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PMDD Pep Talk

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  • 20. The Shocking PMDD Statistics No One Talks About (+ My Dad's Reaction)
    The Shocking PMDD Statistics No One Talks About (+ My Dad's Reaction) This isn't your typical pep talk episode, but it's the most important conversation we need to have. Jes and her dad Chris dive deep into the shocking 2022 research linking PMDD to self-harm and suicidal ideation, sharing Jes's personal 17-year journey with undiagnosed PMDD and the precursors that lead women down this devastating path. This raw, honest conversation offers hope and practical insights for breaking the dangerous cycle of silence. Important Note: This episode discusses self-harm and suicidal ideation. If you're experiencing active thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 or your local emergency services. Your hosts are not clinical counselors and cannot provide crisis intervention. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • The devastating statistics from 2022 research: 72% of PMDD patients experience suicidal thoughts, 49% make plans, and 34% attempt suicide • The hidden precursors to self-injurious thoughts, including automatic negative thoughts and how they spiral during the luteal phase • Why isolation and shame fuel the cycle of self-harm, and how breaking the silence can be life-saving • The various forms of self-sabotage beyond physical harm (running, fighting, disordered eating, perfectionism, risky behaviors) • How trauma and nervous system dysregulation connect to PMDD and self-harm patterns • The importance of communicating with your support system about what's really happening in your mind Key Quotes from This Episode: "PMDD awareness is suicide prevention - I'm not hyping this up here. This is reality." "You cannot think 'I'm worthless' 25 times in one minute... for 14 days and not end up with self-injurious thoughts and behaviors." "Healing PMDD isn't just about managing symptoms, it's about transforming your life. This challenge, as brutal as it can be, is an invitation to know yourself more deeply." Episode Highlights: [00:06:36] - The shocking 2022 BMC Psychiatry study statistics that shook the PMDD world [00:18:59] - How automatic negative thoughts create a spiral leading to self-harm [00:27:20] - The various forms of self-sabotage women don't recognize as self-harm [00:45:48] - Dad's perspective on learning about Jes's 17 years of hidden struggle [00:56:22] - How breaking the silence transformed their relationship and Jes's life Resources Mentioned: • BMC Psychiatry 2022 study: "Prevalence of Lifetime Self-Injurious Thoughts and Behaviors in a Global Sample of 599 Patients Reporting Prospectively Confirmed Diagnosis with Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder" -https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-022-03851-0 • PMDD Rehab program lesson on automatic negative thoughts and self-sabotage https://hermoodmentor.com/pmdd-rehab-course • Automatic negative thoughts workbook - https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/offers/z3VZsifo • Symptom mapping kit (free resource for tracking PMDD patterns) https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 ________________________________________________________ Help us spread PMDD Awareness and Hope: Rate & Review This Podcast PMDD awareness saves lives. Your 30-second review could be the reason another woman finally finds this podcast and discovers she's not alone, she's not "crazy," and there is hope. The woman who finds us because of your review might be in her darkest moment, searching for answers just like you once did. Please take a moment to rate PMDD Pep Talk and share how this podcast has helped you. Every review spreads awareness. Every bit of awareness has the power to save lives. _________________________________ Watch the episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/FqJi1Z3X_pg _________________________________ You can find Jes: Instagram: @hermoodmentor Youtube: @hermoodmentor Website: https://hermoodmentor.com/ _________________________________ Looking for more support? ✦︎ Grab our FREE Symptom Mapping Kit- The first step to healing instead of dealing with your symptoms is to map your symptom pattern. https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit Ready to learn how to reduce and manage your PMDD symptoms? ✦︎ Join us in the PMDD Rehab Course. https://hermoodmentor.com/pmdd-rehab-course
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  • 19. Carly's PMDD Story and Symptom Transformation
    When Carly first reached out, she was facing relentless PMDD symptoms that were disrupting her daily life, marriage, and mental health. She had been battling these symptoms since the age of 16—18 years of monthly chaos that consumed most of her cycle. For nearly two decades, Carly was spending 21 days each month dealing with overwhelming emotional and physical symptoms that stole her energy, peace, and joy. Her Initial Challenges: • Crushing depression • Hopelessness and anxiety • Intense rage • Restless legs and insomnia • Severe bloating and hormonal acne • Suicidal ideation • Poor sleep and extreme emotional dysregulation Over just a few months in our PMDD Program, Carly's symptom burden decreased by 223 points, from 444 to 221. She didn’t just survive her luteal phase—she reclaimed her life, her confidence, and her calm. Here's What Carly Says Now: 👉 “I’m not filled with rage in luteal.” 👉 “I didn’t have any suicidal ideation.” 👉 “I feel better than I ever did on antidepressants.” 👉 “Our house has a happier energy.” 👉 “I cannot believe I’m having symptom-free cycles without medication.” Carly went from 21 days of moderate-severe symptoms each cycle to zero severe symptoms recorded in her fourth symptom map—a complete transformation without medication. Carly’s story demonstrates that PMDD doesn't have to rule your life. Through an individualized, root-cause approach, she found lasting relief and emotional freedom. Her transformation proves that with proper support, you can: • Avoid relying solely on SSRIs or birth control • Improve naturally and sustainably • Regain your emotional balance and joy • Experience consistent symptom-free cycles • Take back control over your body, mind, and life ❤️ If this podcast has ever made you feel seen, less alone, or more hopeful in your healing—please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review PMDD Pep Talk. Your words don’t just help us grow—they help someone in the depths of their cycle find this support when they need it most. Every subscribe click, rate, and review helps us reach more people who are still suffering in silence. _________________________________ Watch the episode on Youtube https://youtu.be/xg8gaYEm9Sg _________________________________ You can find Jes: Instagram: @hermoodmentor Youtube: @hermoodmentor Website: https://hermoodmentor.com/ _________________________________ Looking for more support? ✦︎ Grab our FREE Symptom Mapping Kit- The first step to healing instead of dealing with your symptoms is to map your symptom pattern. https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit Ready to change your PMDD story? Schedule your intro session and let's run your symptom assessment: https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/offers/Amd9gW98"
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  • 18. The Beautiful Truth About PMDD Motivation
    Why We Don't Heal for Ourselves (And Why That's Actually Beautiful) After seven years of working with PMDD clients, Jess shares a profound mindset shift that happened during a recent consultation call. She explores why so many women seek PMDD healing to help their loved ones rather than themselves—and why this motivation is actually a beautiful gift rather than something to be frustrated about. This episode reveals how changing our thinking patterns can transform our entire perspective and offers hope for your own healing journey. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • Why seeking healing for others isn't a sign of low self-worth—it's actually beautiful • How thought patterns can shift naturally as you heal, without "muscling" them into place • The difference between physical and psychological PMDD symptoms and how they affect identity • Why celebrating small shifts and progress is crucial for rewiring your brain • Real-life examples of how PMDD healing transforms women's lives in unexpected ways Key Quotes from This Episode: "There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so." - Shakespeare "What a beautiful thing that you love someone so much that you care so much about someone else that you are willing to do whatever it takes." "The psychological symptoms can get integrated into your sense of being a lot deeper for a lot longer before you build the awareness and understanding to take action to change it." Resources Mentioned: • Tame Your Inner Critic Workbook (mentioned as a tool for changing thought patterns) • PMDD Pep Talk episode on suicidal ideation and PMDD- coming soon • Shakespeare's quote: "There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" Connect with Jes & the Her Mood Mentor Team: Instagram: @hermoodmentor Youtube: @hermoodmentor Website: https://hermoodmentor.com/ Looking for more support? ✦︎ Grab our FREE Symptom Mapping Kit- The first step to healing instead of dealing with your symptoms is to map your symptom pattern. https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit Ready to learn how to reduce and manage your PMDD symptoms? ✦︎ Join us in the PMDD Rehab Course. https://hermoodmentor.com/pmdd-rehab-course _________________________________________________________________________________ A Note from Jes: This episode came from a real-time shift I experienced while working with a client—one of those beautiful moments where the work I do with others reflected back and healed something in me. If you've ever felt like you're not "enough" reason to heal for yourself, I want you to know that whatever motivates you to get better is valid and beautiful. Your love for others can be the catalyst that transforms your life, and there's nothing wrong with that. Help Save Lives: Rate & Review This Podcast PMDD awareness literally saves lives. Your 30-second review could be the reason another woman finally finds this podcast and discovers she's not alone, she's not "crazy," and there is hope. The woman who finds us because of your review might be in her darkest moment, searching for answers just like you once did. Please take a moment to rate us 5 stars and share how this podcast has helped you—your voice could help save a life. Every review spreads awareness. Every bit of awareness saves lives. Remember: Your PMDD symptoms are not your personality. Your suffering is real, your experience is valid, and your future is brighter than your symptoms suggest. _____________________________________________________________________________________ Watch the episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/lPqpqN2xKp0
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  • Navigating PMDD, Self-Compassion, and Identity with Nicole
    Navigating PMDD, Self-Compassion, and Identity with Nicole In this episode of PMDD Pep Talk, Jes sits down with Nicole from Dope Kitchen to explore the emotional and psychological challenges of living with PMDD. Through a raw and heartfelt discussion, they uncover the complexities of self-compassion, identity shifts, and the impact of PMDD on personal growth. Nicole opens up about her journey—from grappling with feelings of self-doubt and frustration to finding a path toward self-acceptance and healing. Together, they discuss the power of self-awareness, strategies for managing PMDD’s emotional rollercoaster, and how embracing one’s experience can lead to profound transformation. Episode Highlights:✨ How PMDD shapes self-perception and identity ✨ The role of self-compassion in healing and resilience ✨ Coping strategies for navigating emotional highs and lows ✨ The impact of PMDD on relationships and personal goals ✨ Practical tips for advocating for yourself and finding support This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking validation, community, and practical insights into living with PMDD. Tune in for an honest, empowering conversation that reminds you—you are not alone. ❤️ If this podcast has ever made you feel seen, less alone, or more hopeful in your healing—please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review PMDD Pep Talk. Your words don’t just help us grow—they help someone in the depths of their cycle find this support when they need it most. Every subscribe click, rate, and review helps us reach more people who are still suffering in silence. _________________________________ Watch the conversation on Youtube: https://youtu.be/sdqHKfHlCHA _________________________________ Find Nicole: Instagram: @dope_kitchen Youtube: @DopeKitchen _________________________________ You can find Jes: Instagram: @hermoodmentor Youtube: @hermoodmentor Website: https://hermoodmentor.com/ _________________________________ Looking for more support? ✦︎ Grab our FREE Symptom Mapping Kit- The first step to healing instead of dealing with your symptoms is to map your symptom pattern. https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit Ready to learn how to reduce and manage your PMDD symptoms? ✦︎ Join us in the PMDD Rehab Course. https://hermoodmentor.com/pmdd-rehab-course
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  • 17. Breaking Your Cycle Summit PMDD Interview with Nicola Smith + Jes Fleming
    Host of the Breaking Your Cycle summit, Nichola Smith, interviews Jes Fleming, a nutritional therapist and integrative menstrual health educator who transformed her 17-year struggle with undiagnosed PMDD into a mission to help other women. After being misdiagnosed as bipolar and reaching a crisis point in 2017, Jes discovered approaches that gave her a symptom-free period within just 3 months. She now runs Her Mood Mentor Virtual Premenstrual Clinic, helping women reclaim their lives from severe premenstrual symptoms. Episode Highlights: What is PMDD? Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder - much more severe than regular PMS Occurs during luteal phase (up to 14-16 days before period) Includes rage, depression, anxiety, brain fog, severe physical symptoms Affects daily functioning and relationships Root Causes Genetic factors (30-80% heritability) Sensitivity to hormone fluctuations (especially progesterone metabolite) HPA axis dysregulation and trauma connections Links to neurodivergence (ADHD) Natural Solutions Nutrition: 75+ grams protein daily, blood sugar regulation, mineral support Gut Health: 90% of serotonin made in gut; proper digestion essential for hormone detox Sleep & Light: Blue light management, circadian rhythm optimization Nervous System: Blood sugar stability as foundation before other interventions Practical Action Symptom Mapping: Track symptoms visually for 2-3 months to identify patterns, aid diagnosis, and target specific issues Takeaway Recovery is possible when addressing root causes rather than just managing symptoms. ❤️ If this podcast has ever made you feel seen, less alone, or more hopeful in your healing—please take a moment to subscribe, rate, and review PMDD Pep Talk. Your words don’t just help us grow—they help someone in the depths of their cycle find this support when they need it most. Every subscribe click, rate, and review helps us reach more people who are still suffering in silence. _________________________________ Watch the episode on Youtube: https://youtu.be/y9BSynR6ZjY _________________________________ You can find Jes: Instagram: @hermoodmentor Youtube: @hermoodmentor Website: https://hermoodmentor.com/ _________________________________ Looking for more support? ✦︎ Schedule an Intro Session with Jes and lets run your symptom assessment! ✦︎ Grab our FREE Symptom Mapping Kit- The first step to healing instead of dealing with your symptoms is to map your symptom pattern. https://courses.hermoodmentor.com/symptommappingkit Ready to learn how to reduce and manage your PMDD symptoms? ✦︎ Join us in the PMDD Rehab Course.
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