Smiling Gives You Wrinkles

I often get DM's from followers that go something a bit like this: "You've been smashing it lately." Or "We love what you're doing." Or, "What an inspiration - keep doing what you're doing."
And while messages like these keep me going, behind-the-scenes, I’ve been facing a massive internal struggle, and in this incredibly raw and honest episode, I’m opening up about why this has financially been my worst business year to date, and why I am officially refusing to wait around for the beauty industry to see my worth.
🎧 In This Episode, I Cover:
The Outside vs. Inside Reality: Reflecting on a year of major professional highs (writing for Allure, taking part in a Channel 4 TV show, and being invited to speak on top podcasts) while quietly navigating an internal business struggle.
Why the Beauty Industry is Broken for Midlife Creators: The reality of how AI is shifting brand spending and why the industry’s obsession with younger demographics leaves experienced experts feeling undervalued.
Stepping Into My 3.0: Why I’m diversifying my career and helping my husband grow his Florida real estate business.
The "Fuck It, I'm 50" Energy: How I'm taking control and the power and beauty of standing in your truth as you age.

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After an incredible brand trip to the gorgeous Inns Of Aurora in upstate New York with No7, I’m back - despite a chaotic, storm-delayed layover at Detroit airport last night! So in this week’s chat, I’m taking you inside the stunning Aurora Inns, giving you an insider peek into the two new No7 skincare lines, and opening up my travel makeup bag. Plus, I’m chatting about those viral headlines surrounding CeraVe too.
Head over to my website to get the full list of every product and range mentioned in today's episode:
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And also as promised:
Click here to read my full Victoria Beckham Foundation Drops review
And...
Read my report into the scary CeraVe headlines.
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See you next week 🐞

This week I’m catching up with my friend, the brilliant TV makeup artist Donna May, who has just finished working at the world renowned Chelsea Flower Show in London - she is basically in charge of doing the hair and makeup for all of the presenters! And although it sounds glamorous (you’ll hear about her chats (and hugs!) with Sir David Beckham and King Charles no less!!!) - the days are long, hot and sweaty!
⚡ Backstage Beauty Kit & Product Links:
We mentioned a lot of specific products in this episode - including Donna’s holy-grail Amazon hair cream that cures midlife frizz; the exact over makeup SPF spray she uses, and her favourite instant blur and tanning cream for pasty legs.
I have linked all of the products over on thebeautyed.com so click the link below to grab the full shopping list and read the deep-dive guide on how to use them:
👉 Click here to get the full Backstage Product Guide (and don't forget to subscribe)
Other Things We Chat About in This Episode:
Broken dishwashers, mercury retrogrades, and ‘what’s for dinner’ conversations.
What David Beckham and King Charles are really like IRL
How to stop makeup pilling under SPF and the ultimate trick for upper-lip sweat.
Why waterproof mascaras are ruining your lashes, and the powder-puff trick to use instead.
Menopause fatigue and ‘nanna naps.’
Menopausal knuckle pain, hip scans, and supplements
Why our boys are refusing to wash their hair.

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Am I a complete hypocrite if I champion pro-aging but still cover my greys? This week, I get honest about my own mental blocks with going grey and the irony of writing a feature for Woman & Home about embracing my age without ever touching Botox. Plus, I chat about the products I currently use to keep my skin in its best condition.
I hope you enjoy and see you next week!
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Mentorship Program: THE LAB

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It feels like every beauty brand is yelling at us about peptides right now. They’re promising "Botox in a bottle," instant youth, and total skin transformation. And in my 25+ years as a beauty editor, I've seen many ingredient trends come and go - some are a waste of time, but some are actually worth jumping on - and peptides definitely fall into the latter category.
So to break past the glossy marketing campaigns and get the real, clinical truth about peptides, I sat down with my brilliant friend and top dermatologist, Dr. Justine Kluk to find out what they actually are and how they actually work.
Here is a list of the products mentioned in this episode:
Medik8 Liquid Peptides My absolute go-to for high-tech skin smoothing and glow.
SkinCeuticals P-TIOX The formula Dr. Kluk loves. I don't buy that anything is Botox in a Bottle but after trying it for a few weeks I'm impressed with the glowy finish it gives my skin.
Beauty Pie Youthbomb™ 360° Radiance Concentrate This contains 18 skin-strengthening peptides to target dryness and firmness.
No7 Future Renew Damage Reversal UV Defence Shield SPF 50 Love this for everyday protection and peptide repair! It's a great makeup primer too.
Estée Lauder Advanced Night Repair This has been part of my skincare routine for years and the one I always recommend to my friends.

I'm also going to add this list to my website thebeautyed.com - don't forget to subscribe if you visit!
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