Addiction Unlimited Podcast

Why January 1 Isn’t the Answer — and What Actually Moves You Forward It’s New Year’s Eve, and if you’re feeling that familiar pressure—that maybe-this-year-will-be-different energy—I want you to take a deep breath and listen up. Whether you’re planning to drink tonight (even though you don’t really want to), or you’re already sober but looking at 2026 like it’s some kind of test you have to pass… I see you. And here’s what I need you to know: You’re not broken. You’re not behind. You’re just in a stage. In today’s episode, I’m walking you through the Stages of Change—a professional framework used in psychology and addiction recovery that’s going to help you figure out exactly where you are in your journey. Because once you know your stage, you’ll know exactly what to do next. No more spinning your wheels. No more beating yourself up. Just clarity, action, and a path forward. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: The 5 stages are: Pre-Contemplation Contemplation Preparation Action Maintenance (Spoiler: If you’re listening to this podcast, you’re already past stage 1. But where are you really?) Why people get stuck in contemplation (and the one thing that moves you forward—hint: it’s not more research) The difference between preparation and action (and why support is the bridge between the two) Why January 1st isn’t going to save you (but action will) How to avoid burnout in maintenance (and why my 90-Day Focus Planner is built to help you actually make progress) 🎉Why This Episode Matters Right Now If you’ve been beating yourself up for “not having it figured out yet,” this episode is going to shift everything for you. You’re not failing. You’re not lacking willpower or motivation. You’re just doing the wrong work for the stage you’re in. And once you understand that? Everything changes. 🔗Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Dry January Bootcamp – 31 days of structure, support, and figuring out who you are without alcohol. 90-Day Focus Planner – Built for people who want to make real progress without burning out. Three goals at a time. Coaching with Angela – If you’re ready to stop effing around with starts and stops, book your consultation call and let’s get you the support you need. Join the Facebook Group

Healing, growth, and personal transformation — with or without a label. This episode is the final conversation in The Unlimited Life™ Starter Series —The 10 most powerful episodes from the Addiction Unlimited archives to help you rebuild your rhythm, structure, and emotional peace. And I saved this one for last for a reason. Because what Ian Morgan Cron and I talk about here goes beyond sobriety…Beyond addiction…Beyond labels. This is about transformation. The truth is, everyone has patterns.Whether it’s alcohol, perfectionism, food, control, or people-pleasing — we all have behaviors we use to cope.And the 12 steps offer a framework to heal the emotional root — not just the habit on the surface. You don’t have to be an alcoholic to feel overwhelmed.You don’t have to be a drug addict to crave peace.And you don’t need a label to want something more. This episode is your reminder that you belong in the work of healing — no matter how it looks on the outside. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why the 12 steps work for any human — not just those in addiction What it means to transform your character, not just your habits The truth about higher power — and why you might already have one without realizing it What to do when you feel like you’re “not sick enough” to belong How the 12-step framework helps with emotional sobriety, identity work, and deep personal growth In this episode, I sit down with Ian Morgan Cron, author of The Fix, to talk about how the 12 steps aren’t just for addicts — they’re for humans. 🔥 Links Mentioned: 🧠 Join the Dry January Bootcamp — Start your year with structure, clarity, and support 💬 Book a Call — For coaching, structure, and real transformation 📖 Ian’s Book: The Fix — How the 12 Steps Offer a Surprising Path of Transformation 🎧 Original episode post:→ addictionunlimited.com/healing-growth-and-freedom-the-12-steps-for-everyone

Exhausted from overthinking everything before you even start? You’re not alone. Well, my friend, I’m going to be really honest with you today – after 400+ episodes, I had absolutely no idea what to talk about for this one. And you know what? That’s actually the most honest thing I could share with you on Christmas Eve. Here’s the truth: Even after 20 years sober, I’m still an alcoholic. I still overthink everything. I still doubt myself. My brain still goes to worst-case scenarios sometimes. The only real difference between me and someone newer to recovery? I’ve had more practice—and I know that everything will be okay. So if you’re exhausted from trying to have it all figured out before you start, if you’re burnt out on constant self-improvement, or if you’re just… tired—this episode is for you. No five-step plan. No worksheets. Just real talk about what it actually looks like to show up when you don’t have all the answers. In this episode, you’ll hear all about: 00:13: Why I had no idea what to talk about today (and why that’s the most honest thing I could share) 02:30: What showing up actually looks like when you’re tired, confused, and a little bit lost 05:40: THE REAL WORK – How we burn through all our energy overthinking before we even start 07:34: Taking it one minute at a time with you, me, and my microphone 09:45: What long-term recovery actually looks like – not the absence of doubt, but the absence of panic about it Listen in, and remember: you’re allowed to just be tired. You’re allowed to not have the answers. And you’re allowed to show up anyway. Welcome to the club, my friend – you’re in great company. Links Mentioned in This Episode:  • Dry January Bootcamp – Facebook group opens next week! Get structure, support, and direction one day at a time.  addictionunlimited.com/bootcamp (VIP upgrade option available for weekly group coaching) • Book a Call with Angela – Tired of the BS? Tired of crying? Ready for real relief? Let’s talk about working together: addictionunlimited.com/call

Practical tools to manage stress, set boundaries, and stay sober during the most overwhelming time of year. In this episode, we’re talking about why the holiday season is such a perfect storm for stress, exhaustion, and relapse risk — and what actually helps you stay grounded, calm, and sober when everything feels like too much. This isn’t about “just don’t drink” or powering through with willpower. It’s about planning ahead, setting real boundaries, managing your energy, and protecting your sobriety like it actually matters — because it does. These tools are timeless and incredibly relevant right now — especially as we head into the final stretch of the year. HERE ARE THE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ Holiday Stress Isn’t the Problem — Lack of Planning Is The holidays don’t sneak up on us. They come at the same time every year. When you plan ahead — for your schedule, your energy, and your triggers — you dramatically reduce overwhelm and vulnerability. 2️⃣ Boundaries Are a Sobriety Tool, Not a Personality Flaw Boundaries around time, conversations, commitments, and how long you stay at events aren’t selfish — they’re how you stay regulated, present, and sober when stress is high. 3️⃣ Rest, Connection, and Support Are Non-Negotiable Sleep deprivation, emotional exhaustion, and isolation make cravings louder. Staying connected to your sober support and refueling your energy keeps you strong when willpower runs out. We’re days away from Christmas. If your energy is low and your stress is high, that doesn’t mean you’re failing — it means it’s time to slow down, simplify, and protect what matters most. Take what you learn today and use it. Planning, boundaries, rest, and connection aren’t optional extras. They’re how sobriety lasts. Links Mentioned in This Episode: 👉 Dry January Bootcamp If you’re done white-knuckling your way through the holidays and into January, Bootcamp gives you structure, support, and a clear plan to protect your sobriety and start the new year strong. 👉 Book a CallIf you want personalized support and clarity on next steps, book a call to talk through your options. 👉 Join the Free Facebook GroupConnect with others who get it — support, encouragement, and real conversations about sobriety.

If you’re a high-functioning drinker waiting for rock bottom to give you permission to quit, this episode will change everything. Most people think rock bottom is an external event—a DUI, job loss, or divorce. But that’s not what rock bottom actually is, and this misunderstanding is keeping you stuck in a cycle that never ends. In this episode, I break down the real meaning of rock bottom and why waiting for external proof is preventing you from taking action on what you already know. You’ll learn why comparing your life to other people’s disasters keeps you drinking longer, what to listen for in recovery meetings (hint: it’s not the external details), and why the question “Do I really need to quit?” is actually your answer. What You’ll Learn: Why high-functioning drinkers misunderstand rock bottom and how it keeps them stuck The “I’m not that bad” fallacy and why comparing external circumstances is the wrong measuring stick What rock bottom actually is (internal, not external) and why it changes everything How to recognize rock bottom moments before they become major disasters Why people who don’t have a drinking problem never wonder if they need to quit The real reason your brain keeps offering alcohol as a solution when things get uncomfortable How lowering the bar and rationalizing red flags keeps the cycle going Why you don’t need to wait for things to get worse to make a change Key Takeaways: Rock bottom is internal, not external. It’s not about what happens to you—it’s about the moment you realize you can’t live like this anymore, even if your life still looks good from the outside. You’re comparing the wrong things. When you compare your life to other people’s disasters, you’ll always feel like you’re “not that bad.” But when you compare your internal experience—the exhaustion, the mental gymnastics, the constant negotiation with yourself—that’s when you recognize the real problem. External events don’t create clarity—they force action. Most dramatic rock bottom moments are years in the making. There are a million smaller red flags that get rationalized away before the big event happens. You don’t have to wait for the big event. If you’re asking the question, that’s your answer. People without drinking problems never wonder if they need to quit. They don’t think about alcohol constantly, plan their days around it, or spend energy managing and moderating it. If you’re here listening to this, you already know. Episode Highlights: [00:12] The common misunderstanding about rock bottom that keeps high-functioning drinkers stuck [02:00] Why “I’m not that bad” only works if rock bottom is external (spoiler: it’s not) [05:50] The AA meeting trap: comparing external details instead of internal feelings [09:33] What rock bottom actually is: internal, emotional, and the moment you realize you can’t live like this anymore [11:00] My two-year rock bottom and why I waited so long to take action [14:42] If you want to wait until things get worse, they will (and here’s what that looks like) [16:30] The small red flags we rationalize away that lead to bigger disasters [17:50] A client’s rock bottom moment: choosing a drink over playing with his son [19:19] Why asking “Do I really need to quit?” is actually your answer [21:31] The takeaway: You already know. Stop waiting for permission. 🔗 Links Mentioned in This Episode 💥 Dry January Bootcamp (Free!) Get structure, support, and a clear plan to start your alcohol-free life with power. 👉 addictionunlimited.com/bootcamp 🎯 Book a Private Call Ready to stop screwing around and get real results? Let’s talk. 👉 addictionunlimited.com/call 🧣 Cozy Earth – My Favorite Gift to Give (and Receive!) Bedding + loungewear that calms and elevates your space. Use code ANGELA 👉 cozyearth.com