Navigating Racism and Anti-Blackness with our Children
In Episode 96 of the Raising Mums podcast, I interview Rukayat Yakub, a Montessori teacher and award-winning author. Rukayat has travelled the world studying Arabic and traditional Islamic sciences. In addition to pursuing a doctorate in Islamic leadership, Rukayat coaches leaders and mothers on navigating anti-Blackness - the inability to see and value Black humanity in their communities and homes.
In this episode Sister Rukayat shares:
Practical advice on navigating anti-Blackness in our communities
How the teachings in Islam help us address social issues
Racism in books and boycotting authors
Conversations about antiblackness with our children
How to bring Black Islamic History into your homeschool curriculum
The Prophetic model of compassion, justice, and belonging
How the Prophet ﷺ dealt with racism and antiblackness
Important Links
BOOKS and Children's Classes by Rukayat Yakub: https://www.lightlegacybooks.com
Rukayat's LEADERSHIP COACHING Programmes: https://rukayatyakub.com
Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”)
Sign Up for Homeschooling Resources and our FREE NEWSLETTER: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com
HOMESCHOOLING COURSES: https://launchyourhomeschool.thinkific.com
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Reflecting on the 99 Names of Allah with Children
In Episode 95 of the Raising Mums podcast I interview the multi-award winning poet, Mona Zac. She shares advice on how we can use poetry to encourage our children to reflect on the 99 names of Allah. In this practical and inspiring episode, sister Mona tells us why pondering on creation helps our children to connect with Allah.
Sister Mona describes herself as a dreamer, writer, and poet with a headful of ideas. She regularly thinks up and manages projects that her friend (and illustrator) Neamah Aslam beautifully executes. Mona can usually be found doing research for her projects with 100 tabs open, studying for her unending classes, or beating her children at card games.
In this episode Sister Mona shares:
How she became a writer and got into the publishing industry
The power of rhymes and poetry
How learning and discussing His 99 Names helps children to know and love their Lord
Why learning in a group or community is valuable
The relationship between love and learning
How to help your children see the signs of Allah all around them
Important Links
Intro Music – by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album “Love is My Foundation”)
Books by Mona Zac: Connecting with Allah - a collection of poetryFill Me Up - a gratitude journal
Visit Mona's Website: https://www.zacandaslam.com
Connect with Sister Mona on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zacandaslam
Sign Up for Homeschooling Resources and our FREE NEWSLETTER: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com
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Connecting our Children to the Prophet ﷺ with Ustadha Bano Murtuja
In Episode 94 of the Raising Mums podcast, I interview Ustadha Dr Bano Murtuja about how we can help our children connect to the Prophet ﷺ.
Dr Bano Murtuja is a teacher of sacred sciences with a passion for the Seerah of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. In this episode, Ustadha shares with us:
Her experience in building a connection with the Prophet ﷺ and how it has and continues to, transform her life.
How we can bring the Prophet ﷺ into a child's education.
How a mother can still teach her child the Seerah even if she feels that she doesn't know enough?
An important way to protect the faith of our children.
How to encourage our children to connect and love the Prophet ﷺ
Quotable Moments
"This job, that was incredible but never quite fulfilled me, all of those empty spaces he ﷺ filled. The moral compass that I was always...Is this the right thing? Where do I need to go? How do I need to do this? ...He ﷺ was the direction I always needed. But more than all of that, in all of my religious practice, when I got to know the Prophet ﷺ everything became, not just easy, but beloved." - Ustadha Bano Murtuja
"Let me show you who the best person was and let's aspire to develop that because that is who the best person was and is, and that is how we're going to be better. That, in and of itself, is an incredibly powerful dynamic." - Ustadha Bano Murtuja
Important Links
Intro Music - by PEARLS OF ISLAM: https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk (Bismillah from the album "Love is My Foundation")
COURSES with Dr Bano: https://www.banomurtuja.com
Dr Bano's SEERAH PODCAST: https://storiesfromtheseerah.supercast.com
Connect with Dr Bano on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StoriesfromtheSeerah and on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/storiesfromtheseerah/
Sign Up for Homeschooling Resources and our FREE NEWSLETTER: https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com
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Homeschooling and Socialisation - The Reality!
Homeschooling socialisation is one of the most common comments or questions parents receive. Almost every argument involving homeschooling revolves around this: "Homeschooled children don't get enough socialisation.".
Nobody ever worries about whether our children will get a good education at home, but we hear a lot about children needing school for socialisation. It is a well-known fact that homeschoolers have been subjected to the socialisation argument for quite some time, but what is the reality in relation to homeschooling socialisation?
In Episode 93 of the Raising Mums podcast, I discuss homeschooling socialisation.
Homeschooling and Socialisation References:
The Prophet ﷺ was reported to have said, "I have been sent to perfect good character." [al-Muwaṭṭa’ 1614, Sahih]The Prophet ﷺ was reported to have said, “A man follows the religion of his friend; so each one should consider whom he makes his friend” [Abu Dawud]"He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." [Proverbs, 13:20]
Study by Shyers, Hedin, Montgomery et al. showed a significant advantage seen in homeschooled kids, with regards to their social development.Thomas Smedley (1992), in a controlled study, found that "...home educated in this sample were significantly better socialized and more mature than those in public school."
Related: Start Your Homeschool Strong BOOTCAMP! Here: https://launchyourhomeschool.thinkific.com/courses/start-your-homeschool-strong
Related: Dealing with Naysayers | Home Education Here:https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2021/07/how-to-homeschool-successfully-ten-tips-from-the-heart.html
Related: Can I Homeschool if I’m NOT a Teacher? Here:https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2021/07/can-i-homeschool-if-im-not-a-teacher.html
Enough to Homeschool
Enough to Homeschool is a 5-day virtual workshop with Dr. Gemma, for the mother who is ready to feel like a homeschooler.
Unlock your confidence and step into your role as a home educator!
The Enough to Homeschool 5-day workshop will take place 10-14th October 2022.
JOIN ENOUGH TO HOMESCHOOL:- http://enoughtohomeschool.com
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Homeschooling | Why some Succeed and others Don't!
When homeschooling you have the best intentions, but sometimes you wonder if you’re going to make it. Does your homeschool have a chance of success? How are you going to make it work, or even if you will fail?
You know how homeschooling benefits your kids and provides them with an excellent education. You’ve found advice on choosing curriculum, learning styles, methods of homeschooling, and setting up a schedule. But have you ever been told what personal qualities YOU NEED to succeed?
In Episode 92 of the Raising Mums podcast, I share how to successfully homeschool.
Homeschooling Resources
Related: Start Your Homeschool Strong BOOTCAMP! https://launchyourhomeschool.thinkific.com/courses/start-your-homeschool-strong
Related: How to Homeschool Successfully | Ten Tips from the Heart : https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2021/07/how-to-homeschool-successfully-ten-tips-from-the-heart.html
Related: Should I Start Homeschooling | Am I failing my kids? https://ourmuslimhomeschool.com/2021/07/should-i-start-homeschooling-am-i-failing-my-kids.html
Enough to Homeschool
Enough to Homeschool is a 5-day virtual workshop with Dr. Gemma, for the mother who is ready to feel like a homeschooler.
Homeschooling success depends on the mother's emotional regulation.
The curriculum she picks, her daily routine, and her knowledge of education are helpful. But, if she cannot see through the fog of her emotions, she will not be able to see the truth of what her children need, how to best educate them, and will struggle to enjoy the privilege that is home education.
Unlock your confidence and step into your role as a home educator!
The Enough to Homeschool 5-day workshop will take place 10-14th October 2022.
JOIN ENOUGH TO HOMESCHOOL:- http://enoughtohomeschool.com