Chaos & Caffeine - ADHD Parenting Podcast

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Are screens actually rewiring your child’s brain… or are we just being dramatic?
In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, I sit down with Dr. Jane Shawcroft to break down what research actually says about screen time, social media, and kids — especially for children with ADHD.
Because here’s the reality no one is saying loud enough:
 ADHD brains are already wired for dopamine, novelty, and instant feedback… and today’s digital platforms are built to deliver exactly that.
So what happens when those two collide?
We dig into:
 ✔️ Whether social media is designed to be addictive for kids
 ✔️ Why ADHD children may be more vulnerable to problematic screen use
 ✔️ The long-term effects of early screen habits on behavior and mental health
 ✔️ What actually works for ADHD families when limiting screen time feels impossible
This is not about guilt.
 This is about understanding what your child is up against — and how to support them without losing your mind in the process.
If you’ve ever wondered why your child melts down when screens turn off…
 why focus feels harder after device time…
 or if you’re “doing screens wrong”…
This episode will change how you see it.
Connect with Dr. Shawcroft 👉 Media Across Development    
This Month's Sponsors:
📱 My Screen Coach
Helping families raise kids who can actually unplug. 
🧠 Social Thinking
Helping kids build the social and emotional skills that don’t always come naturally. 
🎲 Taco Cat Games
Helping ADHD families get off screens without triggering a full-blown meltdown… 
🌱 MaryRuth Organics
If you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. 
🛒 Insight Family Market
A thoughtfully curated marketplace created by an educator and parent who actually gets neurodivergent families. 
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📧 Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email us at [email protected].
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Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcast
Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.

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If screen time feels like it has a stronger grip on your child than you do… this episode is going to change the way you see everything.
Today on Chaos & Caffeine, I’m sitting down with clinical psychologist and globally recognized expert Dr. Jody Carrington to break down what’s actually happening in ADHD brains when it comes to screens, emotional regulation, and those next-level meltdowns that hit the second you say, “time to turn it off.”
Because this isn’t just about screen time.
 This is about nervous system regulation, connection, and why ADHD kids aren’t “addicted” to screens—they’re often using them to cope.
In this episode, we get into:
 Why ADHD kids struggle so hard to transition off screens 
 What’s happening in the brain during screen use (and why it feels impossible to compete) 
 The difference between screen “addiction” vs. emotional regulation 
 How dysregulation shows up as behavior—and what your child actually needs in those moments 
 Why connection beats control (and how to actually do that in real life) 
 What to do after a full-blown screen meltdown (without shame or punishment) 
 Practical ways to reduce screen battles in your home starting today 
If you’re exhausted from fighting the same screen-time battles on repeat…
 If you’ve ever thought, “Why does this feel so much harder for my kid?”
If you want real, science-backed strategies that actually work for ADHD families…
This conversation will hit different.
Connect with Dr. Jody 👉 Dr. Jody Carrington  
This Month's Sponsors:
📱 My Screen Coach
Helping families raise kids who can actually unplug. 
🧠 Social Thinking
Helping kids build the social and emotional skills that don’t always come naturally. 
🌱 MaryRuth Organics
If you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. 
🛒 Insight Family Market
A thoughtfully curated marketplace created by an educator and parent who actually gets neurodivergent families.  
Join Our Patreon and Find All of Our Faves! 
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Support the show
Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcast
Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.

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Screens aren’t the enemy. But they are replacing something our ADHD kids desperately need: real-world skill practice.
In this powerful kickoff episode of the Chaos & Caffeine Screens Campaign, Danielle sits down with internationally recognized social-cognitive specialist Michelle Garcia Winner, founder of Social Thinking and one of the leading experts in how children develop the invisible social skills that shape friendships, emotional regulation, and real-life success.
And when screens take up more and more of childhood, those practice opportunities quietly disappear.
In this conversation we unpack:
• The social thinking skills screens are quietly replacing
• Why ADHD kids struggle with flexible thinking, perspective taking, and reading the room
• How screen-heavy environments impact executive functioning and emotional regulation
• The gap between digital competence and real-world social confidence
• How parents can intentionally rebuild the skills that make friendships and conversations work
• Practical ways to coach social awareness, frustration tolerance, and flexible thinking at home
This conversation launches our Chaos & Caffeine Screens Campaign, where we explore the complex relationship between screens and neurodivergent brains — not from a place of panic, but from a place of strategy.
Connect with Michelle 👉 Social Thinking   
This Month's Sponsors:
📱 My Screen Coach
Helping families raise kids who can actually unplug. 
🧠 Social Thinking
Helping kids build the social and emotional skills that don’t always come naturally. 
🎲 Taco Cat Games
Helping ADHD families get off screens without triggering a full-blown meltdown… 
🌱 MaryRuth Organics
If you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. 
🛒 Insight Family Market
A thoughtfully curated marketplace created by an educator and parent who actually gets neurodivergent families. 
Join Our Patreon and Find All of Our Faves! 
📧 Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email us a
Support the show
Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcast
Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.

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If asking your ADHD child to turn off screens feels like lighting a match near a gasoline can… you’re not imagining it.
For many neurodivergent kids, screen time isn’t just entertainment. It’s a dopamine firehose, which means stopping can trigger emotional explosions, power struggles, and daily family conflict.
And if you’ve ever wondered…
• Why screens are so hard for ADHD brains to walk away from
 • Why timers, limits, and parental controls often fail
 • Why screen battles can take over your entire household
 • And how to actually reset your family’s relationship with technology
…this episode is for you.
Today on Chaos & Caffeine, Danielle sits down with Stephanie and Peter Kakris, founders of ScreenCoach — a system designed to help families turn screen time from a daily fight into something kids earn through real-world activities like movement, creativity, chores, and learning.
Stephanie brings a background in psychology and behavior change, while Peter is a serial tech entrepreneur who has spent his career building software that solves real-world problems.
But ScreenCoach didn’t start in a lab.
It started in their own home — trying to solve the same screen battles millions of parents are fighting right now.
Connect with Peter & Stephanie 👉 Social Thinking   
This Month's Sponsors:
📱 My Screen Coach
Helping families raise kids who can actually unplug. 
🧠 Social Thinking
Helping kids build the social and emotional skills that don’t always come naturally. 
🎲 Taco Cat Games
Helping ADHD families get off screens without triggering a full-blown meltdown… 
🌱 MaryRuth Organics
If you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. 
🛒 Insight Family Market
A thoughtfully curated marketplace created by an educator and parent who actually gets neurodivergent families. 
Join Our Patreon and Find All of Our Faves! 
📧 Have questions or ideas for future episodes? Email us at [email protected].
Support the show
Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcast
Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.

Join Our Patreon and Find All of Our Faves!
Screens aren’t the enemy. But they are replacing something our ADHD kids desperately need: real-world skill practice.
In this powerful kickoff episode of the Chaos & Caffeine Screens Campaign, Danielle sits down with internationally recognized social-cognitive specialist Michelle Garcia Winner, founder of Social Thinking and one of the leading experts in how children develop the invisible social skills that shape friendships, emotional regulation, and real-life success.
And when screens take up more and more of childhood, those practice opportunities quietly disappear.
In this conversation we unpack:
• The social thinking skills screens are quietly replacing
• Why ADHD kids struggle with flexible thinking, perspective taking, and reading the room
• How screen-heavy environments impact executive functioning and emotional regulation
• The gap between digital competence and real-world social confidence
• How parents can intentionally rebuild the skills that make friendships and conversations work
• Practical ways to coach social awareness, frustration tolerance, and flexible thinking at home
This conversation launches our Chaos & Caffeine Screens Campaign, where we explore the complex relationship between screens and neurodivergent brains — not from a place of panic, but from a place of strategy.
Because the goal isn’t to eliminate screens.
The goal is to strengthen the skills our kids need to thrive in the real world.
Connect with Michelle 👉 Social Thinking   
This Month's Sponsors:
📱 My Screen Coach
Helping families raise kids who can actually unplug. 
🧠 Social Thinking
Helping kids build the social and emotional skills that don’t always come naturally. 
🎲 Taco Cat Games
Helping ADHD families get off screens without triggering a full-blown meltdown… 
🌱 MaryRuth Organics
If you’ve got a kid who treats vegetables like a personal enemy, MaryRuth Organics might become your new best friend. 
🛒 Insight Family Market
A thoughtfully curated marketplace created by an educator and parent who actually gets neurodivergent families. 

Support the show
Danielle is the host of Chaos & Caffeine, a fast-growing ADHD parenting podcast where she interviews leading psychologists, clinicians, researchers, and neurodivergent advocates about what actually helps ADHD kids thrive in the real world. Through science-backed conversations and very real mom-in-the-trenches storytelling, the show helps parents navigate executive function challenges, emotional regulation struggles, learning differences, and the everyday chaos of raising neurodivergent kids.
Each week, Danielle translates complex ADHD research into practical tools parents can actually use — from building routines that support developing brains to helping kids strengthen focus, flexibility, and self-regulation skills.
Listen to the podcast and explore expert interviews at:
https://linktr.ee/chaosandcaffeinepodcast
Danielle frequently speaks and writes about ADHD parenting strategies, executive function development, emotional regulation, screen use and attention, learning challenges like dyslexia, and building resilient neurodivergent families.