430. What Happens When the Divorce Lawyer Becomes the Client with Stacy D. Phillips
In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Stacy D. Phillips—celebrity divorce lawyer, author, and podcast host—to talk about what really changes when the lawyer becomes the client. Stacy shares openly about her two divorces, including one from an alcoholic partner, and how those experiences transformed not only her personal life, but how she practices law. We unpack everything from how addiction can silently warp a relationship, to why prenups matter more than you think, and the emotional cost of carrying everything on your own. Resources Mentioned: Divorce: It's All About Control: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/my-book The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 01:34 How going through divorce changed how Stacy practices law 02:43 The hard truths about our legal system (and what needs to change) 04:54 Why Stacy decided to stop playing small and start living unapologetically 06:40 The kind of support divorced women actually need 10:54 What healing really looks like when you're rebuilding your life 19:28 Getting back into relationships and why therapy matters 23:37 How to stay grounded when emotions and legal stuff collide 25:59 Why every woman should be talking about prenups (yes, really) 28:09 Letting go of control and learning to trust yourself again 30:55 The biggest lessons divorce taught us both 35:20 How to surround yourself with strong women who get it 39:33 Masculine vs. feminine energy—finding your balance Find more from Stacy D. Phillips: Website: https://www.stacydphillipsesq.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stacydphillipsesq/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stacydphillips Stacy D. Phillips Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4o0ZPJpeUiM4oO3XyQmcii Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
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429. How to Coach Without Feeling Like a Fraud
Ever wonder if you're really "qualified" to coach—or if you're just faking it till you make it? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down one of the biggest blocks new coaches face: imposter syndrome. You'll hear exactly why it shows up (hint: it's not because you're unqualified) and what you actually need to feel confident when leading a session. This episode is a must-listen if you've ever worried about saying the wrong thing, not knowing what to ask, or not having all the answers. Resources Mentioned: Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification What I Discuss: 00:22 Why imposter syndrome hits hard when you're just starting out 02:57 The real reason having structure makes you a better coach 05:29 Three simple shifts that'll boost your confidence (even if you're a new coach) 07:42 A peek at what's coming inside The Confident Coach Certification Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
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428. Avoid Getting Screwed (Again): What Every Divorced Woman Needs to Know Before Remarrying with Holly J. Moore
Thinking about getting remarried after divorce—but terrified of going through it all over again (and possibly getting screwed)? This conversation is packed with real talk, legal insight, and empowering truth bombs to help you protect your peace. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by powerhouse attorney Holly J. Moore, one of California's top family law experts, to talk about what every divorced woman must know before walking down the aisle again. We dive into the biggest legal mistakes women make during divorce, the hidden dangers of relying on monthly support checks, and why that emotional attachment to the house might cost more than you think. We also get real about prenups—why they're not just for millionaires, how they actually make your relationship stronger, and what to consider if you're a business owner or entrepreneur. Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification ReNewU Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ What We Discuss: 07:41 Why emotional decisions during divorce can cost you—literally 16:46 Let's talk prenups (yep, you probably need one) 25:20 Why financial independence = freedom 25:29 Dealing with self-doubt as a coach or business owner 25:51 Why you need a real business plan (not just a Canva logo) 26:32 Are online prenups legit? What to know before you hit submit 29:59 How to protect your business inside a prenup 31:11 The truth about what prenups actually do for your relationship 34:16 Legal stuff to handle after the divorce is final 44:01 Finding balance, boundaries, and a bit of sanity in a busy life Find more from Holly J. Moore: Website: www.moorefamilylawgroup.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hollyjmoore/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
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427. 3 Tips to Simplify Your Coaching Niche
Are you stuck in niche drama—second-guessing your messaging, tweaking your bio every other week, and wondering why you still feel unclear? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down why your niche feels so damn complicated and the three things you can do today to simplify it. I'm sharing the real reason you might be getting crickets on your content, why perfectionism is sabotaging your clarity, and how to reconnect with your purpose so you can finally feel confident about who you help and how. Whether you're just starting your coaching business or stuck in an endless niche spiral, this episode will help you get unstuck and take action. Resources Mentioned: Listen to The Confident Coach Secret Podcast Series: https://products.ambershaw.com/confident-coach The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification What I Discuss: 00:24 Why your niche might be keeping you stuck 01:16 What causes niche perfectionism and second-guessing 02:52 How to uncomplicate your niche with one simple shift 04:04 Why specificity is everything (especially online) 07:37 3 steps to simplify your niche today 20:32 Final tips + practical niche homework Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
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426. Don't Open the Dating App Until You Hear This: Dating After Divorce with Erica McKay
If the thought of swiping again makes you want to throw your phone across the room, this conversation is for you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Erica McKay—modern-day matchmaker, relationship realist, and founder of Erica Suzanne Matchmaking—for an honest and surprisingly uplifting convo on what dating after divorce really looks like. We talk about how to date with more intention (and way less pressure), why it's essential to focus on how you want to feel in your next relationship, and the power of doing the inner work before you hand over your number. Whether you're cautiously dipping a toe into dating apps or completely swearing them off, this episode will help you date slower, date smarter, and maybe even feel excited about love again. Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 05:00 Mistakes to avoid when rejoining dating apps 08:08 Erica's story: From divorce to finding real love again 11:22 Building a coaching business as a divorced mom 12:45 Why you should visualize how you want to feel, not just what you want 19:12 Why inner work is essential before reentering the dating pool 22:04 The power of saying "yes" to new experiences 24:52 Navigating new relationships post-divorce 28:12 Dating questions to ask early—and which ones to avoid 35:54 How to date slower and deeper 40:42 Alcohol on first dates: yay or nay? 42:34 How matchmaking works (and when to consider it) 46:11 Introducing Young Lux for 22–38 year-olds Find more from Erica McKay: Website: https://www.ericasuzanne.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
You're divorced. Now let's make your next chapter your best one.
Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who's been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same.
This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn "moving on" into moving UP. Divorce isn't the end—it's your launchpad. Whether you're rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that's fully yours.
Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn't just about starting over, it's about leveling all the way up.
If you're ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let's do this.
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