The Divorce Revolution

Are you walking into the new year feeling excited… but also a little scattered about what you're actually focusing on in your business?    In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through how I plan Q1 as a coach—and how you can do the same in a way that feels intentional, realistic, and sustainable (especially as a divorced mom).    If you've been feeling reactive in your business, overwhelmed by what to focus on next, or unsure how to turn your goals into a real plan you can follow, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to Episode 439. How to Ask Powerful Coaching Questions That Lead to Real Client Transformations: https://ambershaw.com/podcasts/439-how-to-ask-powerful-coaching-questions/ Listen to Episode 399. How to Sell in the DMs Without Feeling Salesy or Awkward: https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/399-how-to-sell-in-the-dms-without-feeling-salesy-or-awkward/id1577282350?i=1000719468337 Listen to Episode 407. Why Your Posts Aren't Turning Into Clients (And What to Do Instead): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/407-why-your-posts-arent-turning-into-clients-and/id1577282350?i=1000723411614 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu   What I Discuss: 00:51 Why planning is essential if you don't want to run your business in survival mode 03:55 How to set realistic revenue goals based on where you actually are 06:16 Reverse-engineering your goals so you know exactly what needs to happen 11:53 Why consistency—not hustle—is what really moves the needle 14:46 Your Q1 homework   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever worried that you'll freeze in a coaching session because you don't know what to ask next? Or felt like you're not "experienced enough" to lead someone through a real breakthrough? This fear comes up all the time—especially for new coaches—and it's exactly why I wanted to record this episode.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down how to ask powerful coaching questions even when you don't feel ready, confident, or qualified yet. I talk openly about imposter syndrome, why coaching isn't about having perfect wording or giving advice, and how a few simple, intentional questions can create massive clarity and action for your clients. I also walk you through the three core types of coaching questions I use in my own sessions—and share several go-to questions you can literally steal and use right away.   If you've been feeling stuck in imposter syndrome, second-guessing yourself in sessions, or worried you don't know enough to be a "real" coach yet, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Check out ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/renewu   What I Discuss: 03:34 Why I'm shifting the podcast to focus more on solo episodes and real coaching skills 06:00 The imposter syndrome almost every new coach struggles with 07:46 What actually makes a coaching question "powerful" 11:04 The three types of questions every coach should be using 14:32 My favorite go-to questions when you don't know what to ask next    Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt the pressure to "have all the answers" as a coach? Or wondered what you're actually supposed to do in a coaching session to create real transformation? You're not alone—and the truth is, most new coaches misunderstand what coaching even is.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down the biggest myths around coaching, including why giving advice is not the core of what powerful coaches do. I share how real coaching helps clients build confidence, uncover their own solutions, and create sustainable results—without you jumping in to fix everything. I'm also giving you a behind-the-scenes look at what separates mentoring, counseling, and coaching so you can stay in your lane and show up with clarity and confidence.   If you've been feeling the pressure to "figure out what to say" or worrying you're not equipped to coach at a professional level, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Listen to Episode 435: How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs): https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/435-how-to-handle-breakdowns-in-a-coaching-session/id1577282350?i=1000739098630 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist   What I Discuss: 01:40 The biggest myth about coaching—and why it creates dependency 03:05 How real coaching helps clients uncover their own answers 06:17 Why powerful coaches don't jump to solutions 07:42 The difference between giving advice and facilitating transformation 09:28 Getting to the root of a client's struggle 10:09 Coaching vs. counseling—what's the real difference? 12:05 Your role as a coach (hint: it's not to fix people) 13:15 How clarity leads to action → leads to results 14:26 Why proven frameworks make you a more effective coach   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Do you ever get to the end of the year and feel like everything—your tech, your schedule, your offers, your emotions—needs a full reset? Like the tabs in your life are open in 17 different directions and your brain is basically running on expired coffee and vibes? Because… same.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the exact 4-step reset routine I do every single December to clear the clutter, ground my energy, and set myself up for a strong, aligned start to the new year.   Tune in for the reset I use as a coach and as a divorced mom to step into the next year with clarity, intention, and way less chaos.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:23 Why a year-end reset matters more than you think 01:42 Step 1: Clearing out your tech chaos so you can breathe again 03:33 What I archive, delete, and reorganize every December 06:09 Step 2: Reviewing your offers with honesty  07:24 The three questions I ask myself about every offer 09:46 Why I paused TikTok—even with nearly 300k followers 12:22 Understanding ROI beyond money 13:41 Step 3: Resetting boundaries before the new year 15:33 How loving your work can accidentally destroy your boundaries 17:06 Evaluating communication, hours, weekends, and work habits 17:55 Step 4: The emotional audit I do at the end of every year 18:42 What I'm proud of, what I learned, what needs to go, and who I'm becoming   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt like you've outgrown your life but you're not totally sure what comes next? Or maybe you've been craving deeper connection, more meaning, or a creative spark you haven't felt in years. What if the thing that helps you reinvent yourself… is actually something you've never even considered?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by award-winning podcaster Allison Hare, creator of The Reinvention Room, to talk about why podcasting is one of the most powerful (and underrated) tools for women—especially women rebuilding after divorce. We dig into burnout, loneliness, creativity, community, and the moment you realize you're not broken… you've just outgrown your container. Allison also shares her framework for creating a meaningful, sustainable podcast, how to find your unique voice, and why the podcast space is nowhere near as saturated as most people believe.   If you've been feeling stretched thin, craving a new chapter, or thinking about starting something of your own but don't know where to begin, this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Podcast Equipment Guide: https://allisonhare.com/equipment Free Clarity Call: https://go.allisonhare.com/45-min-call The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/   What We Discuss: 01:42 Why real human connection matters more than ever 03:33 How podcasting can become a powerful business asset 06:09 The balance between self-help and actually enjoying your life 07:24 Allison's story: leaving corporate America without a plan 21:26 What it really takes to build a podcast that lasts 23:56 The strategy behind creating a show people actually come back to 24:35 Finding your voice, your passion, and your unique niche 25:34 The surprising qualities that make someone a great podcaster 27:34 Allison's Four Ps Framework for launching a compelling show 33:28 Why podcasts are more influential than ever 37:08 Seven ways to monetize and use a podcast for your business 42:04 How to create deeper connection with your audience 45:14 What to know before starting your own podcast   Find more from Allison Hare: Website: https://allisonhare.com Quiz: https://allisonhare.com/quiz Podcast: https://allisonhare.com/podcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/allison__hare LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/allisonhare   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com