426. Don't Open the Dating App Until You Hear This: Dating After Divorce with Erica McKay
If the thought of swiping again makes you want to throw your phone across the room, this conversation is for you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Erica McKay—modern-day matchmaker, relationship realist, and founder of Erica Suzanne Matchmaking—for an honest and surprisingly uplifting convo on what dating after divorce really looks like. We talk about how to date with more intention (and way less pressure), why it's essential to focus on how you want to feel in your next relationship, and the power of doing the inner work before you hand over your number. Whether you're cautiously dipping a toe into dating apps or completely swearing them off, this episode will help you date slower, date smarter, and maybe even feel excited about love again. Resources Mentioned: The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 05:00 Mistakes to avoid when rejoining dating apps 08:08 Erica's story: From divorce to finding real love again 11:22 Building a coaching business as a divorced mom 12:45 Why you should visualize how you want to feel, not just what you want 19:12 Why inner work is essential before reentering the dating pool 22:04 The power of saying "yes" to new experiences 24:52 Navigating new relationships post-divorce 28:12 Dating questions to ask early—and which ones to avoid 35:54 How to date slower and deeper 40:42 Alcohol on first dates: yay or nay? 42:34 How matchmaking works (and when to consider it) 46:11 Introducing Young Lux for 22–38 year-olds Find more from Erica McKay: Website: https://www.ericasuzanne.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
--------
50:16
--------
50:16
425. From Lurker to Buyer: What Every Coach Should Know About Client Behavior
Ever wonder why someone watches your Stories every day, likes your posts, maybe even replies to a few but still hasn't signed up to work with you? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm walking you through the exact journey your ideal client is on—from the moment she first discovers you to when she finally decides to say yes. I break down the three key stages of the buyer's journey (Awareness, Consideration, Decision), how to tell which stage your audience is in, and how to use that insight to create content that actually moves people forward. If you've been feeling invisible or stuck wondering why no one's buying, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist What I Discuss: 00:20 Why understanding your client's buying journey matters more than ever 02:18 Stage 1: Awareness — the point where your client starts realizing there's a problem 04:03 Stage 2: Consideration — the stage where they're exploring options (but still hesitant) 06:34 Stage 3: Decision — what content helps them say YES 11:31 How to apply this journey to your messaging and content strategy 13:05 A reminder that knowing where your client is helps YOU sell with more ease Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
--------
13:54
--------
13:54
424. "How Does She Do It All?" Juggling Work, Motherhood, and Divorce Gracefully with Sarah Armstrong
Ever looked at another mom and thought, "How the hell is she juggling all that without falling apart?" In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm joined by Sarah Armstrong—author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce and The Art of the Juggling Act. Sarah is a powerhouse corporate leader, single mom, and author who knows firsthand what it means to manage two households, raise a daughter, keep a thriving career, and stay sane in the process. We go beyond the fluffy "you can have it all" advice and dig into the real strategies that make balance possible even when life feels anything but balanced. Resources Mentioned: The Art of The Juggling Act: https://thejugglingact.com/ The Mom's Guide to A Good Divorce: https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/order The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ What We Discuss: 03:44 The self-care non-negotiables and friendship boundaries that keep burnout at bay 07:04 The surprising daily habits that make "juggling it all" actually work 09:54 What inspired her to write The Art of the Juggling Act—and why it's not just for working moms 13:29 Navigating two households with grace (and minimal chaos) 19:19 What Sarah calls "The Great Consolidation"—and how it helped her reframe post-divorce life 22:13 Where your time really goes and how to get some of it back 23:59 The mindset shift that helped her stop feeling guilty about working 25:31 "Decompression zones": what they are and how they can transform your evenings 27:26 The real challenges of working from home as a single mom and how to manage them 29:25 How she handles those school volunteer requests without drowning in mom guilt 42:52 Practical, realistic advice every single mom needs to hear Find more from Sarah Armstrong: Website: https://thejugglingact.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
--------
47:09
--------
47:09
423. The Easiest Way to Land Clients (That Most New Coaches Ignore)
Most new coaches pour all their energy into social media—posting, tweaking their bios, trying to grow their following—yet still struggle to land clients. Here's the truth: your next client might already know you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm sharing one of the most underrated ways to start signing clients fast without relying solely on Instagram. We'll talk about how to confidently tap into your personal network, ask for referrals without feeling weird or salesy, and create a client experience that naturally leads to word-of-mouth growth. If you've been feeling stuck trying to grow online and just want a simpler, more natural way to attract your first few clients, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Loom: https://www.loom.com/ What I Discuss: 01:01 How to leverage your personal network without feeling awkward 05:18 Simple ways to create a referral system that actually works 08:55 What makes a coaching experience "referral-worthy" 13:55 Next steps to start signing clients and build momentum fast Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
--------
15:03
--------
15:03
422. Why Divorce Recovery Takes Longer Than You Think with Leah Mazur
Ever catch yourself wondering why you're still healing, even years after your divorce? There's a reason for that and it goes deeper than you think. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with divorce recovery coach Leah Mazur to unpack what really happens after divorce—the hidden emotional and physical toll that lingers long after the paperwork is done. We talk about how to move from survival mode to feeling safe again, tools to manage co-parenting triggers, and how to make self-care realistic when life already feels full. If you've been feeling frustrated that healing is taking longer than you thought it would, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: The Next Chapter Membership: https://www.samandleah.com/services The New Woman Within Course: https://www.mindfullyready.com/newwomanwithin Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 00:44 Why your nervous system stays in survival mode long after divorce 05:04 How to protect your peace when your ex still triggers you 06:39 The truth about self-care when you're a single mom doing it all 11:04 How Leah became a coach 27:54 Why journaling can help you uncover what still needs healing 28:40 How AI can actually help you process emotions and get unstuck 30:43 Why you may never be "fully over it" 32:48 What healthy co-parenting really looks like 38:43 The wake-up call every divorced woman needs about money 43:32 What it really takes to start a coaching business after divorce 46:15 Resources and communities that help women rebuild with confidence Find more from Leah Mazur: Leah Mazur's links: https://linktr.ee/mindfullyready Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
You're divorced. Now let's make your next chapter your best one.
Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who's been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same.
This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn "moving on" into moving UP. Divorce isn't the end—it's your launchpad. Whether you're rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that's fully yours.
Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn't just about starting over, it's about leveling all the way up.
If you're ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let's do this.
Ireland