13:00 Guilt Lazy Worth Layers
16:25 The Hidden Costs
22:53 Coaching
24:23 Notice the Water
28:32 Five Practices to Shift
36:18 Wrap Up and Next Steps

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You've tried every planner, every productivity hack, every "just write it down" system — and none of them stuck. This is because most productivity systems weren't built for the ADHD brain.
After 350 episodes and thousands of hours coaching, this is the framework I come back to again and again: Plan, Act, Complete. It's the ADHD productivity system that's both effective and sustainable.
In this episode, you'll discover:
The 3 stages where ADHD brains get stuck — and the specific traps at each one (time blindness, task initiation, the dreaded "last 5%")
Simple supports to move through overwhelm and burnout without white-knuckling it
How to honor your energy to ensure sustainable change without ADHD burnout
Work With Me:
Learn more about private coaching here
Discover Your ADHD Overwhelm Type - Free Quiz!
Enroll in Overwhelm to Action - step by step course for ADHD Brains
Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching)
Resources From This Episode:
Episode 146: 10 Prioritization Traps That Keep The ADHD Brain Stuck
Episode 219: What Is The ADHD Burnout Cycle? 6 Different Stages
Episode 220: 7 Steps To Recover From ADHD Burnout Using 'Low Power Mode'
Episode 319: 5 Ways To Stay Motivated After The Dopamine Drop
Episode 327: ADHD Mental Fatigue or Resistance? How to Know Which One You're Experiencing
Episode 338: I Never Finish Anything! ADHD & The Last 5%
Episode 341: The Zeigarnik Effect & ADHD: How to Stop Spinning on Unfinished Tasks
Episode 344: Why "Just Start" Never Works: ADHD Task Initiation Explained
More ADHD Resources:
Discover my favorite ADHD resources
Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain
Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System
Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap
Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp
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Chapter Outline
00:00 Framework Overview
05:31 Overwhelm And Burnout
09:25 Map The Stuck Point
12:17 Stage One Plan
21:44 Stage Two Act
28:18 Stage Three Complete
33:11 Coaching Invite
35:00 Energy Rhythms Recovery
40:11 Iteration Mindset
41:19 Wrap Up Next Steps

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You know that frustrating feeling where you know exactly what to do, but your ADHD brain just won't let you start? SAME.
If you've ever had a habit you wanted to keep but somehow couldn't, or found yourself doing something on autopilot that you'd really like to stop, this episode is for you.
Today we're talking about the 20-Second Rule: a deceptively simple framework for making good habits easier to start and unwanted habits just a little bit harder to access. The secret is in the friction.
In this episode, you'll learn:
What the 20-Second Rule is and why it works so well for ADHD brains
How to identify the "friction" that's quietly derailing your best intentions
Real-life examples of removing friction (and adding it) that actually work
How to do a Friction Audit on your own habits — right now
This is one of my favorite frameworks to use with coaching clients, and I think once you see it, you'll start spotting friction everywhere.
Work With Me:
Discover Your ADHD Overwhelm Type - Free Quiz!
Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching)
Learn more about private coaching here
Enroll in Overwhelm to Action - step by step course for ADHD Brains
Resources From This Episode:
The Happiness Advantage - Shawn Achor
Episode 192: How Tiny Habits Create Lasting Change (Big doors swing on little hinges)
More ADHD Resources:
Discover my favorite ADHD resources
Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain
Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System
Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap
Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp
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Chapter Outline
00:00 Tiny Glitch Big Habit
01:29 Why Friction Matters
02:05 Starting Small Explained
04:25 The 20 Second Rule 
07:24 ADHD Friendly Reframe
10:09 Friction and Podcast Roadmap
12:03 What Friction Looks Like
14:28 Real Life Friction Fixes
19:26 Run Your Friction Audit
20:37 Key Takeaways and Next Steps
21:55 Wrap Up and Resources

"There's no way you have ADHD." That's what the psychiatrist said to me, right before he laughed out loud. Why? Because I had a PhD, a job as a professor, and a marriage.
In his mind, my "success" canceled out my struggle. That moment was my first lesson in self-advocacy, and it sparked a journey that changed everything.
Ten years later, I'm sharing the 10 things I wish I could go back and tell that version of myself and anyone else navigating a late ADHD diagnosis. Today in episode 348, we're covering:
Why understanding your brain's need for stimulation, cognitive flexibility, and working memory can transform how you approach daily life with ADHD
How masking and rejection sensitivity quietly drain your energy and keep you stuck — and what to do about it
The counterintuitive truth about self-acceptance and why it's the foundation for lasting change
Work With Me:
Discover Your ADHD Overwhelm Type - Free Quiz!
Join We're Busy Being Awesome (group coaching)
Learn more about private coaching here
Enroll in Overwhelm to Action - step by step course for ADHD Brains
Resources From This Episode:
Learn about Rejection Sensitivity Here
Learn about ADHD Masking Here
Learn about Working Memory Here
Learn How to Deal with ADHD Boredom and Understimulation
More ADHD Resources:
Discover my favorite ADHD resources
Learn my Top 10 Tips to Work With Your ADHD Brain
Access the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System
Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap
Free course: ADHD Routine Revamp
This post contains affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through my links, at no extra cost to you. Disclosure info here.
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Chapter Outline
0:00 Dismissed on the Phone: The Laugh That Started It All
1:54 10 Years Later: Birthday Reflection & Why This Episode Matters
6:13 Today's Format: A Letter to My Newly Diagnosed Self (10 Things)
7:57 Falling Asleep & Understimulation
10:52 Meds Help, But Pills Don't Teach Skills
14:04 Cognitive Flexibility: Why Transitions and Plan Changes Hurt
16:47 Notes Aren't 'Cheating': Working Memory, Lectures & the Teleprompter
20:55 The Exhaustion of Masking (and How It Gets Better)
23:19 When People Doubt Your Diagnosis: Trust Your Experience
25:25 Rejection Sensitivity: The Shame Spiral Behind Avoidance
28:07 Knowing Better ≠ Doing Instantly: Give Yourself Time to Change
30:10 Self-Acceptance Is the Real Catalyst for Growth
31:53 Your Emotions Are Not Too Much
33:22 Recap of the 10 Lessons
34:17 Closing: Reflect, Share, and Next Steps