Victoria Derbyshire's Unbelievable Britain

"I promised Gina that I’d try every single day to make maternity care safer."

We are joined by Donna Ockenden, the midwife and investigator behind some of the most significant maternity reviews in NHS history.

Donna opens up about a childhood marked by poverty, instability, and a harrowing period of abuse at the hands of her grandfather. She shares how these formative experiences of responsibility and survival eventually led her to a 40-year career in nursing and midwifery—a journey fueled by a quiet but fierce determination to protect the vulnerable.

Donna also recounts the heartbreaking story of baby Gina, a moment that changed her life forever and became the foundation for her "Gina Promise": a lifelong commitment to ensuring no family has to suffer avoidable harm.

In this video:

A Childhood of Resilience: Growing up in poverty in South Wales and surviving trauma.
The "Moonlight Flit": Being uprooted to Ireland and having her identity changed as a teenager.
The Gina Promise: The tragic loss that defined Donna’s mission to make maternity care safer.
Reshaping the NHS: Insights into the Shrewsbury, Telford, and Nottingham maternity reviews.
A Message to Mothers: Why "speaking out and speaking up" is vital for safer births today.
Donna’s story is a powerful testament to how personal pain can be transformed into a professional crusade for justice and safety.

What did you take away from Donna’s journey? Let’s continue the conversation in the comments below.

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What is the most unbelievable lesson life has taught you?

In this special episode of Life Lessons from Unbelievable Britain, Victoria Derbyshire meets people whose lives have been shaped by identity, illness, resilience, and reinvention.

Inside this episode:

Gamal “G” Turawa - A former police officer navigating identity, race, and sexuality, and what it means to truly become yourself.
FULL EPISODE: https://youtu.be/ch6sflkeIWI

Paul Cooper - From everyday life to unexpected success in acting later in life, proving it’s never too late to change direction.
FULL EPISODE: https://youtu.be/9zYNQYUqgdA

Kate Allatt - A devastating illness left her unable to move or speak, fully aware but trapped inside her own body.
FULL EPISODE: https://youtu.be/mkLJH3CF6q8

Emma Sayle - Challenging societal norms around sex, power, and control, and creating a world without shame or judgement.
FULL EPISODE: https://youtu.be/uQI4ZujCshI

These aren’t just stories, they are lessons in persistence, identity, and what it means to keep going when life doesn’t go to plan.

Unbelievable Britain brings you the most remarkable personal stories from across the UK.

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A masterclass in "unlearning" and finding the courage to finally be yourself.

G, Turawa, previously known as Gamal, has a life story worthy of a novel. From a happy childhood in Kent to being tricked into exile in Nigeria, and eventually becoming the Met Police’s first openly gay Black officer.

G opens up about the "unbelievable" reality of life inside the force: the institutional racism, the trauma of hiding his true identity, and the shocking moment he let colleagues paint his face white just to fit in.

This is a raw story of survival, the breaking point that led to a suicide attempt, and his ultimate triumph as a BAFTA winner.

"It took years of vomiting up the filth I’d been taught about myself before I felt I had a right to be here."

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What happens when life pushes you to the absolute breaking point? In this special episode of Life Lesson's from Unbelievable Britain's - Victoria Derbyshire meets four people who survived the unimaginable, from a secretive British cult to a Taliban kidnapping.

Inside this episode:

Ryan Stevens: The daily reality of living with severe Tourette’s when your body isn't your own.
Luke Dyson: How a life of chaos and anger was transformed through the discipline of the ring.
Sean Langan: A frontline journalist on what it’s actually like to be held captive by the Taliban.
Katy Morgan-Davies: An incredible escape after 30 years inside one of Britain’s most secretive cults.

These aren't just stories of survival; they are lessons in what truly matters when everything else is stripped away.

Unbelievable Britain brings you the most remarkable personal stories from across the UK.

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Locked inside her body, Kate could hear and see everything but could tell anyone. A worst nightmare.

Kate Allatt was a fit and healthy mother of three when her life changed overnight. After being sent home from hospital with severe headaches, she collapsed and fell into a coma.

When she woke, she was diagnosed with Locked-In Syndrome. Fully conscious, but unable to move or speak.

From the first flicker of an eye and against all expectations, Kate slowly relearned how to communicate, walk again, and rebuild her life. Sixteen years on, her story is one of extraordinary determination and hope, and today, she shares it with us.
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