310: Why Being Disliked Is Key to Finding Real Love
Do you find yourself constantly worrying about what others think? Whether it’s overanalyzing a text, fearing confrontation, or people-pleasing to avoid being disliked, this episode is for you. Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen unpack the fear of being disliked and reveal why embracing it can actually make you more attractive. If you’ve ever felt trapped by the need for approval or struggled to assert yourself in dating or relationships, this episode is here to help. Links: ►► Try Matthew AI (and ask any relationship question for free): AskMH.com ►► Join us for my October Weekend Retreat (in-person or virtual): MHRetreat.com ►► Get 40% off Cozy Earth sheets (and much more!) with code LOVELIFE: CozyEarth.com ►► Protect your data and stream your favorite shows with NordVPN (and get four extra months here): NordVPN.com/LoveLife
What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today’s video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, to find answers. We talk about the difference between the kind of “hard” that strengthens a relationship and the kind that drains it. From navigating challenges as a team to recognizing when effort becomes sacrifice in the wrong ways, this conversation will leave you with a fresh perspective on what it means to build a lasting, fulfilling connection. If you’ve ever wondered how to create a relationship where both people feel understood and safe, you can’t miss this! --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com
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(Rewind): They Left? This Reaction Can Shift Everything
When you’re in love and someone decides to end the relationship, it’s natural for your brain to go into panic mode. Why are they doing this? How can I be the person they want me to be? What can I say to get them back? If you allow these swirling thoughts to take over, you’ll only end up pushing them further and further away. Now, I’m not going to tell you whether or not you should give it another try with your ex. There are many factors to consider, which we can talk about another time. But what I do know is that if you want a real chance of getting this person back in your life, you must understand this important truth before you take the next step... --- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com ►► 🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code LOVELIFE at checkout. Download the Saily app or go to saily.com/lovelife.
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309: Stop Overthinking: How to Beat Anxiety in Dating
Anxiety has a sneaky way of showing up in our love lives . . . whether it’s overthinking a text or worrying about someone’s shifting energy. But what if you could stop anxiety before it takes over? In this episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen get personal as they unpack how anxiety sabotages relationships, from early dating to long-term connections. They explore the roots of anxious attachment, share practical tools for calming your mind, and discuss how to stop catastrophizing when things feel uncertain. If you’ve ever felt tortured by your thoughts or struggled to stay grounded when dating, this episode will help you find clarity, confidence, and peace. Links: ►► 🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code LOVELIFE at checkout. Download the Saily app or go to saily.com/lovelife. ⛵ ►► Watch Matthew’s free session on Emotional Buttons: InsideTheRetreat.com ►► Try Matthew AI (and ask any relationship question for free): AskMH.com
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(Matt Monday): The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Which One Are You Stuck In?
Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this epsiode, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . . because the right person won’t leave you guessing. -- ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com ►► 🌎 Get an exclusive 15% discount on your first Saily data plans! Use code LOVELIFE at checkout. Download the Saily app or go to to saily.com/lovelife. ⛵
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Every Wednesday, Matthew is joined by his cohosts: his wife and collaborator Audrey Hussey, who brings her signature warmth, wit, and insight; his brother Stephen Hussey, a New York Times bestselling author with a PhD in Philosophy; and Producer David, who adds his unique perspective and humor to the mix.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and strategies to navigate finding a lasting relationship. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
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