1100 - Why Self-Control Is The New Status Symbol For Men
25/02/2026 | 11 mins.
In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the evolving perception of masculinity and status in contemporary culture. He argues that self-control has emerged as a new status symbol, contrasting sharply with the traditional notions of excess and indulgence. Sathiya emphasizes that while society has celebrated consumption and indulgence, true strength lies in the ability to exercise restraint. He draws on biblical references, particularly the life of King Solomon, to illustrate the pitfalls of excess and the importance of self-control in achieving emotional maturity and leadership.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Introduction to Self-Control as a Status Symbol
(02:25) The Pitfalls of Excess and Indulgence
(05:01) The Conditioning of Impulsivity in Men
(07:29) Self-Control as a Fruit of the Spirit
(09:48) Integrating Spirituality for Personal Growth
1099 - Jay Stringer: Porn Is Hijacked Desire (Here’s How to Reclaim It)
23/02/2026 | 1h 18 mins.
In this conversation, Sathiya and Jay Stringer explore the concept of desire, challenging the common belief that it is a problem. They discuss how desire can be a source of healing, intimacy, and personal growth. Jay introduces his framework of five core desires—wholeness, personal growth, intimacy, pleasure, and meaning—and emphasizes the importance of navigating critical periods in life with intention and support from community and elders. The discussion highlights the diagnostic nature of desire and its role in revealing areas of personal development, ultimately advocating for a healthier relationship with desire as a means to flourish in life.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Why Most Christians Fear Desire
(04:10) The “Holy Man” Inside Your Addiction
(07:00) You Don’t Have Too Much Desire — You Have Too Little Formation
(11:00) Why Porn Isn’t Random
(14:45) The 5 Core Desires That Shape Your Life
(23:45) The Provisional Self: Who You Became to Survive
(30:40) Midlife Chrysalis: When Your Identity Starts Cracking
(35:15) Why Recovery Can Leave Men Depressed
(38:00) How to Decode the Season You’re In
(45:15) Marriage Isn’t Broken — It’s Revealing You
(49:30) Finding Your “Bell” (What Makes You Come Alive)
(1:06:45) Critical Periods: Windows for Reinvention
(1:10:00) The Role of Elders & Rites of Passage
1098 - Why So Many Worship Leaders (and Christian Men) Secretly Struggle With Sexual Sin
20/02/2026 | 15 mins.
Sexual sin among worship leaders and Christian men isn’t proof that faith doesn’t work — it’s proof that isolation does. In this episode, Sathiya Sam explains how pressure, access, and identity distortion create secrecy, even in devoted leaders. Drawing from personal experience, he shows why spiritual activity alone can’t heal unaddressed wounds and why honest brotherhood, rooted identity, and accountability are essential for lasting freedom.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Why sexual sin among Christian leaders isn’t hypocrisy
(01:10) My story as a worship leader addicted to porn
(02:48) The pressure and expectations of worship leadership
(04:20) Gifting ≠ emotional maturity
(05:40) Suppressed doubt, isolation, and deconstruction
(07:05) The invisible triangle: access, isolation, identity
(08:55) When identity outpaces honesty, secrecy grows
(10:10) Why spiritual activity doesn’t prevent sexual sin
(11:35) You can’t out-serve unhealed wounds
(12:40) What actually protects Christian leaders
(13:50) Confession before collapse
1097 - Halfway Holiness Won’t Survive 2026
18/02/2026 | 12 mins.
In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the urgent need for intentionality in pursuing holiness in a world increasingly filled with distractions and temptations. He emphasizes that drifting into a holy life is no longer an option, as modern life actively pulls individuals away from spiritual integrity. Sathiya argues that true holiness requires full surrender to God, intentional resistance against temptation, and a complete dependence on divine strength. He reflects on how previous generations had a cultural reinforcement of faith that is now lacking, making it essential for individuals today to take proactive steps towards holiness.
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Chapters:
(00:00) Introduction to Holiness in 2026
(01:48) The Cultural Shift Away from Holiness
(04:54) The Lies We Tell Ourselves About Holiness
(08:33) Radical Honesty and Commitment to Obedience
(11:42) Building a Holy Life Through Surrender
1096 - Why Men Are Quietly Returning to Church | ft. Jordan Hardum
16/02/2026 | 40 mins.
In this conversation, the speakers discuss the evolving role of men in the church and society, highlighting a resurgence of male attendance in churches and the challenges they face. They explore the changing dynamics of masculinity, the importance of spiritual leadership in the home, and the need for men to connect meaningfully with each other. The discussion also touches on the significance of fatherhood, the impact of technology, and the future direction of men's ministry, emphasizing the importance of community and discipleship.
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The Man Within Podcast is a faith-based show helping Christian men overcome their greatest battles—whether it’s breaking free from pornography, building stronger relationships, or discovering purpose.
Hosted by Sathiya Sam—coach, speaker, author, and founder of DeepClean™ Coaching—the podcast equips men with biblical truth, practical tools, and powerful testimonies to walk in confidence, integrity, and freedom.
With over 1 million downloads and past guests such as Dr. John Deloney, John Eldredge, Jon Gordon, Dr. Robert Glover, Ryan Miller, Colby Maier, Joshua Broome, Dr. Josh Axe, Jason Vallotton, Connor Beaton, Dr. Trish Leigh, Mike Signorelli, The Man Within Podcast has become one of the leading voices for men seeking lasting transformation.
If you’re tired of surface-level fixes and ready to grow, this podcast will challenge, inspire, and equip you to become the man God created you to be.
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