Looking for love or navigating the modern dating world? We've got just the thing! How to Date is your ultimate guide to the highs, lows, and everything in between of modern romance. Hosted by broadcaster and author Elizabeth Day and relationship expert Mel Schilling, this podcast masterclass dives deep into the complexities of finding connection in today’s world.
Whether you're decoding dating apps, breaking old patterns, or building confidence, Elizabeth and Mel are here to help—with humour, honesty, and expert advice. Featuring candid conversations with fascinating guests, you'll learn how to spot red flags, avoid communication pitfalls, cope with rejection, and even find love that's truly worthy of you. Plus, practical tips and exercises make this a must-listen for anyone looking to date with confidence and self-worth.
After all, the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with yourself.
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Do you have a critical inner voice? Plus forgotten actors enjoying a renaissance and your questions answered - SHRINK THE INBOX
For the last episode of this season, team STB gets real with those pesky inner monologues (as promised in the Carrie: Sex and the City episode). Plus, what's the connection between 80s comedy-thriller Lovejoy and The Matrix? We explore actors who have come back from obscurity with aplomb.
We want to hear about any theories we might have missed, what you’ve thought of the show so far and your character suggestions. Please drop the team an email (which may be part of the show): shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
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51:18
CARRIE BRADSHAW – How to fight the patriarchy and stop obsessing over relationships – SHRINK THE BOX
In our final character episode of this season, we put Carrie from Sex and the City on the couch. Nemone looks at why Sex and the City hasn’t aged well, and Ben talks about diversity in the privileged, white world of the show. We get into Carrie’s shopping habit, low self-esteem, and why everyone in the show is SO obsessed with relationships, even though the women really have no need for them. We also get a primer on the Bechdel test, and how you can tell if a show is sexist without knowing it. And if you want to check out more on the patriarchy and diversity, have a listen to our episodes on Sydney from The Bear.
We want to hear about any theories we might have missed, what you’ve thought of the show so far and your character suggestions. Please drop the team an email (which may be part of the show): shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
Find how to view the shows we’ve talked about here.
CREDITS
We used clips from episodes of Sex and the City. It’s available to watch on NOWTV/SKY.
Starring:
Sarah Jessica Parker – Carrie Bradshaw
Cynthia Nixon – Miranda Hobbs
Kim Cattrall – Samatha Jones
Kristin Davis – Charlotte York
Created by:
Darren Star
Candace Bushnell
Directed by:
Susan Seidalman
Nicole Holofcener
Alison Maclean
Michael Fields
Darren Star
Produced by:
Darren Star
Michael Patrick King
John P. Melfi
Jenny Bicks
Sarah Jessica Parker
Cindy Chupack
We would love to hear your theories: shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
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51:57
JACKSON LAMB in SLOW HORSES: Do spies make the best therapists? – SHRINK THE BOX
Ben and Nemone put Jackson Lamb from Slow Horses on the couch. Gary Oldman’s version of Mick Herron’s character has become household name, and you can see why. A man with many layers, a million secrets, and a lightning rod for other’s emotions – perhaps he is the perfect Freudian analyst. Nemone gives us a crash course in transference and counter-transference, looks at why people mask and create false selves, and what drives people into a career where they hide their true selves from everyone, including themselves.
This is the PERFECT watching companion to Season 4 of Slow Horses, coming 4th September on AppleTV+!
And if you want to look at false selves, then listen back to our episode on The Morning Show’s Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon.
We want to hear about any theories we might have missed, what you’ve thought of the show so far and your character suggestions. Please drop the team an email (which may be part of the show): shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
NEXT CLIENTS ON THE COUCH. Find out how to view here
Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)
CREDITS
We used clips from Season 1 of Slow Horses. It’s available to watch on AppleTV+.
Starring:
Gary Oldman - Jackson Lamb
Jack Lowden - River Cartwright
Kristin Scott Thomas - Diana Taverner
Saskia Reeves - Catherine Standish
Rosalind Eleazar - Louisa Guy
Christopher Chung - Roddy Ho
Created by:
Mick Herron
Will Smith
Directed by:
James Hawes
Jeremy Lovering
Saul Metzstein
Produced by:
Iain Canning
Hakan Kousetta
Jamie Laurenson
Gail Mutrux et al.
We would love to hear your theories: shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
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49:55
CAPTAIN HOLT of BROOKLYN 99: Neurodiverse, gay and battling racism – SHRINK THE BOX
Ben and Nemone put Raymond Holt on the couch. We look at how this trailblazing policeman (the first black, gay police captain in the force) stands out from the rest of the precinct. We learn how family dynamics inform behaviour and what it takes to be a great leader. Nemone looks at a diagnosis of ASD or Asperger’s Syndrome for the captain, and Ben gives a heartwarming tribute to the great actor who played him, André Braugher.
We want to hear about any theories we might have missed, what you’ve thought of the show so far and your character suggestions. Please drop the team an email (which may be part of the show): shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
NEXT CLIENTS ON THE COUCH. Find out how to view here
Jackson Lamb, Slow Horses (Season 1)
Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City (selected episodes)
CREDITS
We used clips from episodes of Brooklyn 99. It’s available to watch on Netflix.
Starring:
Andy Samberg - Jacob "Jake" Peralta
Stephanie Beatriz - Rosa Diaz
Terry Crews - Terrence "Terry" JeffordsMelissa Fumero - Amy Santiago
Joe Lo Truglio - Charles Boyle
Chelsea Peretti - Regina "Gina" Linetti
Andre Braugher - Raymond Holt
Dirk Blocker as Michael Hitchcock and Joel McKinnon Miller as Norm Scully
Created by:
Dan Goor
Michael Schur
Directed by:
Craig Zisk
Julie Ann Robinson
Troy Miller
Dean Holland
Jason Ensler
Produced by:
Dan Goor
Michael Schur
David Miner
Phil Lord
Christopher Miller (both; pilot)
Luke Del Tredici
David Phillips
We would love to hear your theories: shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
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Ever wondered why Frasier Crane is such a snob?
How Tyrion Lannister’s bawdy humour saves him in Game of Thrones?
What makes Schitts Creek’s Moira Rose a narcissist?
‘Shrink the Box’ is where actor comedian Ben Bailey Smith and psychotherapist Nemone Metaxas put their favourite fictional characters such Tommy from Peaky Blinders and Sydney from The Bear on the couch - to analyse why their behaviour causes them so much drama.
Nemone and Ben explore why these characters make certain decisions, what would happen if they made different ones and what we can learn from their mistakes. The perfect combination of psychology, self-help and the best TV since the birth of the box-set.
We would love to hear your theories: shrinkthebox@sonymusic.com
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