Join Angilyn and Nate Bagley as they capture the real-life stories of amazing LDS couples, and learn the principles and tools of how to have an incredible Etern...
Dr. John Gottman has spent the last 4 decades studying what makes marriages succeed or fail. Through his research, he discovered 4 specific behaviors that, if left unchecked, will result in the destruction of any marriage.These 4 behaviors are known as The Four Horsemen of the Marriage Apocalypse.Today, we're going to share with you what the Four Horsemen are, how to recognize them, and what to do about them if they're present in your relationship.If you want to learn more about Dr. Gottman's work, we recommend his book, The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work. It's fantastic!
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An Introduction To Boundaries
The concept of Boundaries is not something we talk about in Sunday School.
It's not a merit badge, or a young women's value.
But without boundaries, our marriages will not flourish and thrive like we want them to.
So, today we're going to give you an introduction into the concept of boundaries. What are they? How do they work? Why are they important? How do we set them? And how do we enforce them?
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The Two Types of Marital Conflict
Did you know there are actually two types of conflict in marriage?
Some conflict, like what to eat for dinner tonight, is resolvable conflict.
The rest of our conflicts - 69% to be exact - are unresolvable conflicts, like what to do if you're an early riser, and I'm a night owl. Or if you're fastidious and I'm cluttery.
If you try to solve an unsolvable problem, you're just going to get more upset and frustrated. (Each type of problem requires its own skillset.)
So, today we're going to talk about those two types of conflict, and how to handle them differently.
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How To Create A Marriage That Can Withstand Any Trial
How do you create a marriage that can withstand any trial?
And let's be honest, we want to do more than merely survive... we want to THRIVE, even amidst the struggles of life.
God didn't give us marriage to endure. It's to enjoy. And that's what we'll show you how to do today.
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The Purpose Of Your Marriage
This episode is a recording of a live marriage preparation class Angilyn and I taught as part of our calling with the YSA Ward. This week's lesson was on the purpose of your marriage... ie: why we get married.
The answer might not be what you think...
Join Angilyn and Nate Bagley as they capture the real-life stories of amazing LDS couples, and learn the principles and tools of how to have an incredible Eternal Marriage from LDS marriage experts. If you want a marriage that makes you look forward to eternity... this show should be in your feed!
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