The Divorce Revolution

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a "nice conversation"?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We're moving out of fear and into evidence, and I'm sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026   What I Discuss: 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they're not actually helping their clients 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet) 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don't turn coaching into therapy or data collection 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Have you ever felt called to coach but noticed a quiet fear creeping in the moment you imagine actually doing it? Not just fear of being seen—but fear of messing it up, getting it wrong, or being exposed?   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm unpacking what's really underneath that fear so many new coaches feel. We talk about why confidence issues usually aren't about confidence at all, how coaching isn't about fixing people but guiding them, and why caring deeply can actually make the fear feel louder—not smaller. I also share how learning real coaching skills and structure changes everything, and why you don't have to eliminate fear before you start—you just need to understand it.   If you've been wanting to coach but keep hesitating because you're scared you'll do it wrong or won't be good enough, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026 The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 03:21 The deeper fears that show up as "confidence problems" 05:58 Why coaching isn't about fixing—but guiding 09:19 The fear of being exposed and what's really driving it 12:55 A free coaching bootcamp to help you build real skills 14:17 Final encouragement if fear has been holding you back   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

Today, I'm having a very real, very honest conversation with you about what it actually takes to build a coaching business that works—without sugarcoating it, especially if you want to start coaching this 2026. This is the kind of tough-love talk I wish someone had given me earlier, and I'm sharing it now because 2026 deserves a different version of you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 00:37 A tough-love truth about why you didn't hit your goals 01:49 Why winging it keeps your coaching business stuck 04:26 How fear and imposter syndrome actually show up (and slow you down) 07:00 Why confidence comes from structure and reps—not hype 13:11 Final motivation as you look ahead to 2026   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com

Have you ever looked at how much work you're doing in your coaching business and thought, "Why am I so busy but still not getting clients?" If so, this episode is going to hit home.   In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down something I see all the time with new (and even not-so-new) coaches: staying busy with tasks that feel productive, but don't actually move the needle. We talk about why talking to real humans can feel way more intimidating than creating content or Canva graphics, what I call "safe productivity," and why confidence as a coach doesn't come from posting more.   If you've been doing all the things but still feel stuck, avoiding real conversations, or wondering why your effort isn't translating into clients, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification   What I Discuss: 01:39 Why talking to real humans can feel scarier than posting content 04:38 The difference between safe productivity and real coaching work 08:11 How confidence is built through reps, structure, and practice 12:43 Final encouragement if you've been hiding behind busy work   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com 

In this episode, I talk about a question I hear all the time from women who want to coach but feel stuck: Do I need to be fully healed before I'm allowed to help someone else? Especially around the holidays—when emotions, reflection, grief, and hope can all collide—this doubt gets even louder.   If you've been feeling pulled to coach but keep stopping yourself because you're still healing, growing, or rebuilding, then this episode is for you.   Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach   What I Discuss: 00:54 Why the holidays can bring up doubt, reflection, and big questions about what's next 02:15 Feeling the desire to coach while still navigating your own growth 04:12 The self-doubt that stops so many women from getting started 09:03 Why structure, practice, and boundaries matter more than being "fully healed" 15:42 A free gift to help you take the next step without waiting for perfection   Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com