Happiest Girl in the Room A.K.A Happiest Diaries

Hey people! I’m finally embracing it! Moving from audio to video! This is my very first try, so let me know what you think!If you’re new here, I’m Ayodele Alabi, God’s Minister ofJoy. Through The Happiest Girl in the Room podcast (also known as the Happiest Diaries), I share stories, scripture, and soul lessons that remind us that joy is a fruit of the Spirit, not a mood. Here, we laugh, we heal, and we grow together. Welcome to The Happiest Girl in the Room Video Podcast! 💙

You can probably hear it in my voice - the heaviness, the fatigue. But also the peace of someone leaning on God to hold her up. This episode is me being honest, vulnerable, and in the moment. If you’ve been feeling that same heaviness at work, I believe it’s one you need to hear. I hope this conversation helps you breathe again and remember, you’re not carrying it alone.

Being there for someone isn’t always neat. Sometimes it looks like giving space. Sometimes it means loving without agreeing. This week on the podcast, I share how to hold both truth and compassion when someone you love pulls away; or makes choices you don’t understand. Romans 12:15 reminds us: ‘Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.’

We’ve all had “Peter moments”. Those times when we stepped out in faith, started strong, but the storms of life made us shift our gaze. In this episode of Happiest Diaries, I reflect on Matthew 14:28-31 and what Peter’s story teaches us about obedience, focus, and God’s grace when we stumble.If you’ve ever felt like you’re sinking under pressure, doubt, or comparison, this episode is for you. Let’s learn how to keep our eyes on Jesus; the One who called us and is always ready to lift us up.

Today’s episode, ‘Can Two Walk Together?’, explores the dynamics of friendship; what happens when the love and effort you give isn’t reciprocated. Anchored in Amos 3:3, we’ll unpack the pain of one-sided friendships, the lessons they leave behind, and how to release them with peace while making room for the kind of mutual, God-aligned connections we all deserve.