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Dr. Rebecca Houvener, Psy.D. LCP
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    Ep 60: Hysteria, Histrionic, & the Demonization of Women

    11/08/2026 | 30 mins.
    Hysteria, Histrionic, & the Demonization of Women | Ep. 60

    🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) discuss the horrible and inhumane history of hysteria in medicine by investigating how Dr. Jean Martin Charcot used the Salpetriere Hospital in France as a “Museum of Living Pathology” to showcase his hypnotic and showman skills over hysterical women. We look at Freud’s contribution to hysteria and the oppressive, patriarchal society of the 1880s that led to these unexplained symptoms in women. We continue the discussion by walking through the DSM’s hysteria to histrionic personality evolution before sharing our own thoughts and opinions about this condition’s stigmatized name and the maltreatment of women in medicine throughout history. 

    ⚠️Note: this podcast does not constitute a professional relationship. If you're in need of professional help, please seek out appropriate resources in your area. ⚠️ 

    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction & History of Hysteria
    01:39 Hysteria as a Medical Condition (Charcot)
    04:00 Could Men Have Hysteria?
    04:33 Women & Society in 1880
    06:14 Charcot Treats Hysterics at Salpetriere Hospital
    06:51 Dermagraphism Defined
    07:27 Charcot’s “Museum of Living Pathology”
    09:25 Freud’s Contribution to Hysteria
    11:58 Was Freud Hysterical?
    14:47 The Societal Context for Hysteria
    16:02 The Disappearance of Hysteria in the 1900s
            16:46 WW I’s Impact on Hysteria
            17:37 Advances in Medicine and Neuroscience
    18:08 Hysteria Makes a Comeback in the DSM I in 1952!
    20:04 DSM I (1952): Hysteria as Symptoms without Medical Basis
    20:16 DSM II (1968) Hysterical Neurosis 
    20:34 Conversion Type
    21:19 Dissociative Type
    21:55 DSM II (1968) Hysterical Personality
    23:24 Hysterical Personality vs Symptoms
    23:47 DSM III Forward: Somaticization, Dissociation, Histrionic, & Borderline Personality
    24:40 Our Thoughts
            25:24 Is Antisocial the Masculine Histrionic Counterpart? 
            27:55 Did Freud & Charcot Know More Than They Let On? 
    29:40 Conclusion

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    Ep 59: OCPD vs Schizoid Personality

    28/07/2026 | 29 mins.
    Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder vs Schizoid Personality | Ep. 59

    🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack the nuanced differences and overlaps between obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD) and schizoid personality disorder(SzPD). We investigate each personality’s core drives, emotional experiences, and defense mechanisms, using a psychodynamic lens to capture these very different (yet similar) personalities. 

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    Chapters
    00:00 Intro & Definitions
            01:27 OCPD Defined
            02:20 Schizoid Defined (DSM)
            02:48 Schizoid Defined (Psychodynamic)
    03:10 OCPD vs Antisocial
    04:04 OCPD vs Narcissism
    04:52 OCPD vs Schizoid (DSM)
    05:40 OCPD vs Schizoid (Psychodynamic)
    05:54 OCPD vs Schizoid (Nancy McWilliams)
            06:52 Emotionality & Flatness
            07:55 Therapeutic Approach
    09:52 Differing Inner Needs (PDM)
            10:06 OCPD Child: Orderly, Aggressive, Irritable
            10:25 Schizoid Child: Sensitive, Shy, Overstimulated
            11:02 Emotions in OCPD: Anger, Guilt, Anxiety, Shame, Fear
            11:32 Emotions in Schizoid: Emotional Pain, Overstimulation
            12:10 Defense Mechanisms in OCPD
            13:03 Defense Mechanisms in Schizoid
    13:57 Maladaptive Beliefs (PDM)
            14:12 OCPD: Feelings Are Dangerous
            14:25 Schizoid: Dependency & Love Are Dangerous
            15:16 OCPD: Others Are Less Precise
            16:01 Schizoid: Others Are Impinging and Dangerous
    16:44 Internal Conflicts (PDM)
            16:51 OCPD: To Comply or Defy
            17:13 Schizoid: Fearing Yet Yearning for Closeness
    17:29 Are Schizoids Afraid?
    17:45 Millon’s OC-Schizoid Mixed Subtypes
            18:02 Affectless Schizoid
            20:53 Parsimonious Constricted Compulsive
    23:23 Our Thoughts
            24:10 Enneagram 5 & Schizoid
            24:38 Enneagram 1 & OCPD
            24:54 Enneagram 6 & OCPD
            25:54 Is OCPD a Core Personality? 
    27:18 Problems with Therapy & Self-Discovery in OCPD
    28:39 Summary & Closing
     

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    Ep 58: The 6 Obsessive Compulsive Personality Subtypes

    14/07/2026 | 33 mins.
    The 6 Obsessive Compulsive Personality Subtypes | Ep. 58

    🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack the 6 subtypes of OCPD according to Dr. Theodore Millon. At the mild level, we explore the Conscientiously Reliable (Dependent Features) and the Perfectionistically Reliable, while at the Moderate level, we look at Bureaucratically Constricted (Narcissistic Features) and the Parsimoniously Constricted (Schizoid, Avoidant Features) . We conclude by discussing the more severe subtypes like Puritanical Compulsive (Paranoid Features) and the Bedeviled Compulsive (Negativistic) before sharing our thoughts and experiences in clinical practice.  

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    Chapters
    00:00 Intro & Definition of OCPD
    01:34 When Perfectionism is Valuable
    03:17 Compulsive Overlaps with All Personalities
    06:13 Intro to Millon’s Personality Theory
    06:27 The Mild Obsessive Compulsive Personality
          07:31 Conscientiously Reliable
          10:17 Perfectionistically Reliable
    12:12 Our Personal and Clinical Experience 
    14:16 Comparing & Contrasting Mild Obsessive Compulsive Subtypes
    15:15 The Moderate Obsessive Compulsive Personality
          16:33 The Bureaucratically Constricted 
          19:31 Parsimoniously Constricted 
    21:00 Millon’s Case Named Jane
    22:38 The Severe Obsessive Compulsive Personality
          23:15 Puritanical Compulsive
          27:27 Bedeviled Compulsive
    31:28 Comparing & Contrasting the 3 Severity Levels
    32:28 Summary & Ending

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    Ep 57: OCPD: Secrets Inside the Psyche

    30/06/2026 | 29 mins.
    psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the inner conflict in those with OCPD: to comply or to defy. We look at defense mechanisms and early attachment (and even potty training!) that drives their fixated behavior. 

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    Chapters
    00:00 Intro & Definition of OCPD
    02:47 Obsessive vs Compulsive Defined
    04:04 OCPD vs OCD: Ego-syntonic vs ego-dystonic
    05:29 The Internal Dysfunction in OCPD
    05:58 The Role of Potty Training in Developing OCPD
    08:31 Why is Potty Training Connected with Personality? 
    10:38 The Central Conflict of Defying or Complying
    14:16 Defense Mechanisms in OCPD
          14:20 Reaction Formation Defined
          15:29 Isolation of Affect
          16:21 Emotional Exceptions: Righteous Anger & Shame
    18:21 OCPD vs Schizoid 
    19:36 OCPD vs Psychosis
    20:26 Compulsive Behavior of Undoing
    20:53 When Compulsive Behavior is Pathological (and Not)
    21:58 Compulsivity and Omnipotent Control 
    22:46 Thoughts Behind Compulsive Behavior
    24:28 Our Thoughts & Clinical Experience with OCPD
          25:23 The “Compulsive Personality Shell”
          26:31 Compulsive Flavors in Other Personalities
    28:32 Summary & Conclusion

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    Ep 56: Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder DSM Symptoms

    16/06/2026 | 32 mins.
    🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the straightforward history of this condition, looking at fun names in history like anankastic and ambitendency. We also unpack the evolution of OCPD in the DSM, highlighting how our own compulsivity shows up in the naming and renaming of the disorder throughout history. We look in detail at the 8 criteria in the DSM and share our thoughts and criticisms about the DSM’s portrayal of this condition.  

    ⚠️Note: this podcast does not constitute a professional relationship. If you're in need of professional help, please seek out appropriate resources in your area. ⚠️

    Chapters
    00:00 Intro & History of OCPD
    00:35 The Term “Zwang” 
    01:21 The Term “Anankastic”
    02:08 The Term “Psychasthenia State”
    02:31 Freud’s Anal Character
    02:57 OCPD vs OCD 
    04:17 The Terms: Sensitive, Insecure, Ambitendency
    04:33 The Terms: Hoarding Orientation, Obsessive Character, Rigid Styles
    05:53 History of OCPD in the DSM
         06:05 OCPD in the DSM I 
         06:31 OCPD in the DSM II
         07:08 New OCPD Criteria in the DSM III 
         09:07 New OCPD Criteria in the DSM III-R
         11:10 OCPD in the DSM IV 
    12:06 OCPD in the DSM 5
         13:04 Criterion 1: Order, Perfectionism, Control
         15:44 Criterion 2: Extreme Perfectionism
         17:51 Criterion 3: Work Focused
         21:15 Criterion 4: Inflexible Values
         23:11 Criterion 5: Hoarding
         24:33 Criterion 6: Controlling
         26:03 Criterion 7: Financially Stingy
         26:59 Criterion 8: Rigidity
    27:44 Our Thoughts & Opinions
    30:11 Summary & Conclusion 

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About Personality Couch
We all encounter personality conflict on a regular basis, whether we know it or not. From funky, can’t-quite-put-my-finger-on-it dynamics with that one friend or family member, to the big blowup drama at work with the last person you’d expect, it all comes down to personality. Join clinical psychologists, Dr. Rebecca Houvener, Psy.D, (“Doc Bok”) and Dr. Cheyenne Fisher, Psy.D., (“Doc Fish”) biweekly as they unpack the most complex topics like personality disorders and psychopathic behavior, while also making room for lighthearted discussions about personality typologies and humorous anecdotes from private practice. Whether you’re fascinated by personality darkness, a concerned friend or loved one, an “armchair psychologist,” or a licensed professional convinced there is something more going on with patients…. This show is for you.
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