The Life Stylist

Thirty minutes after the biggest relief of his life, Dylan Gemelli found out his apartment was being ransacked, with half a kilo of cocaine in the safe.

A leading voice in fitness and biohacking, Dylan has over 1.5 million Instagram followers and a podcast that hit #1 in Health and Fitness in October 2025.

He shares how he got caught, what prison did to his character, and the moment his Mom asked him a question on a collect call that broke him open.

Then the conversation turns to hormones. Anabolic steroids versus TRT, why free testosterone can matter more than total, the sperm count issue many men on testosterone don't see coming, and the oral testosterone option that changes the math.

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You'll learn:

[0:00] Introduction
[0:52] Dylan’s apartment ransacked 30 minutes after the biggest relief ever
[9:13] What prison is actually like versus what the movies sell
[21:05] Prison as the biggest investment Dylan ever made
[32:54] Verbal abuse in prison fuels the revolving door
[36:02] Teaching safer steroid use to a million YouTube subscribers
[46:06] COVID in bed and the lightbulb moment that birthed Dylan’s podcast
[49:50] SARMs were built to fight muscle wasting before bodybuilders found them
[54:27] Bringing testosterone to normal levels is not cheating
[1:05:56] My emasculating sperm count and the testosterone connection
[1:17:04] How much credence your blood work actually deserves
[1:23:29] Mind and spirit come before diet and training
[1:36:17] Environmental orthorexia and feeling the world is trying to kill you
[1:42:46] The peptide Wild West and the Ozempic skeleton aesthetic
[1:54:44] Building the biggest wellness conglomerate ever

Resources mentioned:

NASM | Website
STEMREGEN | Website
Boundless Life | Podcast
CAROL Bike | Website
EWOT | Website
Dr. Daniel Amen | Website
Dave Asprey | Website
Kevin Trudeau | Website
Ben Azadi | Website
ZYN | Website

Full show notes at lukestorey.com/gemelli

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My new book, A Horse Named Lonesome, launches November 17, 2026. Pre-order now at ahorsenamedlonesome.com and get bonuses: access to my Inner Circle Book Club, an exclusive Lonesome Conversations six-part miniseries, and an ebook transcript of the series.

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I join my brother Kyle Kingsbury for a raw conversation about the life experiences behind my new book, A Horse Named Lonesome. We trace my journey from childhood abuse and addiction to recovery and spiritual awakening, exploring how shame, trauma, and the illusion of separation can keep us disconnected from ourselves and others. We also get into forgiveness, ego death, 5-MeO-DMT, and the hard-earned lessons that ultimately inspired me to share this book with the world.

In this Lonesome Conversation, Dr. Lipton and I explore his striking claim that loneliness runs against a law of biology—that no organism, from an ant to a bee to a human, survives outside its community. He walks through why we've been programmed to feel separate by religion, politics, nationality, and sex, and who actually benefits when we're isolated and disempowered. A bracing reframe of the loneliness epidemic as a spiritual and biological crisis rather than a personal failing.
About Dr. Lipton

Bruce H. Lipton, PhD, former medical school professor and epigenetic science pioneer, is the bestselling author of The Biology of Belief, Spontaneous Evolution, and The Honeymoon Effect. Bruce received the prestigious Goi Peace Award (Japan) in honor of his scientific contribution to world harmony.
For over 10 years, Bruce has been listed in the top 100 of “the world’s most spiritually influential living people” by United Kingdom’s Watkins Journal. He will be releasing his new book, Beyond Darwin: How Epigenetics, Quantum Science, and Cooperation Shape Humanity’s Future in 2026.
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Lonesome Conversations is a special series from The Life Stylist, built around my new book, A Horse Named Lonesome (out November 17, 2026). Loneliness is something almost everyone goes through, and almost nobody talks about honestly. So I sat down with psychologists, philosophers, trauma therapists, teachers, and friends to find the truth about loneliness, and how we heal from it. Each episode is its own conversation, but together they walk the same ground the book maps out. (Pre-order your copy at ahorsenamedlonesome.com) You'll find new episodes alongside our regular show over the coming months.

Can a natural drug get you off drugs?

Co-founder of Ambio Life Sciences and one of the leading voices on ibogaine, Jonathan has spent over 15 years inside the clinical, traditional, and research sides of this medicine.

Being handed a Zoloft prescription after a nine-item questionnaire became his first real entry into altered states, a lens on the world that also left him feeling trapped. Harm reduction research in Vancouver and the NAOMI heroin trial pulled him into drug policy, where ibogaine became the bridge between that world and psychedelics.

My own history with opiate withdrawal and Effexor comes in, along with the paradox at the center of this field: a psychoactive substance that helps people put down other substances. You'll hear about Jonathan's first Bwiti initiation in Gabon, the Stanford research on Navy SEALs, and why the real work happens in the weeks after the ceremony.

You'll learn:

[0:00] Introduction
[4:18] The literature that pulled Jonathan toward altered states
[11:10] Effexor samples my Century City psychiatrist left in the bushes
[19:41] Harm reduction and prescribing heroin to stabilize addicts
[24:13] A spiritual experience as the seed of Alcoholics Anonymous
[34:56] Reconciling the paradox of using drugs to get off drugs
[43:48] Agency and reconnection ibogaine gives beyond withdrawal
[51:05] Years of low ibogaine doses and a helicopter sound on the beach
[1:01:30] Bwiti initiation in Gabon with 72 grams of iboga
[1:16:13] Initiation as a door rather than a qualification
[1:22:27] What iboga is and where it grows in Gabon
[1:36:02] Semi-synthetic ibogaine and the voacangine supply chain
[1:41:49] A Fang Nganga told in a vision to plant iboga trees
[1:51:25] How substances keep us attached by enabling flow states
[2:10:26] The Stanford study that shook the regulatory world
[2:20:27] Whether the executive order opens the floodgates for other psychedelics

Resources Mentioned:

Read: Writing on Drugs by Sadie Plant | Book
Ibogaine | Wikipedia
Iboga | Wikipedia
The North American Opiate Medication Initiative (NAOMI): Profile of Participants in North America’s First Trial of Heroin-Assisted Treatment by Oviedo-Joekes et al. | Article
Blessings of the Forest | Website
Bufo Toad | Wikipedia
Paul F. Austin | Website
Dock Phillip Ellis Jr., LSD No Hitter | Wikipedia
Read: Tryptamine Palace: 5-MeO-DMT and the Sonoran Desert Toad by James Oroc | Book
In Waves and War | IMDb

Full show notes at lukestorey.com/ibogaine

Find more from Jonathan:

Jonathan Dickinson | Website | Instagram
Ambio Life Sciences | Website | Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | YouTube
Read: Ibogaine and the Bicameral Mind: The Transformational Potential of the World's Most Complex Psychedelic Medicine by Jonathan Dickinson | Book

Find more from Luke:

Luke Storey | Website | Instagram | Facebook | X | YouTube | LinkedIn

My new book, A Horse Named Lonesome, launches November 17, 2026. Pre-order now at ahorsenamedlonesome.com and get bonuses: access to my Inner Circle Book Club, an exclusive Lonesome Conversations six-part miniseries, and an ebook transcript of the series.

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In this Lonesome Conversation, Joel and I explore his reframe that "aloneness can become all oneness" — that you can learn to connect with the earth and sun so deeply you're never truly alone, even in solitude. He shares the story of a teacher who spent 18 years alone doing shamanic practice, and makes the case that intentional solitude, far from something to fear, can be an actual lifeline. A grounding look at why most of us lack the tools to be alone well, and how they can be learned.
About Joel
Joel Schafer is a personal empowerment mentor and shamanic dreaming arts teacher. Through online courses, one-on-one mentoring, and in-person workshops, Joel trains people in a highly effective way to reclaim vital energy and attention utilizing the Toltec knowledge base. These are powerful, non-linear redistribution techniques that guide and support students in discovering clear purpose, increasing awareness, getting grounded, reclaiming focus, & accessing strong intent. Joel is also an excellent listener and mirror, offering practical but magical solutions to life's challenges.

Lonesome Conversations Limited Series
Lonesome Conversations is a special series from The Life Stylist, built around my new book, A Horse Named Lonesome (out November 17, 2026). Loneliness is something almost everyone goes through, and almost nobody talks about honestly. So I sat down with psychologists, philosophers, trauma therapists, teachers, and friends to find the truth about loneliness, and how we heal from it. Each episode is its own conversation, but together they walk the same ground the book maps out. (Pre-order your copy at ahorsenamedlonesome.com) You'll find new episodes alongside our regular show over the coming months.