The Dad Whisperer Podcast

Dad, if your daughter’s tone ever makes you want to match it, this one is for you.

At the NRB conference I sat down with Jill Garner, founder of Manners of the Heart, a nonprofit focused on reawakening respect in our society for the sake of the next generation. Her books, including Raising Respectful Children in a Disrespectful World and Raising Unselfish Children in a Self-Absorbed World, have sold over 100,000 copies, and her most recent is Strong Heart: Cultivating Humility, Respect, and Resiliency in Your Child.

Jill’s starting point: manners isn’t a set of rules. It’s “an attitude of the heart.” From there we get practical: the difference between punishment and discipline, why “let’s back up a minute” gives a daughter a do-over without shaming her who, what to do when she’s rising up at a seven or an eight, and why self-respect and self-esteem are, in Jill’s words, “two absolutely polar opposites.”

Jill also gives dads her GRIT acronym, and her go step is the one she gave us early on: be the man you want your daughter to marry.

On your mark… get set… go.

0:36 Welcome and On Your Mark

1:38 Meet Jill Garner

3:16 Where the passion began

3:58 Manners is an attitude of the heart

5:24 When Dad gets triggered by disrespect

7:07 Punishment vs. discipline

8:14 Breaking the generational pattern

12:39 Be the man she’d want to marry

14:10 Teach it, or model it?

16:24 The great pause

17:51 When she says no

21:37 Break

22:48 Welcome back

23:11 Self-respect vs. self-esteem

26:27 The home of respect

28:25 GRIT

29:16 The go step

30:25 Where to find Jill

30:46 Sign-off

00:00 — Open
00:36 — Welcome, and the grid: on your mark, get set, go
01:45 — Meet Dr. Zach Wagner
04:10 — On your mark: Cultivating Character That Counts — what “virtue” means
06:25 — The nine fruit of the Spirit
08:13 — Start with the heart
13:02 — “God likes you” — the delighting love underneath everything
17:25 — Perfecting love, accepting love, delighting love
22:25 — Welcome back — peace, and men and anger
24:25 — Peace is not passivity
25:31 — The shoes in the doorway: patience and gentleness in real time
30:31 — After you’ve raised your voice — “will you forgive me?”
31:24 — Kindness: entering her suffering
34:06 — The stolen bike
35:58 — The who-what-when-where-why-how grid for empathy
37:37 — Go: pick one fruit and work it for a week
40:07 — Where to find Zach
41:00 — Sign-off, and a new way to partner with The Dad Whisperer

It’s a joy today to hear from Nick Vujicic as we anticipate the release of the movie about his extraordinary life, NO LIMBS, NO LIMITS, coming to theaters September 25th.
As a dad to twin daughters, Nick brings a powerful and personal perspective to our conversation about how dads can inspire and lead their daughters to live boldly, trust God deeply, and embrace a faith with no limits. This is one conversation you definitely don’t want to miss!

Today on The Dad Whisperer Podcast, I’m joined by a new friend, Gigi Butler, founder of Gigi’s Cupcakes. If you’re a dad who wants to inspire your daughter to be an entrepreneur who pursues her dreams with grit, faith, and fearless ambition, you’ll definitely want to listen in. And her new tv show, “In the Kitchen with Gigi” debuts next month…so the timing of this conversation about dreaming BIG is one Gigi lives out every day in her own life!

Today on The Dad Whisperer Podcast we’re privileged to hear from Caleb Price, a dad to five kiddo’s (2 of them daughters) about what it looks like to start strong by creating a firm foundation in a young daughter’s life. Caleb is a filmmaker and movie director, as well as founder of The Podcast Upload, a media company serving faith-driven brands and thought leaders. If you’re ready to be inspired by a dad who intentionally leads his young daughters to live with vision and passion, you’ll love this conversation!