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• Listening, Leadership, and Communication from a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu Legend | Chris Haueter | Ep. 132

  In this episode, we dive into the powerful journey of Chris Haueter, a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu legend, as he shares hard-earned insights on overcoming stuttering, the influence of word choice, and the importance of empathy in leadership and communication. We explore the distinction between teaching and coaching, the need for humility, and the value of pattern recognition without getting stuck in assumptions. Discover how embracing a student’s mindset and adapting to change can bring deeper understanding and success in both personal and professional circles.Timestamps: (00:00) - Michael Reddington introduces Chris Haueter, sharing his jiu jitsu background.(03:27) - Chris Haueter discusses lifelong stuttering and its impact.(05:12) - Exploring nature vs. nurture and overcoming personal challenges.(10:01) - Childhood experiences and lessons about the power of words.(12:30) - Using physicality when words fail and the importance of finding balance.(20:10) - Remaining a student and guarding against arrogance.(23:03) - Differences between teaching and coaching.(33:22) - Empathetic coaching for both beginners and advanced students.(41:01) - Focus on human connection over petty concerns.(53:07) - Learning from non-English-speaking teachers and jiu jitsu as a universal language.Links and Resources:Chris & Melissa Haueter's Combat Base | BJJ Videos | ApparelSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

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• Eliciting Truth: Interrogation Expert Busts Communication Myths | David Thompson | Ep. 131

  In this episode, we dive into the powerful world of investigative interviewing and business communication with expert Dave Thompson. We uncover the most common myths and misconceptions that derail conversations and reveal proven strategies for building genuine rapport, gathering reliable information, and driving better outcomes. Exploring the roles of empathy, listening, and effective questioning, we learn how to elevate our leadership and communication skills in any setting. Timestamps: (00:06) - Michael Reddington welcomes back David Thompson and introduces the episode.(02:00) - Michael Reddington explains the goal of obtaining more information, not just catching lies.(06:20) - David Thompson identifies myths derailing communication and interviews.(08:00) - David Thompson debunks the myth that good communicators talk the most.(11:37) - Michael Reddington explains how great leaders focus on listening.(17:15) - David Thompson discusses the power of empathy and why it's strategic, not soft.(25:43) - David Thompson illustrates why behavior alone doesn't detect lies.(35:00) - David Thompson reveals how pressure creates compliant—not reliable—answers.(48:09) - Michael Reddington urges turning down the temperature in high-stress conversations.(51:03) - David Thompson stresses changing the goal from confession to gathering reliable information.Links and Resources:Part 1 - Truthbetoldpodcast5 Communication Myths We Need to Stop Believing: From Interrogations to the Boardroom with Michael Reddington, CFI - Home - Wicklander-ZulawskiTruth Be ToldInternational Association of InterviewersDavid Thompson, CFI | LinkedInSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

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• Listening, Interviewing, and Communication Techniques (Forensic Linguist) | Luna Filipovic | Ep. 130

  In this episode, we have the pleasure of exploring the science and strategy behind effective investigative interviewing and high-impact conversations with forensic linguist Dr. Luna Filipovic. We examine the powerful effects of language choice, cultural context, and question structure on truth-telling, memory, and cooperation in both legal and everyday scenarios. Together, we uncover actionable insights for improving accuracy and efficiency in any conversation, from business negotiations to personal interactions. Join us as we learn how to adapt our communication to foster trust, gather critical information, and avoid costly misunderstandings in this value-packed episode.Timestamps: (00:00) - Introducing Dr. Luna Filipovic, forensic linguist and UC Davis professor.(03:32) - Dr. Filipovic explains why people choose to open up and talk.(06:41) - Discussing the risks and consequences of silence in interviews.(09:01) - Impact of language and context on memory and communication accuracy.(13:49) - Key considerations when interviewing bilingual individuals.(18:38) - The importance of using trained interpreters in investigations.(25:00) - Exploring the problems with complex and negative questions.(33:26) - Differences between confession-seeking and information-seeking approaches.(41:01) - How cultural backgrounds affect communication and witness responses.(50:37) - Balancing efficiency and accuracy in language techniques and interviews.Links and Resources:Home - TACIT Luna Filipovic | LinkedInSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

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• Build Self-Confidence & Meaningful Relationships: The Formula Revealed | Zoey Charif | Ep. 129

  In this episode, we dive into the fascinating intersection of data analytics and emotions with guest Zoey Charif, exploring her unique framework for calculating love and relationship success. We learn how self worth, values, and personality traits shape both romantic and professional relationships, and discover practical strategies for fostering self awareness and making healthier decisions. Through real-life stories and proven research, we uncover actionable insights that empower us to build stronger connections with ourselves and others. Join us as we unlock the formula for meaningful relationships and personal fulfillment in this thought-provoking conversation.Timestamps: (00:00) - Introducing Zoey Charif and the concept of calculating love.(04:13) - Zoey Charif explains her framework for matching and admiration.(06:12) - Self worth is calculated through personal values.(09:38) - Importance of normalizing being single and building self worth.(11:00) - Self worth impacts all relationships, including business and community.(13:05) - Optimist and critic personalities affect relationship scores.(17:05) - Self awareness helps balance between optimism and criticism.(22:00) - Matching and mismatching values in relationships discussed.(27:04) - Attraction versus compatibility as key relationship drivers.(39:28) - Staying out of extremes and working on self score is essential for fulfillment.Links and Resources:Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated: Charif, Zoey Home | Love CanSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

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• Evidence-Based Self-Regulation Skills for Teens & Adults | Dr. Kathy Wu | Ep. 128

  In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Kathy Wu to explore the transformative power of self-regulation and resilience in both teens and adults. We discover practical, evidence-based strategies for managing emotions, building stronger relationships, and fostering personal growth—whether we're parents, leaders, or simply looking to better understand ourselves. With insights grounded in real-life experiences and proven therapeutic approaches, we uncover the value of shifting from control to curiosity, engaging in empathic confrontation, and leveraging problems as powerful opportunities to grow. Walk away with actionable tools to positively impact your home, work, and community conversations.Timestamps: (00:06) - Introducing Dr. Kathy Wu and highlighting her background.(01:03) - Explaining the philosophy: problems as opportunities to grow.(04:13) - How challenges foster self-reflection and resilience.(08:19) - Tools for managing frustration and understanding emotions.(11:07) - Self-regulation as a lifelong process and muscle to flex.(13:04) - Overview of evidence-based modalities: CBT, ACT, and DBT.(17:19) - Importance of developing interpersonal skills and active listening.(22:14) - Practicing empathic confrontation and listening without judgment.(27:38) - Helping teenagers build self-regulation and validating emotions.(45:45) - Strategies for healthy technology use and family relationships.Links and Resources:The Self-Regulation Handbook for Teens and Young Adults: A Trauma-Informed Guide to Fostering Personal Resilience and Enhancing Interpersonal Skills Counseling | Dr. Kathy Wu | United StatesSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

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