376. Why “Having It All” Is a Trap and What Women Really Need Instead with Alanna Kaivalya
What if success isn’t what makes you powerful but the freedom to finally feel satisfied? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Alanna Kaivalya, Ph.D., spiritual teacher and author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming Feminine Power. Alanna shares her perspective on why today’s women are burned out, emotionally depleted, and carrying an invisible weight of expectations. We talk about the lies women are sold in marriage, motherhood, and the workplace and how to begin untangling from them so you can live on your terms. This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to soften, heal, and reclaim her power. Resources Mentioned: Alanna’s book: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/book Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Alanna-Kaivalya/author/B00GU54W3A?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_8&qid=1730677121&sr=1-8&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true Alanna’s Starter Kit: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ What We Discuss: Alanna’s story and why her message is so timely for divorced moms The number one myth women are sold in marriage What patriarchy gets wrong about feminine energy Why the supermom narrative is destroying women’s health Navigating masculine vs. feminine energy after divorce Redefining success through the lens of satisfaction How to tell if you’re operating from the masculine Practical ways to reconnect with your feminine energy Boundaries, self-care, and the power of saying "no" Key Takeaways: “We’ve been taught to man up to survive, but our real strength is in softening.” – Alanna Kaivalya “Saying no is one of the most radical things a woman can do.” – Alanna Kaivalya Find more from Alanna Kaivalya: Website: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSatisfiedWoman Blog: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/blog Podcast: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/podcasts/the-satisfied-woman Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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375. How to Handle Mother’s Day When It Just Feels…Weird
What if Mother’s Day didn’t feel like a celebration but something you had to emotionally prepare for? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I get real about what it’s like to navigate Mother’s Day as a divorced mom. Whether you’re not with your kids this year, not being celebrated the way you used to be, or just feeling off, this one’s for you. I talk about the identity shifts, the unmet expectations, and the quiet grief that can creep in on a day that’s supposed to be joyful. I also share tangible ways to take your power back. From starting new traditions to planning solo time to asking for what you need (instead of waiting to be recognized), this episode is your reminder that you deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating. Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche What I Discuss: Why Mother’s Day can feel complicated after divorce Identity shifts, loneliness, and grieving what used to be When you’re not with your kids and it feels heavy Why you’re allowed to want acknowledgment (and how to ask for it) Planning something for yourself—even if it’s small Reclaiming the day and redefining celebration Key Takeaways: “You deserve to be celebrated even if you’re the one doing the celebrating.” – Amber Shaw “Mother’s Day can be beautiful and complicated at the same time.” – Amber Shaw “You’re allowed to ask for what you need. You don’t have to wait to be recognized.” – Amber Shaw Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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374. The Ugly Truth About Divorce, Parenting Plans & High-Conflict Exes with Samantha Boss
What if the parenting plan you're handed is the very thing that's keeping you stuck? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Samantha Boss, high-conflict divorce coach, mediator, and founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce. Samantha shares how her own eight-year legal battle, toxic co-parenting dynamic, and expensive missteps led her to create a business helping women avoid the same fate. From diapers to diplomas, she now helps moms draft rock-solid parenting plans that reduce stress, prevent courtroom chaos, and give them their power back. Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: Red flags, parallel parenting, and recognizing high-conflict dynamics Radical acceptance and letting go of courtroom warfare Why parenting plans should be created before hiring an attorney What every plan should include (but usually doesn’t) Getting the most value out of your attorney relationship Financial inequality, extracurriculars, and when to go back to court When to let go of toxic money and create your own abundance How starting her business changed her life (and income) Using your story to build something that matters Why pivoting is normal and necessary Key Takeaways: “Your parenting plan is a business contract. It’s not about feelings, it’s about clarity.” – Samantha Boss “The courtroom is not the place to heal your emotional wounds.” – Samantha Boss “You don’t have to win in court to win in life after divorce.” – Samantha Boss Find more from Samantha Boss: Website: www.samanthaboss.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theuglytruthofdivorce/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theuglytruthofdivorce YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TUTODwithsamboss Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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373. How Solo Trips Help You Heal After Divorce
What if the time you spend alone could be the thing that changes everything? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I share why every divorced mom needs a solo trip—not just as a luxury, but as a radical act of self-healing and personal power. I open up about my own post-divorce journey from emotional dependence and overdoing to discovering the peace, strength, and confidence that came from intentionally choosing to be alone. Resources Mentioned: Sign up for ReNewU waitlist to get early access: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche What I Discuss: Why I stayed at my ex-husband’s beach house for my solo trip My post-divorce struggle with being alone How emotional dependence and numbing showed up in my life Learning to love being alone and setting new dating standards The magic of solo vacations: freedom, presence, and total reset Why moms say they "can’t leave the kids" (and what’s really behind that) Tips for planning a stress-free solo getaway What to do when you’re there: rest, reflect, talk to strangers, unplug Key Takeaways: “Being alone wasn’t the hard part—facing myself was.” “Solo travel wasn’t selfish. It was the most healing thing I’ve ever done.” “You don’t need permission to rest. You just need to choose yourself.” Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
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372. How Divorce Pushed Single Mom Rochelle Moffitt to Create Flexible Income on Her Terms
What if your divorce was never meant to break you but to build the version of you that you were always meant to become? Today, I’m joined by Rochelle Moffitt, founder of the Tickled Pink Agency, who shares her story of going from a stay-at-home mom with no income to building a thriving, soul-led personal branding agency. We talk about what it really takes to start your own business after divorce, especially when you’re starting from scratch, facing financial stress, and second-guessing whether you have what it takes. If you’re wondering how to build something of your own while raising kids, navigating co-parenting, or juggling all the things, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join my signature coaching program, ReNewU, for divorced moms who want to create an online coaching business and make $2,000 - $5,000 per month (even if you have no idea where to start!): https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu What We Discuss: Starting messy, ditching perfection, and choosing speed Turning dyslexia into a business superpower How Rochelle built a business around motherhood and flexibility Simple branding tips for early-stage entrepreneurs Why done is better than perfect (especially when you're a new entrepreneur) How to balance business with being a single mom Rochelle’s secret to managing time and avoiding burnout The mindset shift from business owner to CEO SOPs, delegation, and getting out of your own way Revenue streams, retainer clients, and real money talk Why mentorship and community are non-negotiable Key Takeaways: “I didn't have a choice. I had to figure it out—and fast.” – Rochelle Moffitt “Perfection was never the goal. Momentum was.” – Rochelle Moffitt “Your story is the brand. The business grows from there.” – Rochelle Moffitt Find more from Rochelle Moffitt: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rochellemoffitt/ Website: tickledpink.agency Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rochelle.was.here/ Find more from Amber: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw
You’re divorced. Now let’s make your next chapter your best one.
Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who’s been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same.
This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn “moving on” into moving UP. Divorce isn’t the end—it’s your launchpad. Whether you’re rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that’s fully yours.
Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn’t just about starting over, it’s about leveling all the way up.
If you’re ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let’s do this.
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