As your children grow into teenagers, knowing when to step back can be one of the hardest parts of parenting.
This week on The Netmums Podcast, Louise Burke and JB Gill are joined by Boyzone’s Shane Lynch and his wife Sheena, from ITV2’s The Real Housewives of Cheshire, as they share what family life really looks like behind the scenes while raising two teenage daughters.
From earning their own money to finding their own path, Shane and Sheena explain how they’re raising their girls to stay grounded – even while growing up in the spotlight. They talk about social media, teenage ambition and why boundaries still matter, even when they’re pushed.
They also share their honest take on the ‘nepo baby’ debate, and the reality behind the assumptions people make about their family life.
At the heart of the conversation is that shift so many parents recognise – moving from being hands-on to learning to let go. Sheena describes the hardest part of that transition as “fear”, admitting she’s the worrier at home, while Shane takes a more relaxed approach. Together, they reflect on what it really means to trust your teenagers, even when it’s not easy.
The couple also open up about their relationship, including their separation during lockdown and how they found their way back to each other. It’s an honest look at balancing marriage, work and family life, and what it takes to stay connected through change.
There are lighter moments too – from raising “girlie girls” and teenage humour to the reality of what comes next, including the thought of becoming empty nesters.
Warm, relatable and full of real-life takeaways, this episode is a reminder that raising teenagers isn’t about control – it’s about guidance, trust and, sometimes, having the courage to let go.
In this episode:
Raising grounded teens – independence, work ethic and values
Their thoughts on the ‘nepo baby’ debate
Letting go and trusting your teenagers to find their own way
Social media, smartphones and setting boundaries
Supporting ambition without creating entitlement
Parenting girls and navigating teenage dynamics
Keeping your relationship strong through change
Therapy, communication and modern family life
Honest advice for parents – from early years to teens
The Real Housewives of Cheshire is back on Tuesdays at 9pm on ITV2 and ITVX from next week
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