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- Histrionic Personality | Our Psychodynamic Deep Dive | Ep 62
🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the complex psychological and societal factors contributing to histrionic personality disorder, focusing on gender dynamics, childhood development, and cultural influences. We specifically explore the histrionic’s fear of overstimulation internally; how they seek out professions that have a stage; and how they view the self and their own gender as defective. We look at their defense mechanisms in depth, including: repression, conversion, sexualization, acting out, regression, and dissociation. We end the episode by positing the new wave of gender and sexual fluidity and non-conformity may be a new expression of the histrionic character.
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Chapters:
00:00 Intro to Histrionic and Gender Dynamics
02:00 How Does Histrionic Personality Start?
02:40 Histrionics as Creative Types
03:41 Main Emotions of Guilt, Shame, Anxiety
04:08 Histrionics Have Strong Oral Appetites
05:19 Oedipal Stage’s Impact on Histrionic Development
05:45 Freud’s “Male Anatomy Envy” = “P-envy”
06:47 Why Hysteria Came Back in DSM I (1952)
08:07 Sense of Self: Fearful, Inferior, Defective
08:19 Histrionic vs Narcissistic Personality
09:15 Enmeshment & Rescuing Dynamics
10:21 Emotional Expressiveness in Histrionics
12:37 Histrionic: The Game of Pretend
13:16 Histrionic Core Beliefs
14:13 Family Dynamics Contributing to Histrionic
15:45 The Histrionic Conflict With Sex and Culture
16:39 Exhibitionism Resolves the Conflict
17:29 Conflict About the Opposite Sex
18:46 Defense Mechanisms in Histrionic:
19:08 Repression
20:20 Conversion & “Glove Paralysis” Example
22:24 Sexualization
23:11 Acting Out
24:13 Regression
25:16 Dissociation
27:40 Our Thoughts
27:51 Empathy for the Histrionic’s Inner Child
28:45 Histrionic’s Male Counterpart: Antisocial?
29:10 Doc Bok’s Hypothesis About Gender & Sexuality Expression Today
31:43 Is the New Histrionic Rejecting Binary Gender and Sex?
33:27 Histrionic in Sexual Minorities
34:29 Society Creates Histrionic Characters
35:04 Evolution of Psychodynamic View of Histrionic
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https://www.facebook.com/personalitycouch - Histrionic Personality Disorder | The 8 DSM Criteria | Ep. 61
🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the 8 criteria of histrionic personality disorder in the DSM. We discuss their tendency to engage in attention-seeking and seductive behaviors, coming across as emotionally shallow. Histrionic personalities also focus heavily on their appearance and use fluffy, impressionistic speech. Others perceive them as dramatic and suggestible - easily believing what others say regardless of the facts. They also tend to overestimate their connections to others, believing relationships are deeper than they actually are.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Histrionic Personality Disorder
00:39 DSM I (1952) Histrionic Criteria
01:12 DSM II (1968) Histrionic Criteria
01:33 DSM III (1980) Histrionic Criteria
02:21 DSM III-R (1987) Histrionic Criteria
03:22 DSM IV (1994) Histrionic Criteria
03:35 DSM 5-TR Criteria Introduction
04:17 Criterion 1: Attention Seeking
05:27 Criterion 2: Seductive & Provocative Behavior
06:16 Criterion 3: Shifting & Shallow Affect
07:54 Criterion 4: Draws Attention Using Appearance
09:05 Criterion 5: Fluffy, Impressionistic Speech
09:59 Criterion 6: Dramatic & Theatrical
11:34 Criterion 7: Suggestibility
13:27 Criterion 8: Connection Overestimation
14:34 Lower Interpersonal Impairment
16:20 Our Thoughts
21:05 Summary & Ending
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Podcast Episode Referenced: Hysteria, Histrionic, & the Demonization of Women | Ep. 60 : https://youtu.be/3KkVWJ4um-8
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https://www.facebook.com/personalitycouch - Hysteria, Histrionic, & the Demonization of Women | Ep. 60
🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) discuss the horrible and inhumane history of hysteria in medicine by investigating how Dr. Jean Martin Charcot used the Salpetriere Hospital in France as a “Museum of Living Pathology” to showcase his hypnotic and showman skills over hysterical women. We look at Freud’s contribution to hysteria and the oppressive, patriarchal society of the 1880s that led to these unexplained symptoms in women. We continue the discussion by walking through the DSM’s hysteria to histrionic personality evolution before sharing our own thoughts and opinions about this condition’s stigmatized name and the maltreatment of women in medicine throughout history.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction & History of Hysteria
01:39 Hysteria as a Medical Condition (Charcot)
04:00 Could Men Have Hysteria?
04:33 Women & Society in 1880
06:14 Charcot Treats Hysterics at Salpetriere Hospital
06:51 Dermagraphism Defined
07:27 Charcot’s “Museum of Living Pathology”
09:25 Freud’s Contribution to Hysteria
11:58 Was Freud Hysterical?
14:47 The Societal Context for Hysteria
16:02 The Disappearance of Hysteria in the 1900s
16:46 WW I’s Impact on Hysteria
17:37 Advances in Medicine and Neuroscience
18:08 Hysteria Makes a Comeback in the DSM I in 1952!
20:04 DSM I (1952): Hysteria as Symptoms without Medical Basis
20:16 DSM II (1968) Hysterical Neurosis
20:34 Conversion Type
21:19 Dissociative Type
21:55 DSM II (1968) Hysterical Personality
23:24 Hysterical Personality vs Symptoms
23:47 DSM III Forward: Somaticization, Dissociation, Histrionic, & Borderline Personality
24:40 Our Thoughts
25:24 Is Antisocial the Masculine Histrionic Counterpart?
27:55 Did Freud & Charcot Know More Than They Let On?
29:40 Conclusion
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https://www.facebook.com/personalitycouch - Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder vs Schizoid Personality | Ep. 59
🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack the nuanced differences and overlaps between obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD) and schizoid personality disorder(SzPD). We investigate each personality’s core drives, emotional experiences, and defense mechanisms, using a psychodynamic lens to capture these very different (yet similar) personalities.
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Chapters
00:00 Intro & Definitions
01:27 OCPD Defined
02:20 Schizoid Defined (DSM)
02:48 Schizoid Defined (Psychodynamic)
03:10 OCPD vs Antisocial
04:04 OCPD vs Narcissism
04:52 OCPD vs Schizoid (DSM)
05:40 OCPD vs Schizoid (Psychodynamic)
05:54 OCPD vs Schizoid (Nancy McWilliams)
06:52 Emotionality & Flatness
07:55 Therapeutic Approach
09:52 Differing Inner Needs (PDM)
10:06 OCPD Child: Orderly, Aggressive, Irritable
10:25 Schizoid Child: Sensitive, Shy, Overstimulated
11:02 Emotions in OCPD: Anger, Guilt, Anxiety, Shame, Fear
11:32 Emotions in Schizoid: Emotional Pain, Overstimulation
12:10 Defense Mechanisms in OCPD
13:03 Defense Mechanisms in Schizoid
13:57 Maladaptive Beliefs (PDM)
14:12 OCPD: Feelings Are Dangerous
14:25 Schizoid: Dependency & Love Are Dangerous
15:16 OCPD: Others Are Less Precise
16:01 Schizoid: Others Are Impinging and Dangerous
16:44 Internal Conflicts (PDM)
16:51 OCPD: To Comply or Defy
17:13 Schizoid: Fearing Yet Yearning for Closeness
17:29 Are Schizoids Afraid?
17:45 Millon’s OC-Schizoid Mixed Subtypes
18:02 Affectless Schizoid
20:53 Parsimonious Constricted Compulsive
23:23 Our Thoughts
24:10 Enneagram 5 & Schizoid
24:38 Enneagram 1 & OCPD
24:54 Enneagram 6 & OCPD
25:54 Is OCPD a Core Personality?
27:18 Problems with Therapy & Self-Discovery in OCPD
28:39 Summary & Closing
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https://www.facebook.com/personalitycouch - The 6 Obsessive Compulsive Personality Subtypes | Ep. 58
🎬In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack the 6 subtypes of OCPD according to Dr. Theodore Millon. At the mild level, we explore the Conscientiously Reliable (Dependent Features) and the Perfectionistically Reliable, while at the Moderate level, we look at Bureaucratically Constricted (Narcissistic Features) and the Parsimoniously Constricted (Schizoid, Avoidant Features) . We conclude by discussing the more severe subtypes like Puritanical Compulsive (Paranoid Features) and the Bedeviled Compulsive (Negativistic) before sharing our thoughts and experiences in clinical practice.
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Chapters
00:00 Intro & Definition of OCPD
01:34 When Perfectionism is Valuable
03:17 Compulsive Overlaps with All Personalities
06:13 Intro to Millon’s Personality Theory
06:27 The Mild Obsessive Compulsive Personality
07:31 Conscientiously Reliable
10:17 Perfectionistically Reliable
12:12 Our Personal and Clinical Experience
14:16 Comparing & Contrasting Mild Obsessive Compulsive Subtypes
15:15 The Moderate Obsessive Compulsive Personality
16:33 The Bureaucratically Constricted
19:31 Parsimoniously Constricted
21:00 Millon’s Case Named Jane
22:38 The Severe Obsessive Compulsive Personality
23:15 Puritanical Compulsive
27:27 Bedeviled Compulsive
31:28 Comparing & Contrasting the 3 Severity Levels
32:28 Summary & Ending
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We all encounter personality conflict on a regular basis, whether we know it or not. From funky, can’t-quite-put-my-finger-on-it dynamics with that one friend or family member, to the big blowup drama at work with the last person you’d expect, it all comes down to personality.
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