I Said What I Said

This week, it’s just us girls.

We start off strong with a little chat about water sports which somehow turns into a history lesson. We get into trusting your gut, decentering partners in healthy relationships and some very necessary advice on rejection and getting out of your own head.

The dilemmas this week are insane. One listener loves her boyfriend but is starting to question his very intense brand of spirituality. Another listener needs advice for their sister, who is considering putting her dreams on hold to fund her boyfriend’s master’s degree. As always, we wrap things up with wonderful advice and enough laughs to get you through the week.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s Gin, Kuda Bank & Busha.

We’re going on our biggest tour yet! Get your tickets here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod

Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest.

Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started!

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This week, we’re joined by Fareedah Abdulsalam, Product Marketing Manager at Busha, to talk about all things money. We get into our personal money problems, the habits we’ve inherited, investing, the concept (or myth?) of building generational wealth and how finances can shape our friendships and romantic relationships. We also get a little delulu about the levels of wealth we’d love to attain.

The dilemmas don’t disappoint either. One listener is in serious distress after lending her fiancé $10,000, while another has been paying for everything in her relationship only to receive a prayer for her birthday.

It’s a banger as always. Enjoy this special episode brought to you by our friends at Busha! Busha! Busha!

Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest.

Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started!

The bounce is going on tour! Get your tickets and more here: https://linktr.ee/theiswispod

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This week, the ladies are joined by Alexis Adelu Sanya-Kawa and Zulu Anyaogu from the Mirabel Centre for a very important conversation on sexual assault, domestic violence and survivor advocacy.

As usual, they start the episode with a quick catch-up, dive into a few listener dilemmas, including some exciting updates from previous entries.

Alexis and Zulu then guide us through the incredible work the Mirabel Centre has championed over the last 13 years as a sanctuary for survivors. They break down the institutional gaps in the system, the challenges survivors face when seeking help and healing, and the legislative reforms required to ensure lasting protection and justice.

This is an eye-opening and deeply insightful episode.

Support Mirabel Centre’s amazing work with a donation: https://mirabelcentre.org/donate/

Connect with Mirabel Centre: https://mirabelcentre.org/contact-us/

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Gordon’s & Busha.

Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest.

Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started!

Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment!

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This week, it’s just the girls and they had a timeee.

From Nigeria’s endless stress and FK’s hair drama to Jola’s Abuja adventures, the episode quickly goes from ranting to reminiscing. The ladies get into parenting in the age of social media, Nigerian boarding school stories and the very questionable ways adults treated teenage girls experiencing puberty.

Unsafe spaces are back this week, along with FK’s glow up mission and hilarious dilemmas to round things off.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Smirnoff Ice & Busha.

Busha is a SEC-licensed digital asset exchange where you can buy, sell, and send digital assets anywhere in the world, and also save in naira or dollars with up to 20% annual interest. Download the Busha App and use the code ISWIS or visit busha.io to get started!

Don't forget to use #ISWIS or #ISWISPodcast to share your thoughts while listening to the podcast! We love reading your posts on X! Rate the show 5 stars on whatever app you listen to, leave a review, share it with everyone you know, and if you also watch on YouTube, please subscribe, like, and leave a comment!

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This week, the ladies are joined by the sensational Chef Demilade Akingbe for a hilarious and completely unfiltered episode.

We kick things off with the heavy realities of living in Nigeria and the big debate over whether public figures actually have a responsibility to speak up.

Things take an extra chaotic turn as the group gets into sex work, oddly specific turn-offs, and Demilade’s iconic grocery store date. For this week's unhinged dilemmas, we tackle the messy fallout of sleeping with a close friend’s younger sister, and toxic exes who suddenly realize you’re wife material. Finally, Demilade spills all the behind-the-scenes tea on her MasterChef Nigeria journey and shares the exciting things she has cooking next for My Friend’s House.

Enjoy this amazing episode brought to you by our friends at Busha!

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