Women of Impact

You know those moments when your gut screams “he’s lying, ”but everyone else believes him? We break down the exact body language, tactics, and psychological games toxic men use to dodge accountability, gaslight victims, and control the narrative.

Today I’m joined by former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, who teaches you how to spot deceit in real time, even when the world wants you to second-guess yourself.

We’re analyzing infamous interviews with Harvey Weinstein, Andrew Tate, and Prince Andrew. We dig into the truth behind the denials, and give YOU the tools to see through manipulation, reclaim your voice, and never shrink again.

Here’s exactly what we dive into:


How to “read” body language and spot deception instantly


The subtle cues that reveal when someone is building a story vs. recalling real memories


Tactical scripts used to invalidate women and re-write “the facts”


How to protect yourself (and your loved ones) from gaslighting, fraud, and emotional traps

Show Notes

Spotting Lies: Harvey Weinstein’s Denial and Gwyneth Paltrow’s Truth

Dismissing, Minimizing, and Gaslighting - Harvey’s Playbook

Ashley Judd’s Story: Vulnerability, Shame, and Escape

Breaking Down Weinstein’s Strategy: Avoid, Deflect, Repeat

Andrew Tate: Rehearsed Innocence, Narcissism, and Priming the Audience

The Patterns of Manipulation: Controlling, Diminishing, and Distracting

Prince Andrew’s Infamous Interview: Anchoring, Rehearsed Stories, and Deceit

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The second part of this conversation with Cindy Trimm on Women of Impact is just as packed with gems of wisdom as the first part. In this half, we move into the power of boundaries, brokenness, and the gift of communication in every one of these areas.

“Every crisis is a gift, every problem is an opportunity, and every adverse circumstance is my most valuable teacher.” -Cindy Trimm

If you've ever wondered, "Is staying single worth it?" Before you settle for that partner your gut keeps warning you about, you HAVE to listen to this episode. This heart-to-heart with Cindy Trimm, a woman who turned her broken pieces and unstoppable ambition is a powerful inspiration for anyone.

Cindy got married at 60 (yes, you read that right!), proving that it's never too late to find happiness. She believes that we attract who we are, not who we want. So, if you're dreaming of an amazing partner, let’s get back into this conversation with the unstoppable Cindy Trimm.!

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Welcome to Women of Impact ! This two-part conversation with Cindy Trimm is PACKED with wisdom bombs you wish you heard 10 or 20 years ago. Cindy shares her story of transforming her broken pieces into powerful lessons, and how she found love at 60!

We unpack the value of being single and why you never want to settle. The encouraging part in all this is that you attract who you are, not who you want. Cindy gives practical tips and gems  on how to make yourself the priority and not the option.

We dive deep into Cindy's 20-year vision plan and how she developed the mindset of choosing adventure over security. We discuss hard-hitting questions like, "Can he handle all that you want to grow and evolve into?" It's time for you to stop playing the supporting role in other people's stories.

“Your feet will never take you where your mind has never been.” -Cindy Trimm

If you're ready to step into your own story as the leading lady, this episode is a must-listen! Remember, you're worthy of happiness, and we're here to help you achieve it. Stay unstoppable, ladies! Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review for more empowering conversations like this one.

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From emotional cheating and red-hot debates on onscreen “love” (looking at you, Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi), to AI deepfakes, Paris Hilton’s epic advocacy, and the TRUTH about why women’s stress skyrockets with a messy house…. Nothing is off limits in this live, jam session.

Whether you’re here for the spicy gossip, the “WTF do I do if my friend is touchy with my partner?” Q&A, or just want to finally hear the science behind why you can't sit down if there’s a dirty kitchen, this episode is your safe space, your hype house, and your wake up call all-in-one.

SHOWNOTES

Margot Robbie, Jacob Elordi & the steamy marketing machine… where’s the line between acting and actual attraction?

“My (married) friend won’t stop touching my husband. Help!”

How AI deepfake porn is invading women’s (and CHILDREN’s) lives - 90% of non-consensual AI porn targets women

The resentment trap: How unspoken housework divides lead to relationship apocalypse (literally. The Gottman Institute has the receipts)

PROOF it’s never too late: One badass woman’s viral story to inspire you to take the leap and change your life—no matter your age or circumstances

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If you ever looked at your family, friend group, or workplace and thought, “How am I the ONLY ONE who sees the toxicity?” This second half is for YOU. Let’s talk solutions… how to unmask narcissists, reclaim your sanity, and navigate the fallout when no one else gets it. Dr. Ramani comes in HOT with real-life scripts, strategic boundaries, and deep wisdom for escaping the sticky residue narcissists leave behind.

We get into the six key ways to unmask a narcissist (and why calling them out never works), how NOT to fall for their gaslighting or blame-shifting, and why “no contact” with family isn’t about revenge, it’s about healing. Plus, we play Red Flag/Green Flag with some of the most COMMON dating scenarios.

This episode is your hands-on toolkit for real boundaries, radical self-compassion, and breaking free from those manipulative emotional webs.

SHOWNOTES 

6 Ways to Unmask a Narcissist (& Why You Should Never Call Them Out)

Why Conflict with Narcissists Is Never Equal 

Letting Narcissists Expose Themselves: Not Your Job to Fix

Why Telling the Truth Never Sets You Free (With a Narcissist)

Red Flag/Green Flag: Rapid-Fire Relationship Scenarios

Community Q&A: How to Protect Yourself & Spot Red Flags

Slowing Down, Trusting Your Body, and Journaling for Self-Discovery 

The Truth About No Contact (and Estrangement) with Parents

Healing Your Inner Wounds & Creating a New Family Narrative 

Final Steps for Adult Children and Parents Looking to Heal 

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