Overcome Pornography for Good

What if the way you’ve been approaching your sexuality has been keeping you stuck? In this second episode of a three-part series on befriending your sexuality, I explain why most strategies fail and how a shame-based internal operating system filters your experiences, preventing meaningful change.

I share why treating sexual urges like something to eliminate or control keeps you trapped, and how recognizing and working with your sexuality instead of against it is essential. We explore the difference between shame and guilt, why a worthy-based operating system transforms how you show up in life, and how understanding these dynamics can change your relationship with yourself and others.

You’ll learn why a shame-based operating system keeps you striving without satisfaction, how guilt and shame affect your choices and behaviors, and how a new live program can guide you to apply these principles step by step to build a healthier, more empowered relationship with your sexuality.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/thing-required-befriend-your-sexuality
Mentioned in this episode:
FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped
Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer.

When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT

Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass
Grab your spot for this live class here!

What if the way you thought about quitting porn was holding you back? In this first episode of a three-part series, I explore common misconceptions about quitting pornography and why the strategies most people rely on often create more struggle than progress.

I share why trying to push urges away, relying on willpower, or treating pornography like a smoking habit or addiction keeps you stuck. When you start to understand your sexual urges as natural biological impulses rather than something to eliminate, you can shift your approach and begin to work with your sexuality instead of against it.

You’ll learn why these misconceptions prevent lasting change, how curiosity and intentional practices help you navigate your urges more effectively, and how a new 12-week live program can guide you step by step to apply these principles and build a healthier relationship with your sexuality.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/got-wrong-about-quitting-porn

Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass
Mentioned in this episode:
FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped
Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer.

When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT

Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass
Grab your spot for this live class here!

Do you feel like lasting change is impossible after years of struggle with pornography? In this episode, Sam shares his story of decades of challenges, including trying a 12-step program and thinking marriage would fix the problem. He explains how shifting to a new approach helped him regain control and experience a level of freedom he hadn’t thought was possible.

Sam walks through the turning points in his journey, from early struggles with shame and willpower cycles to breakthroughs that came through focusing on meaningful milestones and practical strategies. He highlights how addressing challenges in other areas of life transformed his confidence, relationships, and ability to navigate urges effectively.

You’ll learn why focusing on measurable progress rather than just time without porn creates meaningful change, how addressing life challenges outside of pornography accelerates growth, and how curiosity and intentional action helped Sam finally make lasting progress.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/whats-possible-with-sam

Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass
Mentioned in this episode:
FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped
Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer.

When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT

Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass
Grab your spot for this live class here!

Do you feel shame about your sexual thoughts or desires while trying to quit pornography? In this episode, I explore why sexual shame often causes more harm than pornography itself and how you can move past it to quit porn in a sex-positive, shame-free way.

You’ll learn how to separate natural sexual feelings from moral judgment, recognize that your thoughts do not define your worth, and approach your sexuality with curiosity instead of condemnation. This episode will help you reduce sexual shame and create a healthier, more empowered relationship with your sexual self as you work to quit pornography.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/overcoming-sexual-shame-quitting-porn

Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass
Mentioned in this episode:
FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped
Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer.

When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT

Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass
Grab your spot for this live class here!

What can improv teach you about overcoming pornography? In this episode, coach Kat Jenkins shares how the principles of improv can be applied to quitting porn and navigating the challenges that come with it. Using rules from improv, she shows how you can change your responses, build trust with yourself, and create better outcomes in your journey.

Kat walks through nine core improv rules and explains how each can support progress. From saying yes and being a good listener to finding your team, taking up space, and understanding who holds the power in a situation, these strategies help can help you approach your urges with curiosity and intentionality rather than avoidance or shame.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/rules-improv-quitting-porn-kat

Click here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://www.centerforovercoming.com/freeclass
Mentioned in this episode:
FREE TRAINING on June 24: Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped
Everything You Were Taught About Quitting Porn Kept You Trapped - Once you see why, you can finally break the cycle and feel free again. Free Live Q&A with Sara Brewer.

When: June 24th, 2026 – 6:00pm MDT

Register here: https://overcome-pornography-for-good.captivate.fm/liveclass
Grab your spot for this live class here!