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This week we sit down with Vienna Pharon – couples therapist, boundary queen, and someone who will lovingly call you out (spoiler: she definitely did for us). We talk about how the stories we tell ourselves about childhood (“it didn’t affect me”) usually… did, and how those early dynamics show up in our marriages, our nervous systems, and the way we fight. Vienna breaks down her five “origin wounds” — worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety — and why conflict isn’t the problem, it’s what happens after that matters.
We get into real-life examples from our own relationship (including an early Ultra Music Festival spiral), how to regulate instead of react, and why modeling repair is one of the greatest gifts you can give your kids.

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This week we sit down with Captain Jason — yes, that Captain Jason — and talk about what life actually looks like off the yacht. From filming six weeks straight on Below Deck (with basically no sleep) to building a villa in Bali, launching a gender-neutral fragrance, and structuring his entire career around being present for his daughter, there’s a lot more depth than the slow-mo beach shots suggest. We get into production realities, environmental work in Indonesia, dating while nomadic (and not getting into Raya), and why he skipped drinking at BravoCon. It’s equal parts charming, grounded, and unexpectedly thoughtful — with a little chivalry discourse for good measure.

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Season two, baby.
In this episode, we kick off the new season by looking back at what we learned from season one — and then get into what everyone actually wants to talk about: how to make a relationship last. We break down “the spark,” why it’s overrated if you don’t build something underneath it, how to fight without blowing everything up, and what spontaneity really looks like once you have kids, careers, and responsibilities. We talk celebrity longevity, friends dating in their thirties, and the different phases of marriage — from early heat to that third chapter where the kids are older and you actually get to like each other again.
It’s honest, a little blunt, and very much about playing the long game.

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This week, we cover a very glamorous mix of topics: Erin's back injury, why Dry January is a scam (sorry), and the rise of Analog January—aka putting your phone down and remembering how to be a person. We talk about the chokehold screens have on adults and kids, what parenting looks like in a world of Roblox and endless content, and why boredom might actually be a good thing.

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This week, Abe sits down with Max Cohen, better known as Murray Hill Boy. Max talks about walking away from a legal career at 25, accidentally finding success on TikTok, and why growing up Jewish in New York gave him endless material. They get into what it’s actually like to build a following online, the not-so-fun parts of visibility, and being a gay guy in mostly straight friend circles without turning it into a “thing.” It’s funny, self-aware, and refreshingly honest about the work behind a career that looks effortless from the outside.

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