104 | You Can’t Command Calm: How to Help Your Dog Feel Safe Without Saying a Word
Hey Dog Lover! 🐾Can you teach a dog to be calm?Spoiler: not exactly. Because calm isn’t a command—it’s a state. And your dog isn’t just listening to what you say… they’re feeling who you are.In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the biggest myths in dog behaviour: that we can train calm into our dogs. Instead, we explore why obedience is not the same as regulation—and how to become the kind of leader your dog can actually trust.You’ll learn:Why stillness isn’t the same as settledHow your energy shapes your dog’s behavior (even when you don’t mean it to)Nelson Hodges’ brilliant insight on how dogs respond to conditions, not commandsWhat to do before the leash goes on, and how to practice calm before the chaosThe power of “Be With” sessions—and how they build trust without saying a wordThis is a must-listen if:🐾 You’ve ever snapped “CALM DOWN” mid-meltdown🐾 You feel like you’re doing all the right things, but your dog’s still anxious or reactive🐾 You want to shift from managing behavior to leading with confidenceBecause calm isn’t something you tell your dog to be—it’s something they learn to feel through you.Hope you enjoy! Tracy 💜 Ready to stop managing behavior and start leading with calm confidence?Join the Fearless Framework—my step-by-step program designed to help you build trust, connection, and courage on both ends of the leash.Inside, you’ll learn how to:🐕 Break the fear cycle (without relying on treats or control)🌱 Build real-world confidence with simple, daily trust strategies👣 Become the grounded, relevant leader your dog needsIf you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start building the relationship you both deserve, this is for you.🎯 Get the clarity, confidence, and calm you’ve been searching for.✨ Join now at beyondobedience.ca/fearlessI can't wait to share this with you and your dogSee you there!T
--------
27:22
103 | What Your Dog's "Out of Nowhere" Moments Mean
Hey dog lover,You know those moments where your dog reacts out of nowhere? One second everything feels calm… and the next—boom. Barking, lunging, pacing, chaos. It’s confusing, frustrating, and sometimes downright scary.But here’s the truth: those moments are never as random as they seem.In this episode, we’re unpacking:Why those “hold your breath” moments matterHow stress stacks up—sometimes silentlyWhy dogs remember unfinished conversationsAnd what you can do to interrupt the spiral without panic or punishmentThis is a must-listen if you're navigating unpredictable behavior, multi-dog dynamics, or just trying to be a better leader for your reactive or sensitive pup.Hope you enjoy! Tracy🐶 Want to understand your dog on a deeper level?Take the free Dogonality™ Quiz at www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz and discover their unique personality, communication style, and learning needs.🌱 Ready to take this work further?Join the Fearless Framework and start building calm, confident connection—without relying on treats, tricks, or control. Visit www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless
--------
30:37
102 | Fulfilment Factor: More Than Walks and Fetch
Hey Dog Lover,🐾Think your dog just needs more exercise? Think again. In this episode, we’re digging into one of the most overlooked aspects of behaviour and well-being: fulfilment. It’s not about endless fetch or racking up steps—it’s about understanding what truly lights your dog up and letting them express that joy in ways that build connection, not chaos.You’ll hear:Why fulfilment is non-negotiable for pro-social behaviourHow our dogs' different breeds and genetics show us what true joy looks like for THEM. Easy ways to create a more enriching, purposeful life for your dog (and yourself!)This episode is your permission slip to get a little weird with your dog ( who cares what the neighbours think of you anyway. 😀😂)Hope you enjoy this one. Don’t forget to comment, share, and leave a 5 ⭐️ written review —it helps more people discover the heart of what dogs really need.Next Steps:Join the Fearless Framework Course and community—a powerful space for dog lovers ready to ditch behaviour battles and lean into leadership, connection, and a truly fulfilling life with their dogs. 🎉 Life with your dog is awesome, but it's better with friends. What are you waiting for. I can't wait to share this amazing journey with you! See you inside the program. www.beyondobedience.ca/fearlessMusic credit: Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
--------
23:07
101 | What If You’re Scared of Your Dog?
Hey Dog Lover,🐾Have you ever felt that gut punch of fear when your dog lunges, growls, or just gets a little too intense? This episode is for you. I’m pulling back the curtain on a real moment with my horse Sunny—and sharing how fear, uncertainty, and doubt (aka the FUD Factor) can derail our leadership in a heartbeat.We’ll unpack:Why fear is a leadership killer—and what to do about itHow your nervous system is your training strategyWhy responding > reacting matters more than any obedience cueThis is a vulnerable, must-listen episode if you’ve ever thought, “I love my dog, but I’m scared of how they behave.” If you ever doubted your ability to handle an off-leash dog.If you have ever wondered: "Do I have what it takes?"Hope you enjoy this one. 💜Remember to comment, share, and leave a ⭐️5-star rating! It will help more overwhelmed dog lovers find their way back to calm.Next Steps:Join the Fearless Framework course + community. It’s where you’ll learn to lead with calm confidence, ditch outdated training methods, and finally feel like you and your dog are on the same team again. 🐾Can't wait to share this journey with you! Music credit: Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
--------
36:55
100 | A Trail of Trust- 100 Episodes~ Where we were, Where we are going
Hey Dog Lover!In this very special 100th episode, Paisley and I are reflecting on the journey—how this podcast went from a final message to a full-blown mission. We’re celebrating the episodes you loved most, sharing powerful stories from our incredible community, and giving you a peek behind the scenes at what’s next for the Fearless Framework.If you’ve ever felt like you're walking through the world with a misunderstood dog and just want to get it right—this episode is for you.Here’s what we dig into:The top 5 most-downloaded episodes and why they resonatedReal-life testimonials from fellow dog lovers (get your tissues ready)Why the Dogonality Quiz is such a game-changerHow we’re upleveling the Fearless Framework and building a movement rooted in leadership, calm, and connectionAnd yep… that one time I got kicked in the face 🙈This isn’t just about training—it’s about trust, relationship, and learning to be the person your dog needs.Hope you enjoy this one!With springtime muddy paws,Paisley & TracyNEXT STEPS 👣If this episode spoke to you—if you're tired of feeling alone, second-guessing yourself, or wondering if there's a better way to help your fearful or reactive dog…Come join us inside the Fearless Framework.It’s more than a program. It’s a place where you’ll be understood, supported, and guided—by people who get it.Build trust, find calm, and become the person your dog already believes you can be.👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless🎵 Music credit: Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com
About Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs
Do you long to have a happy, confident dog you can take anywhere?
Are you worried your reactive, fearful dog may hurt someone or something else?
Do you have to “prepare” yourself to take your dog for a walk around the block?
Hey there! I’m Tracy, a retired vet tech turned dog trainer, mom, wife and all-around dog lover. When I realized the key to building confidence in my dog was in understanding him and NOT just tossing treats and obedience my life changed! Now I have a pack of “just good dogs” I trust to take anywhere. And I am sharing it all here! So put down that leash & let's get to it!
Listen to Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs, Good Inside with Dr. Becky and many other podcasts from around the world with the radio.net app
Ireland