Blended

Should I choose my child or my new partner?

This week on Blended, Kate, Cilla and Nathalie tackle a dilemma from a dad. Eighteen months after splitting from his wife, he has a new partner and a baby. Now his 15 year old says she won't be a bridesmaid at his sister's wedding if his partner comes, and his family are taking her side. Should he stand by his partner, or go without her?

The ladies debate whether children need more time to accept a parent's new relationship, whether your child should ever be able to dictate if your partner attends family events and, ultimately, who comes first when your child and your new partner are asking you to choose.

Plus, the great child free wedding debate, and things get heated when Kate, Cilla and Nathalie realise they definitely don't agree on whether you should ever go to a wedding without your partner!

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Was I right to leave?

This week on Blended, Kate, Cilla and Nathalie tackle a dilemma from a mum who left her blended family after feeling that her partner consistently prioritised his 12-year-old daughter, leaving her to care for their two younger children alone. But was walking away the right decision?

The ladies debate whether all children should be treated equally in a blended family, how couples can share the mental load and what happens when you're still questioning a decision you've already made.
Plus, Rio Ferdinand makes an unexpected appearance to share his rather controversial thoughts on why women end up doing more at home...!

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How do I support my partner with stepson's illness?

This week's dilemma comes from a stepmum whose stepson has a progressive illness. Her marriage is running on empty, and now her husband wants a baby because he's scared of the future. Is a baby hope, or a decision made from fear?

Kate Ferdinand and Cilla Kessie are joined by the incredible Orin Lewis OBE, cofounder and CEO of ACLT. Orin met Beverley just as her son Daniel was diagnosed with leukaemia, and in that moment he chose to stay. He tells us how their paths crossed years before they met, how he brought four children together, and why he has always been proud to say "stepdad," never "dad." This year ACLT celebrates 30 years. Since 1996, Orin and Beverley have put more than 250,000 people through the register and found around 300 lifesaving donors, all in Daniel's name.

To join the stem cell register or give blood, visit aclt.org and follow @ACLTCharity.

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Are we all counting down to bedtime?

A listener loves her children deeply but admits motherhood isn't what she expected, leaving her wondering whether other mums feel the same way.

Kate Ferdinand, Cilla Kessie and Nathalie Holmes-Lewis discuss the reality of raising young children, from exhaustion and counting down to bedtime to mum guilt, anxiety and comparing the parent you thought you'd be with the one you actually are. They also discuss why being a stepmum to older children can feel completely different from becoming a biological mum to babies and toddlers.

And, as always, the conversation goes somewhere unexpected, with the ladies debating kids in pyjamas, bonnets in public and the parenting choices they secretly judge.

Is it time we were more honest about how hard motherhood can actually be?
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Season 6 of Blended is here and Kate Ferdinand, Cilla Kessie and Nathalie Holmes-Lewis are back together for a much needed catch-up.

There’s no listener dilemma this week, but don’t worry, they’re not going anywhere. Instead, the ladies take some time to reflect on where they are right now, from body image and the things they’re learning to appreciate about themselves, to the pressure of always wanting something more.

Are we ever truly happy with what we have, or are we always looking towards the next thing? It’s a warm and honest heart to heart about gratitude, accepting yourself and taking a moment to recognise what’s already good before rushing onto what’s next.

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