Pastors' Wives Tell All

Ministry teaches you a lot about endurance—but it also teaches you about discernment.

In this episode, we share an important conversation we’ve spent a lot of time praying through. It’s one we didn’t arrive at quickly or lightly, but one that came through unity, clarity, and a deep trust in God’s leading.

We talk honestly about calling, capacity, and what faithfulness looks like when God invites you to respond differently than you expected. This episode includes a meaningful announcement, along with reflections on obedience, grief, gratitude, and hope for what God is still doing—both now and in the future.

If you’ve ever found yourself navigating a transition you didn’t see coming, or wondering how to follow God when the next step requires letting go, this conversation is for you.

Thank you for listening, walking with us, and trusting us with your hearts in this space.

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:
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JESSICA:
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Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠
Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this short and spirited episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we’re talking about one surprisingly divisive topic: thrifting.

Some of us absolutely love the hunt—the thrill of a good deal and the satisfaction of a hidden gem. Others thrift out of sheer necessity, stretching budgets and making things work in real life and ministry. And then there are those of us who walk into a thrift store and feel… completely overwhelmed.

With plenty of laughter and honest banter, we share our different relationships with thrifting, how personality and season of life play into it, and why something as simple as shopping secondhand can bring out strong opinions. No deep theology here—just real life, real laughs, and the reminder that we’re all wired differently.

Whether you’re a seasoned thrifter, a reluctant bargain-hunter, or someone who prefers to walk right back out, you’ll feel seen in this one.

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:
https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat

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⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠

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Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠
Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠

JESSICA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠
Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

What if the very things disrupting your life are actually part of God’s invitation?

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, we have an honest, relatable conversation about inconvenience—the kind that sneaks into ministry, parenting, marriage, and personal growth. From interrupted schedules to stretched capacities, we explore how calling often requires adjustments we didn’t plan for and structures we didn’t ask to change.

We talk candidly about how home life is not separate from ministry—it is ministry—and why embracing inconvenience can actually open the door to unexpected blessing, deeper growth, and renewed spiritual focus. Along the way, we unpack the danger of an all-or-nothing mindset, the role of self-control in sustaining long-term faithfulness, and why sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is return to the basics.

If you’ve been feeling stretched, distracted, or quietly resentful of how “inconvenient” obedience has become, this episode is for you.

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:
https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat

To purchase the BOOK, head here: 
⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠

To shop our MERCH, head here: 
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Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠
Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠

JESSICA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠
Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

In this episode of Pastors’ Wives Tell All, the hosts share exciting details about an upcoming women’s retreat created specifically for women in ministry—and not just pastors’ wives. With honesty and enthusiasm, they unpack the heart behind the retreat: creating a space where women who serve can finally exhale, be understood, and be poured into.

Scheduled for April 17–19, 2026, in Frazier’s Bottom, West Virginia, this retreat is designed as a true “come away” experience. The hosts talk about the importance of stepping away from everyday responsibilities to reconnect with Jesus, build meaningful relationships, and engage in conversations that are both life-giving and real.

Listeners will hear about what to expect—from small group discussions that foster deep connection, to fun games and activities that break the ice and spark laughter, to intentional moments for reflection and spiritual renewal. Above all, the retreat is about reminding women in ministry that they are not alone and that community is not a luxury—it’s a necessity.

This episode invites women to rest, reconnect, and rediscover joy alongside others who truly understand the unique challenges of ministry life.

Retreat Details
Dates: April 17–19, 2026
Location: Frazier’s Bottom, West Virginia
Who It’s For: Women in ministry (not just pastors’ wives)

Apply Here: https://pastors-wives-tell-all.churchcenter.com/people/forms/1069294

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:
https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat

To purchase the BOOK, head here: 
⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠

To shop our MERCH, head here: 
⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠

Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron: 
⁠https://www.patreon.com/pastorswivestellall ⁠⁠

SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

CONTACT US: 
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FOLLOW US:
Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠
Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠

JESSICA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠
Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠

After a short break, the hosts of Pastors’ Wives Tell All reconnect to reflect on the new year, the weight of calling, and the miraculous ways God continues to show up. 

In this heartfelt episode, they pull back the curtain on the emotional highs and lows of running a nonprofit and trusting God with both the pressure and the provision.
The conversation centers around Come Away Missions and the work God is doing in Rwanda—often in ways no one could have planned. 

Jessica shares a powerful testimony about a dream that unexpectedly led to a significant financial provision, reminding listeners that God’s timing is rarely our own, but always intentional.

As the hosts open up about the vulnerability of fundraising, the temptation to carry pressure that doesn’t belong to them, and the role of prayer-filled community, this episode becomes a reminder that faith is often built dot by dot—only making sense in hindsight.

Listeners are encouraged to stay steadfast, trust God’s promises, and not miss the moments when He shows up in miraculous ways.

Key Takeaways
God often provides in unexpected and deeply personal ways
The pressure of calling doesn’t belong to us—it belongs to the Lord
Community and prayer are essential when faith feels stretched
God’s timing connects dots we can’t see in the moment
Miracles aren’t always loud—but they are always purposeful

Get all the info about our next pastors’ wives retreat and apply here:
https://www.pastorswivestellall.com/attendaretreat

To purchase the BOOK, head here: 
⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/book⁠⁠

To shop our MERCH, head here: 
⁠https://pastorswivestellall.com/shop⁠⁠

Want to support the Pastors’ Wives Tell All podcast ministry? Become a patron: 
⁠https://www.patreon.com/pastorswivestellall ⁠⁠

SUBSCRIBE: ⁠Sign up⁠ for our email list and receive updates on new episodes, free gifts, and all the fun! Email sign up ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

CONTACT US: 
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FOLLOW US:
Website: ⁠⁠pastorswivestellall.com⁠⁠
Instagram: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@pastorswivestellall⁠⁠

JESSICA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jessica_taylor_83⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@come_away_missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@do_good_project__⁠⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠
Websites: ⁠⁠Do Good Project⁠⁠, ⁠⁠Come Away Missions⁠⁠

JENNA:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@jennaallen⁠⁠, ⁠⁠@jennaallendesign⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠@JennaAllenDesign⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Jenna Allen Design⁠⁠

STEPHANIE:
Instagram: ⁠⁠@msstephaniegilbert⁠⁠
Facebook: ⁠⁠I Literally LOL⁠⁠
Website: ⁠⁠Stephanie Gilbert⁠