The UnSENsored Club Podcast

S2 Episode 1 – The SEN-Betweeners
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Some autistic and SEND kids are being missed completely - too complex for mainstream, but not “high needs” enough to qualify for the right support. I this episode we talk about the “SEN-Betweeners”
Series 2 kicks off with a raw, personal conversation about the children who fall through the cracks in education, healthcare, and everyday life. The term itself was coined by Lisa (with a little help from hubby Terry) for her book Raising the SEN-betweeners, and it has since struck a nerve with parents who know exactly what it means to be caught in the middle.
You’ll hear why this group is so often overlooked, why the “overdiagnosis” debate misses the point, and how children who don’t fit the neat boxes can end up struggling in silence. The discussion also unpacks the painful contrast between children with very visible support needs and those whose difficulties are easier to dismiss, even when they are just as real. The episode goes beyond labels and gets into the emotional reality for families living this every day. We break down how being misunderstood, pushed aside, or forced to cope in the wrong environment can shape a child’s mental health, confidence, and sense of belonging for years. If you’re a parent, carer, educator, or anyone who works with neurodivergent children, this is essential listening. It’s a conversation about visibility, vulnerability, and why some of the most vulnerable children are the ones most likely to be forgotten.

Show Notes
Episode 12 – The Uncensored UnSENsored Club - The most chaotic episode yet
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Series 1 Finale: This episode is completed unedited and unfiltered. You could say it’s “The Uncensored UnSENsored Club”. Partly because we thought it would be fun, partly because Hannah and Lisa bullied Chelle into it and partly because we run out of time to edit properly (we are SEN Mums guys, give us a break) As it’s the end of the series, we wanted to have a little bit of fun with it.
If you love messy real life, the kind of humour that could get you cancelled, and conversation that feels like you’ve just walked into a room with your besities, this one is for you.
The episode kicks off with zero polish and ends in utter chaos. Chelle has officially lost control of the podcast (and her dog) and the conversation spirals in the best way - into the realities of parenting, neurodivergence, family life, and the kind of roasting you can only get away with from true friends.
If you are fed up with podcast perfection, you are in luck, here’s your weekly reminder that we’re all winging it.  
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Show Notes
Episode 11- Fighting for SEN Sevices
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In this episode, we explore the exhausting reality of fighting for SEND support—from CAMHS rejections and EHCP battles to direct payments, nappies, and respite. The conversation moves between serious advocacy, practical next steps, and the emotional toll of constantly having to prove a child’s needs. We reflect on masking, non-verbal communication, and the limits of current services, with lighter moments about dogs, glamping, and the everyday chaos of family life.

Bonus Episode - Tragic elopement, safety fears, and practical tips for SEND parents
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This bonus episode is a raw conversation about the death of Noah Woods and the terrifying reality of elopement for SEND and autistic children. We share personal experiences of children getting out of the house or wandering off and the emotional impact, the guilt parents feel.
Key topics
The episode opens with a reaction to Noah Woods’ death and why it hit so hard for SEND parents.
Amelia, previously escaped through a garden padlocked gate, leading to panic and intense guilt.
Bobby, got out after a front door was left unlocked for just a few seconds, showing how quickly it can happen.
A zoo incident is discussed as another reminder that even with multiple adults present, children can disappear in a split second.
The conversation stresses that parents cannot rely only on vigilance from others and need systems in place for every possible exit.
Practical safety ideas include door alarms, keeping keys out of reach, Apple tags, and putting trackers in places the child is likely to keep on them.
A tip is shared about dressing children in bright, memorable clothing so responders can identify them quickly if they go missing.
We stress how parents should never feel embarrassed about reins, buggies, safety beds, or any tool that helps keep a child safe.
The episode ends by asking listeners to share any safety strategies that have worked for them.
Timestamps
00:00 - Why this bonus episode was recorded after Noah Woods’ death
00:57 - The heartbreak of a child eloping near water
01:26 - Why elopement is every SEND parent’s biggest fear
03:09 - Amelia’s escape through a garden gate
04:39 - The fear of not knowing where a child might go
05:44 - Using an Apple tag scrunchie as a safety layer
06:13 - Why trackers only help if the child keeps them on
06:43 - Bobby getting out after a door was left unlocked
07:43 - The Ring doorbell moment that still stays with them
08:38 - Why safety depends on more than just parents
09:38 - Door alarms, lanyards, and smart home alerts
10:09 - A zoo scare that showed how fast children vanish
11:07 - Why parks, ponds, and public spaces need better safety barriers
11:38 - Dressing children in bright clothes for faster identification
12:37 - Calling out the child’s clothing, not just their name
13:37 - Why reins and buggies should never be a source of shame
14:07 - What to do when your child has already escaped once
15:07 - Why children become better at unlocking doors as they grow
16:06 - Dealing with police when your child is autistic and non-verbal
16:36 - A useful tip about pre-registering a child’s details with police
17:06 - The controversial debate around microchipping or tracking
19:04 - Why the conversation is serious, not sensational
19:55 - Final advice for parents: use every safety tool you need
20:25 - Closing thoughts and invitation for listeners to share tips
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Episode 10 - Marriage, Parenthood, and Keeping a Relationship Alive When You’re SEND Parents
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In this episode, we talk candidly about how difficult it is to keep a marriage going when school runs, constant caregiving, burnout, and life admin take over everything. The conversation shifts from everyday chaos to the deeper reality of resentment, communication breakdowns, and what it takes to stay connected long term.
In this episode, we compare notes on the pressure of raising SEND children, the impact on relationships, and the way major life events can force a couple to confront what is and is not working. We also touch on menopause, sex, recovery after a heart attack, and the uncomfortable but honest realities of addiction and poor mental health.  
We are also joined by two special guests. Clair, who made the decision to have a sperm donor to fulfil her dream of being a mum, and Chelle’s husband Gavin, who has battled with gambling addiction and mental health.
 
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